Have you ever wondered why there are single dominant women …
Nice, humane, interesting dominant women …
Who don’t appear to be monsters or fools …
Who are single and wondering why they can’t meet a submissive guy who matches their needs?
Originally posted 2008-01-09 16:35:25. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Have You Ever Wondered
Female Led Relationships - Dominant Women, Submisive Men, Female Supremacy, Woman Worship, Wifedom
Mistress Wife / Slave Husband Contract
More Jay Em M/f art.
Be it known that this agreement (“Agreement”) is entered
into on the __st day of ___, 2000 between [FULL NAME OF
OWNER/WIFE] (herein referred to as “[Owner]“), and [FULL
NAME OF SLAVE/HUSBAND] (herein referred to as “[slave]“).
[Owner] and [slave] currently reside at [COMPLETE ADDRESS].
Whereas, this Agreement is to further reinforce and confirm
terms already specified under other existing agreements
already made between [Owner] and [slave]. Both [Owner] and
[slave] hereby state that they have consensually entered
into a non-traditional marital relationship and have
happily and successfully lived as Wife and husband, for
more than one year, under the terms and obligations as
generally described in this Agreement. Both [Owner] and
[slave] hereby emphasize that even though this Agreement
and other agreements may appear to those outside of the
relationship to provide great benefit to [Owner] and little
benefit to [slave], both have fully consented, of their own
free will, to the terms and obligations described in this
Agreement. Both [Owner] and [slave] hereby state that they
both strongly desire to continue this non-traditional
marital relationship and expect that this Agreement shall
be legally enforced in a court of law should that become
necessary.
[Owner] and [slave] hereby agree to the following terms:
Property and Income Ownership: Any and all forms of
property, income and assets which have come into the
possession of either [Owner] or [slave] have become the
exclusive property of [Owner]. Any and all forms of
property, income and assets which is acquired by either
[Owner] or [slave] at any time in the future shall
immediately, upon receipt, become the the exclusive
property of [Owner]. [slave] currently owns nothing and has
surrendered any and all of his future ownership rights to
[Owner], for the reminder of his life.
Property and Income Use: [Owner], at Her option and
discretion, may permit [slave] the use of any of Her
property and income. Such permission may be modified or
revoked as [Owner] sees fit, at any time.
Obligation to Obey: [slave] shall unconditionally and
cheerfully obey every one of [Owner]‘s commands and wishes
and shall, at all times, conduct himself within the rules
set forth by [Owner]. [slave] has surrendered all of his
personal freedoms to [Owner]. The only personal freedoms
permitted for [slave] are those which [Owner] may
graciously choose to allow him, at Her discretion.
Scope of Control: [slave] has surrendered to [Owner]
complete and unconditional control over all aspects of his
life including, but not limited to: Financial matters;
Personal matters; Professional matters; Social matters; And
legal matters (to the furthest extent permitted by law).
Punishment Actions: [Owner] has been given all rights to
punish [slave] in any way in which She desires, for any
reason that She feels is appropriate, at any time, and at
Her discretion. [Owner] shall not be required to
demonstrate to [slave] that any punishment action is
justified. [slave] shall to do his best to avoid punishment
by always striving to please and obey [Owner] and to always
strive to conduct himself within the rules set forth by
Her. [slave] shall cheerfully submit to any punishment
prescribed by [Owner] without hesitation.
Disputes or Disagreements: Any disputes or disagreements
that [slave] may have with [Owner] shall, by default,
automatically resolve to the favor of [Owner]‘s position.
[Owner] may, at Her discretion, graciously allow [slave]‘
position to be heard, but [Owner]‘s final decisions shall
indeed be final and [slave] will cheerfully and
unconditionally abide by them.
Appeals Process: There exists no appeals process available
to [slave]. [slave] is bound to cheerfully and
unconditionally obey every one of [Owner]‘s final
decisions, rules, commands, wishes, and desires.
Sexual Relationship: The only sexual pleasures [slave] is
permitted to enjoy shall be those which [Owner] chooses to
provide him or chooses to allow him to experience at Her
direction. [slave] shall keep [Owner]‘s sexual needs and
desires as his highest priority and he will constantly
strive to please Her in every way. [slave] shall not
purposely provide himself physical sexual stimulation in
any form without [Owner]‘s explicit permission to do so.
Monogamy and Chastity: [slave] shall remain completely and
faithfully monogamous to [Owner] in every sense of the
word. [Owner] may, at Her discretion, require [slave] to
wear a locked chastity device to ensure his monogamy and to
help him to develop further into a better and more pleasing
sexual partner for [Owner]‘s benefit.
Control of Body: [Owner] has absolute control over
[slave]‘ body in every way. This includes, but is not
limited to, [Owner]‘s rights to, at Her discretion: Control
what enters his body (as in eating and drinking); Control
what leaves his body (as in urination and defecation);
Adorn his body (as in choice of clothing and jewelry); Mark
his body (as in tattoos, bruises, welts, cuts and
abrasions); Modify his body (as in piercings, punctures,
brands, cuttings and scarification); Cause sensations to
his body (as in the infliction of pleasure and pain); And
maintain his body (as in weight and health issues). [slave]
shall unhesitatingly make his body completely accessible to
[Owner], without restriction, at Her request, for any
purpose She desires.
Separation or Divorce: If a separation or divorce should
occur, [slave] shall remain completely bound, in every way,
by the terms of this and all other agreements made between
[Owner] and [slave]. [slave] has completely surrendered any
and all of his rights against [Owner], including any rights
to: Attempt to contest any such action taken by [Owner];
Seek alimony, property division or property ownership; Or
to seek personal freedoms of any kind for himself. Any and
all forms of future income or future property acquired by
[slave] shall immediately be turned over to [Owner] and
shall belong exclusively to Her. This may be accomplished,
at [Owner]‘s discretion, through: Direct-deposit of
[slave]‘s funds into Her accounts; Depositing all checks and
cash received by [slave] into Her accounts; Or by signing
over all checks received by [slave] to be payable only to
Her. [Owner] may then, at Her discretion, provide [slave]
with a small living allowance as She sees fit. If a
separation or divorce should occur, [slave] shall continue
to unconditionally and cheerfully obey every one of
[Owner]‘s commands, wishes and rules just as if they were
not separated or divorced, for the rest of his life or
until [Owner] chooses to release him from this obligation.
[Owner] shall retain all of Her rights, in all forms, over
[slave] as She sees fit. Specifically, [Owner] shall retain
the right to direct [slave] in all aspects of his life, at
Her discretion, and [slave] shall not enter into a
relationship with another person without first obtaining
explicit permission from [Owner] to do so.
Transfer of Rights: [Owner] has the option of transferring
any and all of Her rights over [slave] to anyone of Her
choosing, at Her discretion. This may be done by [Owner] in
the form of either a temporary or a permanent assignment of
Her rights. [slave] shall be fully obligated to the person
designated by [Owner] in any way that She chooses to
obligate him. Should [Owner] become deceased before
transferring Her rights over [slave] to a designated
person, [slave] shall not enter into a close or intimate
relationship with another person for the rest of his life
and he shall continue to, at all times, conduct himself
according to the commands, wishes and rules that [Owner]
had previously specified for him to obey.
Consideration: In consideration for this Agreement,
[Owner] has already paid [slave] the sum of one dollar upon
the signing of the original Pre-Marital Agreement on [date]
and that this consideration applies to this
Agreement as well. [slave] wishes to state that further
non-monetary consideration has been very generously given
to him by [Owner] through his continuing opportunity to
have had the privilege to live his life within the terms of
what he considers to be an ideal marital relationship under
[Owner]‘s very capable direction. [Owner] and [slave] fully
understand the nature of this Agreement, into which they
both have voluntarily and of their own free will entered,
without any form of undue duress, force, compulsion,
intimidation, pressure, persuasion or coercion from the
other party. [Owner] and [slave] feel that this
consideration is entirely fair and equitable to both
parties.
Enforcement: This Agreement shall be enforced with the
laws of the State of [state]. Both [Owner] and [slave]
acknowledge that they have had an opportunity to seek the
advice of legal counsel and that they are entering into
this Agreement voluntarily and of their own free will. This
Agreement was drafted by [slave], with the consent and
consultation of [Owner]. Neither party shall be entitled to
claim the benefit of ambiguity resulting from its drafting.
[slave] has specifically waived any and all of his rights
against [Owner] to invalidate this Agreement due to claims
of spouse abuse, enslavement (or for any such related
reason) and shall never attempt to bring legal action of
any kind against Her regarding such claims.
Default: If either party defaults in the performance of
any terms, provisions or obligations herein set forth, and
it becomes necessary to institute legal proceedings to
effectuate the performance of any provisions of this
agreement, then [slave] shall pay all expenses, including
attorney fees, incurred in connection with such enforcement
proceedings. [slave] shall continue to be obligated to the
terms of this Agreement during the time that any such legal
proceeding takes place until he is relieved from this
obligation by a court of law.
Termination of Agreement: This Agreement shall remain in
effect until it is revoked, rescinded, canceled or
terminated by [Owner] or until [slave] dies. Should [Owner]
exercise Her option to transfer Her rights under this
agreement to another person, [slave] shall be obligated to
the person designated by [Owner] until the designee
revokes, rescinds, cancels or terminates this Agreement or
until [slave] dies. [slave] has no rights whatsoever to
revoke, rescind, cancel or terminate this Agreement under
any circumstances.
Changes or Modifications: This Agreement may be changed or
modified only by [Owner], at Her discretion. Should [Owner]
exercise Her option to transfer Her rights under this
Agreement to another person, only the person designated by
[Owner] may change or modify this Agreement. [slave] has no
rights whatsoever to change or modify this Agreement under
any circumstances.
Understanding of Agreement: Each party fully understands
the terms of this Agreement and the terms represent and
constitute the entire understanding between them. Any
portion of this Agreement found to be legally invalid or
unenforceable shall not affect the remainder of this
Agreement. Each party has read this Agreement and finds it
to be in accordance with Her and his understanding and each
voluntarily affixes Her or his signature in the presence of
the witnesses indicated below.
IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties hereto have executed this
Agreement.
Signed this ______ day of ____________________, 20____.
Witnessed:
_______________________ ______________________________
Witness [FULL NAME OF OWNER/WIFE]
_______________________ ______________________________
Witness [FULL NAME OF SLAVE/HUSBAND]
Originally posted 2012-09-29 08:48:13.
Femdom Marriage Contract
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
My twitter feed will alert you to the publication of new notes on Female Led Relationships. Actually it streams updates of all my F/m, BDSM and kinky sites.
Subscribe to Female Led Relationships Twitter Feed.
Originally posted 2010-07-23 15:01:08.
Female Led Relationships on Twitter
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Like many guys I was enchanted by fashion ads that were suggestive of female dominance and male submission. I accumulated a bunch of them. For a time I was posting them elsewhere.
I’m dumping the F/m fashion advertisements that I have left here.
Originally posted 2010-10-14 12:17:59.
Female-Led Fashion Ad Photographs
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Authentic Male Submission to Feminine Divinity
A dominant woman writes to a an aspirant:
know you were surprised when I invited you to my home. It was not a spontaneous decision. I had carefully observed you in chat and sensed an authentic sincerity. I am blessed with the ability ( and experience!) to sense things about people. Obviously your energy and desire to serve moved me in making a decision to allow you the chance at your dream. At the same time I have learned to be stern and cautious when allowing people to penetrate my world. Many look into the windows of the front room yet are clueless to what is really happening in the back room behind closed doors. My needs are complex and my demands are carried out in such a way to avoid misunderstandings. I feel that my power is a gift and only privy to those who earn the right. For this reason I introduce a slave carefully into my life.
Sincerity is important and yet so many confuse what it really means. Becoming a “good” slave means having the ability to give unconditional. A true slave will fully realize his/her dream only through this unconditional servitude. It is bound by commitment and constantly being challenged. A slave must be a strong human who truly considers life’s conditions and yet gladly submits to a mystery in order to uncover the ultimate commitment: The journey of soul. A wise manconsiders all in the unknown and proudly steps forward willing to accept it’s fate.
This can be a semi-unconscious act and not yet fully realized. The call can be simple base human desire and yet the compulsion is so great that it drives a true slave forward. A slave is a warrior who accepts the call within his/her heart and commitments to it’s discovery, knowing that it will not be an easy journey.
I believe, in the scope of female domination, that a true slave is compelled to serve. Insofar that they are willing to suffer in order to prove thyself. Even the darkest of moments will unveil truths about the nature of their journey, a journey which even the wisest of men have traveled.
A man ( or woman ) who attempts this journey only to seek sexual gratification will always leave the path feeling empty. Sex and desire is a wonderful sensation yet without the other components it will leave them empty. They will create a fantasy script filled with expectations only blind themselves of the true power of complete submission. Any slave who enters the Queendom of Female Supremacy with fantasy expectations will find themselves running in circles, for it is only through complete and total submission, without expectations, that one can find absolute truth of their nature.
A Woman is a divine creature of the universe. Her needs are emotional, spiritual and to often forgiving. No Woman is born into knowing her power. It is discovered and fed by the unconditional love of her consorts. The man who expects a Woman to cater to his fantasies is a man who will continue on the circle to nowhere. The man who gives completely and fully will earn the trust and devotion of the Woman. In doing so she will then consider his needs if she feels they are constructive to his nature and the world. A Woman/Domina looks at the whole picture unselfishly and considers the repercussions of ALL her actionsushe then teaches according insuring a constant balanced process that enhances all.
So many men complain about women not understanding their innate power and acting on it and yet these same men contribute to the process of patriarchy without realizing it. Ego and sexual fantasy can be an addiction they can often find comfort in because the male psyche is trained to associate sex with love. Because men are not taught to love as women, they need the physicality of sex in order to actually feel love. This is a flaw and base human act that must be overcome in order to fully appreciate the aspects of submission. Even though pleasure, of all kinds, is an aspect of Goddess she is a cruel Mistress demanding full and unconditional respect before she will unveil her mysterious passions.
When a man learns about unconditional love he can then fully experience the aspect of the feminine.
The process is disguised and often confused because the task demanded are designed to chisel the machismo and reveal the true nature of his soul. As a diamond in the rough he is polished until his brilliance can be displayed as honorable. He anticipates her needs knowing that in doing so he will fulfill his own. A man who seeks this path is a man who forsakes all other teachings because he is compelled to do so.
This man does not sit about waiting for instruction. If he does he will be waiting forever. The seed of dominance must be seduced and fed. It may lie dormant within a powerful Woman waiting for the privileged soul to arrive. Just as a slave awaits the power of dominance to penetrate it’s existence, a Domina awaits an open door that allows her the full freedom to express her power without instruction. It is therefore up to the slave to prepare himself, being the most that he can be so he can be that for her. In doing so he allows her the ability to discover her own power.
Many complain that she is not acting on her own pleasure. Perhaps she is not because she doesn’t realize her full power. The process is two fold and both slave and Domina must be involved in a process of seduction/pursuit. Still, it is in my opinion that if a male chooses this path that he be willing to fully give to the greater good of all and to the dream of Matriarchy. If not then he is not a prince to our cause therefore not entitled to unfold the mystery.
So how is this done? My time is limited, however it is the unconditional love of this man that prompts me to explain our intentions.
When a man provides comfort and security: comfort in attending to her needs, the common task she is burden with on a daily basis. Cleaning, fixing and attending to frustrating chores. Comfort that is non-sexual yet it allows her the freedom to do the things she so desires. Comfort that leaves her worry free. No matter the task she is left to fully live her femininity and express her creativity. She can relax into the comfort of knowing that her needs are well attended.
Security in knowing that while discovering her power she will continue to receive devotion and unconditional love. Security in knowing that tomorrows will pass with a certainty that the one who devotes will continue to prove their devotion. Security that leads to trust and the continuance of respect, adoration and the love sought. No matter her trails and tribulations he will accept his vow to serve her at any capacity she sees fit.
The nature of Woman is compassionate and nurturing. It is innately inbred in her to provide and co-create. When her power is revealed she begins to learn the honor and respect of having such power. It is not a masculine process in that it must always fulfill the purpose of patriarchy but to aid the total reformation of matriarchy- That which condones pure and true balance on our planet.
In all her aspects, Woman can be appreciated, for it is all of these aspects that create movement on our planet. Her darkness is light and in the heart of a true slave she is flourished with power that will create a domino affect lending to the process of matriarchy. That which those of us all strive to be a part of. That which will never happen as long as SHE must conform to patriarchy.
It is the responsibility of any male who chooses this path to unselfishly commitment to her service. No matter her nature or current venerability’s, no matter her sexual preference of needs at that moment, it is his duty, if he is a true prince of matriarchy, to provide a structure in which she is able to grow and flourish. If in fact he is a true prince of matriarchy he will naturally feel honor in her service even if she is not a dominant Woman, for it is the nature of the feminine that he worships and serves.
BDSM is only a flavor of choice and one that has stumbled into our tradition or vise versa. The sexual aspects of BDSM are enticing for both man and Woman and yet it is the not the core element of Female Supremacy. It compares to the traditional teachings and rituals once used in our past as it invokes it’s primal call into the consciousness of our men through sexual fantasy. Those who truly know will begin to discover that it is not true Female Supremacy nor will they confuse the sexual overtones of BDSM with Female Supremacy. It is simply a tool be it for pleasure or reconditioning of the male.
The Woman exercises her right to pleasure through her full exploration of all of life’s processes. To know and “own” her pain and the pain of her sisters and to understand the defeats of man. To not accuse every man but also know that his suffering is due to her suffering even if his actions are programmed by an unconscious force. She in turn begins, with the devotion of her counterpart, to fully realize her rightful place in this world. By doing so she will naturally accepts pleasure against the rule know as patriarchal sin.
Woman Worshiper, hears this call and is willing, thus far to take the necessary steps in order to unveil this truth. He is prepared to encounter whatever acts bestowed upon him in order to prove that he is worthy of entrance into the Queendom of the Divine Feminine. Deep questions will naturally arrive and uncertainty is absolute. If this path is truly one that beckons him he will always return even if he swaysueach time with more vigor and determination. His choice isu will it be now, later or never.
The path is long, hard and at times unforgiving. We already experience this with life. Why not sacrifice for what truly calls you?
(From a Female Supremacist discussion group. The source links are defunct.)
Honest Male Worship of Woman as Supreme & DIvine
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Ritualizing Male Slave Behavior
By Manslave
As a believer in Female Supremacy i acknowledge that Women – the superior gender – have a need and desire to take control of their property/slaves/men for training, inspection, demonstration, amusement or whatever reasons they desire. Owning a man should be delightful for Women and this brief guide will give You some ideas on how to handle a male. Here is a brief Owners Guide for Women regarding male slave positions. These positions are designed to be implemented immediately and work best with a nude male. The idea in controlling a slave is to have him fall in to position with the snap of a finger and the mention of the one word “slave position”
Inspect: This position is for basic slave inspection in which the male slave – nude – stands at attention, legs spread approximately 18″, up on his toes, hands-behind-his-head. This position provides his Owner/Woman with full access to the slave. He can be walked around for full inspection and being kept on his toes makes the slave fully aware of his status. This is also an ideal position for allowing other Women to review and inspect the slave. The slight arch in his back from his elevated toe position lends to allowing better inspection of his cock and genitals and allows Women owners to attach cock rings, genital locks, chastity belts and training devices.
Instruct: In this position the slave sits before his owner, legs spread, hands at his side, palms up. The slave’s legs are bent and his genitals fully in view. This is an excellent position for his owner to sit in a chair before him for verbal instruction/indoctrination. Perhaps if his Owner wishes to read long passages of text with regard to radical feminism or point out the failures of men she can do so with the male in this position.
Knees: The male kneels before his Owner/Woman with hands bound behind his head. The slave – sometimes hooded and gagged – offers total obedience. His genitals are exposed, often caught in a cock ring, and ready for inspection, collaring or punishment. In this position the Female can grab the slave’s collar and hold him in position as She uses crop, whip or other disciplinary device.
Gor: Basic position of a slave. The male is kneeling, legs spread, back straight, hands on knees – palms up. The male keeps his chin up but eyes are always downcast. This is a punishment position and one that can be uncomfortable for the slave after a short while.
Back: Either pointing to the floor or the bed this position puts the slave on his back ready for the sexual needs or desires of his Owner/Woman. The slave should be erect, fully aroused and know it is his responsibility to service his owner whether she decides to mount him at mouth or cock.
Tongue: This position simply demands the slave to fall in to position so the slave’s tongue is able to best serve the Woman. This is for cunnilingus and the slave’s comfort is not an issue at this point. The only issue relevant to the slave is how well he is doing in pleasing his owner.
Toes: In this position the slave is on his knees, hands before him for balance, legs spread and ass up and open for Mistress’ pleasure. The slave’s head is forward and lowered, his lips placed delicately and respectfully on the toes or toe of Her shoe for reverential toe kissing. From this position Mistress can hold the slave’s leash and enjoy his absolute obedience and surrender.
Nose: In this position – used primarily for punishment or keeping a slave in position – a slave stands nude, on his toes, facing a wall, his nose delicately holding a ping pong ball in place against a wall. The danger for the slave is if the ball slips and falls to the floor. This failure usually leads to punishment. The slave’s wrists are bound behind his back and his cock – while free – must remain erect though he must be careful not to allow any pre-cum to touch the wall. Definitely a crisis for a slave.
Whip: This is a punishment position. The slave nude is marched in to a punishment area by Owner/Woman and then instructed to bend over and grab ankles. In this position head is down and ass is up to allow for whipping, cropping, paddling and beating.
Obey: Collared male kneels at side of Owner/Woman as She holds his leash. One knee is on the floor, leg spread out behind him, foot resting with toes out. Other leg is at chest, head lowered, hands at side for stability. This position works well for Mistress to stop and chat with others while slave knows his place.
Head: Abject obedience and surrender in this position. Slave is nude, crouched over, kneeling with forehead touching ground. Hands are placed before him, palms down. He is rock solid still and does not move a muscle until instructed by his Owner/Mistress.
OTK: For the Woman who enjoys a painful, strict and humiliating over-the-knee spanking for Her slave. The slave carefully drapes himself over Her legs, hands before him to steady himself as She locks his cock between Her legs and then uses hair brush, crop, paddle, and other torture devices.
Bow: The nude male stands before his Owner/Woman, hands secured behind his back, head bowed. The mistress has full control of the slave and this position is excellent for a slave’s initial inspection. This position also works well for collaring and leashing of the slave. In this position the slave should be erect and understand he is being judged and graded. The slave should show the utmost surrender and docility in this position. The Mistress is fully in control and asserting Her dominance and authority over him in this position.
Slut: male on his knees, head down, legs spread, hands behind pulling open his ass for Owner/Mistress’ inspection and insertion. The slave is always erect in this position and is ready for strap-on/dildo training/humiliation.
Auction: Similar to Inspect, this position is used for auctioning off male slaves. The slave is stripped, nude, legs spread, arms out straight at a fifteen degree angle, palms up.
Postures & Positions for Male Slaves (F/m Protocols)
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Varieties of Testicle & Phallus Torment
By C
When I have a slave by the balls, I really mean it. Maybe I should explain. One of My favorite activities with male slaves is the art of exquisite penis torture. I don’t mean a slap or two, but real torture, from mild to severe. I have never castrated a slave . at least, not physically! One of My favorite victims even devises rating scales for Me to use.
I always start a penis torment session with a good warm.up. This gets everyone in the mood. I like to start with some bondage . maybe the wall rack, or over My bondage chair. Then I begin with a liberal spanking with My leather.gloved hand. This progresses to a paddle, maybe the wooden one with the air holes, then on to the crop or flog. By this time, everyone is certainly in the right spirit. I might add to the mood with some biting clamps added to my victim’s tits. I love to see a grown man cry!
I sometimes begin the main event with some tight rope bondage; I love the way penis skin bulges between the ropes. It’s fun to use rawhide strips to tie the penis and balls into positions nature never intended. Penis suspension is an activity that comes to mind when rope is used. I attach several ropes and run them in different directions to add stress.
I like to vary the intensity of the torments so the training can last longer. So a little playful slapping might be in order at this time. I slap the penis and the balls, individually or together. Sometimes I wear My leather gloves for this, sometimes I just use the gloves themselves for the slapping. I also have a thin little leather ball slapper that really works nicely. Slapping is good to bring more blood into the balls so that sensitivity is enhanced. After all, I want My prisoner to feel My further torments as much as possible. The slapping can be done by itself or in conjunction with other fun things, like tight bondage or suspension. It’s also fun to alternate the slapping with other penis torture activities. After all, it’s important to keep maximum sensitivity up for the entire training period!
It’s fun to tie the balls tightly together as other things are done to the penis. Rope can be used as the ultimate ball spreader. A leather ball spreader can be used, but I prefer rope. A ball press will also work well for giving them that pretty purple color. The balls can be tightly bound and then attached to the neck collar with the same rope. This exposes a whole new territory of sensitive skin, almost untouched on the male. The
area under the balls, in front of the asshole, is one of My favorite spots to inflict wicked torments. A whip or riding crop applied liberally to this area will instill new meaning in the slave’s vocabulary of pain. Also, a good scrubbing with a stiff brush will revitalize this spot amazingly.
Clothespins are a wonderful invention. I like to use the wooden spring type on the fans of heavy torment. But I guess it’s OK to cop.out and use the little plastic ones. At least, they are colorful and attractive. Balls sporting a handful of the plastic clothespins look like an exotic colorful flower. Anyway, I like to use the wooden ones. I apply a few at a time to the balls. I like to gradually work up a slave’s tolerance for quantity and amount of time worn. So far, My champion has sported seventy five clothespins on his balls for five minutes. The maximum achieved on the penis so far is twelve for ten minutes. One of the best spots for a tight clothespin on the penis is the frenum, that stretch of pink sensitive skin on the underside, right beneath the head. It’s fun to watch a slave hop, dance, howl and plead when this is done. The time limit it can be tolerated is minimal, several minutes at the most.
Another low intensity activity is lotion. Well, that depends on the type of lotion, I suppose. I’m talking about the cool, soothing type. I usually use something with aloe in it; even a gel works nicely. It’s fun to tease My victim with hand applications of slippery creams. This, too, will increase the sensitivity of the penis. It is designed to enhance the further tortures to come. It is surprising how sensitive five minutes or so of hand massage with slick lotion can make an otherwise inattentive penis.
Rawhide strips are so very versatile in the art of penis torture. It is fun to tie one end of a long strand around the balls, then wind the rawhide slowly and tightly up the shaft. The tighter this is done, the better. Again, I get the visual effect of tiny pinches of skin bulging between the strands. Of course, it’s best to get the wraps as close together as possible with no overlapping. Then I like to perform the rawhide whirl. I grasp the loose end and give a firm tug. I’m told this feels like a do it.yourself castration. I know the reactions I get are quite comical. They range from shock, fear, surprise, yelping, howling, sharp intake of breath, to body bucking and swearing. That last is a definite no.no and calls for sterner measures. It makes no difference to Me that the poor soul believes he has just undergone a sex change!
I sometimes use chemicals for penis torture. Things such as Ben Gay. A tiny drop on a Q.tip is a formidable weapon! For variation, I sometimes apply this to the anus when I have My victim finely trussed. The new Icy Hot stick and roll.ons work nicely, too. With them, I don’t get that icky stuff on Me. A drop of Wintergreen Oil will bring out deep.seated rhythms in any slave. One precaution with these. I have found that some balls tend to break out with sores that take forever to heal when using this stuff. So I try to restrict My usage to small amounts for the penis and asshole. Torture is fun, but long.lasting damage is totally uncalled for and is the mark of an amateur.
I have some lovely red clamps that look like little twisted pieces of colored clothes.hangers. These work nicely on the balls and seem to be more intense the longer they are left on. I place these the same way I use the clothespins, but they are bigger and there just isn’t room enough for any great number of them. I saw some downtown the other day in other colors . green, yellow, and blue. I just have to have some. These clamps are fun when combined with other torture toys. A variation of these clamps is the portable clothesline. The clamps on the latter are attached to an elastic line a couple of feet long. This line can be attached to the rack or chair, or whatever. Then the clamps hang handily where they are needed. Placing the end ones on the tits and rest on the cock and balls can be fun, too. The elastic line must stretch almost to its limit to do this and puts a lot of pull on the points pinched by the clamps. The only thing wrong with this toy is that there are not enough clamps, just six or so.
Elastic bands are a common but fun activity. I have small skinny ones, thick ones the post office uses, and large thick bands of black latex. The little ones are fun to apply tightly to the penis and then snap for maximum reaction. This really wakes up a slave. The tighter they can be applied the better. I have to work My fingernails under them to grasp them to snap them or remove them. They do tend to bruise even the most tough of shafts. This can be another one of those quantity activities . the more the better. These hurt more when removing them than when putting them on, which adds to the expectations of the slave. I like using a package of the skinny ones in all different colors.
My greatest fan and victim of penis torture loves making Me new toys to use on him. One of these is a set of steel clips. They are particularly vicious, especially the longer they are left on. I like attaching these to the penis head, the shaft, the ball sack, underneath the balls, and, especially, the frenum. My, how My victim jumps and cries with these! A variation to these is My set of red enameled.steel fingernails. These are fun to pinch, poke and jab with. They get a good round of response.
Midway through the penis torture training it’s time for an alcohol cool.down. This is lots of fun, and tends to be startling to the slave if he doesn’t expect it. I pour the liquid directly on the penis from the bottle, or pour some in the palm of My hand and slap it to the balls. The alcohol quickly revives an inattentive slave, especially when it drips into those nooks and crannies. It’s good in any case for areas that have been worn away a bit too much from all the fun and games. This is another of those activities that can make a slave learn how to dance to My tune.
I once had a travelling submissive stop with a small case full of toys that he had developed. He showed Me some shocker goodies that I craved to own and use. He said he would make some for Me but I lost track of him before this happy event could occur.
Many slaves seem to have a fascination with tiny, sharp pointed items. Spike heels, dagger fingernails and such send shivers down their spines. I like to use spikes during penis torture, also. I have a little red leather penis sheath with lovely little sharp spikes on the inside. This ties on, so one size fits all. I like to apply it to a hard erection. It’s fun to playfully jerk on a penis that is wearing this gem. I also have a long thick cord imbedded with spikes. This wraps tightly around the penis for more sharp fun. The spikes are not cutting sharp as I don’t enjoy the sight of blood; but they are certainly sharp enough to make themselves known! I also have a leather kid glove with spikes imbedded in the palm (outward, of course!) that I can wear when I feel like caressing My slave’s penis and balls. This can sure cure those macho attitudes I detest so much. I have a black leather penis and ball sheath with spikes on the inside, but rarely use it because I don’t particularly care for it. It doesn’t have the visual effects I like.
I sometimes indulge in urethral torment. This is only for the most advanced pain slaves, however. I have put twenty.five Q.tips in a slit. I have tormented them with slick straws or tubes, never made of glass. Cocktail stirrers made of plastic work well for this, too. I have used medicine droppers to inject alcohol or tiny amounts of Ben.Gay lotion. I have a long tiny straw affixed to a mouth freshener cap (Bianca, or such) that can deliver a short quick spray in the urethra. This keeps a slave hopping. I have used small amounts of liquid detergent, but only rarely as this is too irritating. Sometimes I attach metal clips directly to the sensitive skin at the mouth of the urethra, but this is not one of those activities that can be tolerated for any amount of time.
Occasionally, I have resorted to sewing the urethral slit closed. This is fun. I wear clear vinyl gloves and clean the area well first, applying alcohol. I like My slaves to be shaved for this event. I use a sterilized sewing needle with ordinary sewing thread with a knot tied at the end. Sewing foreskin feels a bit like sewing thick cotton cloth, there is just a minimal amount of resistance to the skin. Of course, the slave’s resistance is prevented with some good bondage. When pushing the needle through scrotal skin it’s like sewing canvass. Usually there is no bleeding. I have sewn the penis down to the balls by sewing the foreskin to the scrotal sack. The penis looks very odd when it is all sewn up . slaves find it unbelievable.
Another activity for the not.faint.at.heart is searing the penis with hot wax. I like to use a white candle held about a foot above the area I am dripping on. This produces a lot of jumping and squirming from the slave. I’ve been told that white candles burn hotter. Regardless, they are quite effective in any color. I enjoy covering the entire penis and/or balls with a thick coating of wax, then scrubbing it off with My stiff brush and beginning again. The second time around is just as much fun as the first.
If I feel like it, I do it a third time. One slave once wanted Me to put short birthday candles under his balls. The idea was to light them and let them burn down. I declined. I’m a semi vegetarian and the smell of burning meat makes Me nauseous. However, the sight of a penis buried in a mountain of molted white wax is like a fine work of art to Me.
Besides sewing, I have gotten into affixing pins and needles to the foreskin and scrotal skin. This can be fun and is quite bizarre in appearance. I use the same gloved technique I use for penis sewing, only now I’m doing multiple piercing. This is only temporary piercing. However, any live.in slave is required to have a ring permanently affixed if I so desire. I have pushed a dozen pins and needles into the foreskin in separate places at one time. I can double this amount in the scrotal skin. I find the glittering points of silver to be very attractive.
I don’t particularly like to culminate a penis torture session in slave orgasm. It is really none of My concern whether or not the slave has an orgasm. That is his problem, not Mine. The slave who comes to Me with only an orgasm on his mind is better off going elsewhere. I don’t advocate free sex of any type, and I don’t feel there is any place for it in Female Domination. But that’s just My opinion. I do allow slave orgasm under the strictest of conditions, governed entirely by Myself.
When a penis torture devotee is allowed an orgasm, he must be in pain. I prefer to have him orgasm as I use the spike sheath, for instance. This is not always possible, but some type of torment must be present. If he cannot orgasm while in pain, too bad. I simply do not care. His sexual needs are his own problem. My most ardent fan of advanced penis torture must be cooled down by foot tickling to keep him from orgasming too soon when the pain is intense. This is rare. Sometimes I allow a slave to kneel at My feet and show me how he abuses himself to orgasm, but he must be undergoing some kind of discomfort at the least. At the crucial point, I like to have a flog, strap, or crop handy so I can mete out discipline immediately for such a vile act!
All in all, I thoroughly enjoy in engaging in the most strenuous of penis tease, torment and torture. However, the slaves who have a high level of tolerance for this kind of pain are extremely rare. So when I find one, I like to have a long training session of three or four hours. That way, I can indulge in all of those fun activities to My heart’s content.
Fine Art of Penis Punishment (F/m Genitorment)
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Techniques for Ruining a Man’s Orgasm
I am looking for new ways to give hubby his orgasm without enjoying it. It can be painful, humiliating, hard to cum, or, preferably, all of the above. There are a few basic rules to keep in mind; he is not allowed to wank himself, he is not allowed to fuck me or anyone else, and he usually has to wear a chastity belt for several weeks between orgasms, so he is pretty desperate. To set the tone I will give a few examples of methods we already use.
1: we give hubby a large enema. With the enema in, he is tied standing in the middle of our cell. I get the key and take of his belt, put a penis vibrator on him and start teasing him with it, turning it on and of. I try to make him last as long as possible. He he looses a drop of the enema, he gets his balls slapped until his dick is soft again, he gets the chastity belt on again, and he will have to wait for another few days. If he starts to cum, I will immediately stop the vibrator. If he losses control of the enema while cumming, he will have to clean the floor with his hands tied on his back, using a little washcloth and his mouth to get everything into a bucket. Concentrating on holding in the enema takes away a lot of his pleasure.
2: We have a ‘fuck-stock’. It is more or less like a regular stock, a large piece of wood with 3 holes for his head and hands, standing on a column. The trick is a small hole in the column. The slave is put in with his hands and head, the top is closed, and then he has to move his dick into the hole and fuck it until he has an orgasm. The trick is that the hole is to small. His dick will only pass trough the hole while limp (a few slaps to his balls will take care of that). When his dick grows hard, it becomes more and more difficult to move his dick. When he is about to cum, his dick will swell a little more, and he is actually unable to move his dick. It is clearly visible that fucking the hole is already painful, but all slaves agree that the most frustrating and painful part is that they can not ‘shoot’ their cum. It just dribbles out after their dick gets soft again, and I understand that it gives no real feeling of orgasm that way.
3 He is tied up so he can not move an inch, usually against the wall. A penis vibrator is put on his dick. The he gets an electrode ring just after his dick head. The second electrode is just in front of his piss/cum hole. If he shoots he will get shocked because the cum itself closes the electric circle. This is my favorite way to make hubby cum. On the one hand he is desperate to have an orgasm because he has been teased and denied for weeks, on the other hand he is just as desperately trying not to cum out of fear for the shock he will get. Unlike the first method, he has no pain or discomfort to distract him, and by turning the vibrator on and off his torture can be delayed for quite some time. He starts sweating like a pig, he is trembling all over, after a while his entire body starts to shake and spasm without control.
Making Her Husband’s Orgasms Pleasureless & Frustrating
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Some people really want to be Smart-Assed Masochists, but they can’t quite get the hang of it. Here’s a few things they can do to become a genuine certified SAM:
Sing ‘Happy Birthday To Me’ and blow out the candle during wax play.
Draw a picture of an open hand on your ass. Then draw a red circle around it. Finish up by putting a slash through the circle. (should turn out to be the international no-spanking zone sign)
In the middle of an intense cropping, close your eyes and start to snore.
During a scene, do a Howard Cosell impression and provide a play-by-play account of what is being done to you.
If your dom/me tells you to ‘Look me in the eyes’, do it cross-eyed.
If your dom/me decides to do a verbal humiliation scene with you in public, stick your fingers in your ears and say ‘Neener, neener, neener, I can’t hear you!’
Decorate your dom/me’s leathers with oil painted neon polka dots and stripes
Place a whoopee cushion on your dom/me’s favorite chair.
Use the toybag for dirty laundry. Forget to switch the contents back before the next play party.
Stick an Alka-Seltzer tablet in your mouth at the beginning of a scene. Work up some saliva to get it fizzy, then call out your safeword.
When getting flogged, start singing ‘This is the song that never ends…’
Become a sarcastic practical joker (worked for me).
Learn a language your dom/me doesn’t know and then speak only in that language when you are together.
Become prone to incessant giggling.
If you’re trussed up and ordered to count, inform your top you can’t do it unless you can use your fingers and toes.
Have a wig made up matching your hair color and style perfectly. It’ll be worth the expense to see the look on your dom/me’s face the next time your hair gets tugged and it comes off..
Hold up a scorecard after each blow delivered (like in figure skating or diving)
When your top hints at foot worship, hand him/her a package of OdorEaters.
If you take a message for your top, write it on a post-it and stick it to your rear.
Tell your dom/me a better way to do whatever it is being done to you at that moment.
Learn the following phrases: Get off your lazy ass and do it yourself! What do I look like, your maid? This isn’t a restaurant. In your dreams! Who died and left you boss? I don’t think so! Homey don’t play that game. Yeah, right! Use them as often as possible.
Only speak in movie quotes.
Give your dom/me a massage while wearing a joy buzzer.
Send your dom/me an invoice for your services.
After a particularly hard blow, pretend to pass out. When your dom/me checks to see if you’re OK, jump up and yell ‘Gotcha!’
Go in the toybag and superglue the nipple clamps shut.
Ignore your top until he/she utters the magic word.
Starch the floggers.
Whine.
Urinate in the dungeon and in the toybag, claim you’re marking your territory.
Attach clappers to all the outlets in the dungeon just before a paddling. (Clap on, clap off…)
Tell master you want to be just like him, then go wash the dishes. Tell some of the plates they were SAMs today and refuse to wash them until they can behave better.
Move master’s personal effects around. Start subtly, gradually work up to the furniture. If he notices, act like nothing was every moved.
Draw a tiny spot on his chest with a permanent marker. Make it bigger every night while he’s asleep.
When your master comes home, pretend that you are on the phone, talk in a sultry, sexy voice. After you hang up, tell him that was his mom and she didn’t leave any messages for him.
Get some hair the same color as master’s from a salon. Spread it on the pillow while he’s asleep.
Whenever master uses the bathroom, take notes. If your master protests, mutter about dominants hiding their trade secrets.
Put up flyers around town, advertising that master is missing, answers to Pookie, reward for his safe return.
Make cue cards for master. Get them out whenever you’d like to have a conversation.
Hide one of master’s favorite toys. When he asks where it is, tell him you traded it for a box of Beanie Babies.
Bury the toys in shallow graves in the backyard. Blame it on the dog.
Hold funeral services for used condoms at the porcelain altar. If your master protests, tell him you are mourning the billions of potential lives that are being wasted.
After a snow storm, make two snowmen in the front yard, one upright, the other ‘kneeling’. Attach master’s favorite whip to the dominant snowman.
Trim the floggers and canes an eighth of an inch each day before he gets home. When he finally notices, just say you don’t get as much bang for your buck as you used to.
Whenever master dismisses you, nod and say, “Then if it is OK with you and Major Healy, I will return to my bottle now, Master.”
Take out restraining orders on the toys you don’t like.
Don’t do the household chores. Tell master you didn’t have time to do them because you were out of Total and had to eat at least a dozen bowls of another brand, just to get the same nutritional value.
copyright © Alkallah 1998
Smart-Assed Masochists: The Definitive Guide
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Male Submission With Strangers
Years ago a wife wrote about helping her husband satisfy some of his submissive emotional needs in an unusual way.
My husband has always had a fantasy of being tied up, blindfolded and having a couple of people do whatever they want to him for an hour or two.
I’ve never been too keen on inflicting the pain myself, so he hasn’t ever had a chance to experience this idea coming true. But have come up with an idea to make his dream come true for a forthcoming birthday.
I’m going to hire a hotel room for a day and invite a couple of total strangers to come and do *anything* and *everything* they want while I video it all.
I’m going to hire a hotel room for a day and invite a couple of total strangers to come and do *anything* and *everything* they want while I video it all.
One reader commented:
Firstly, those who come may not be very happy about someone filming them.Secondly, are you going to hire pro doms? This may in fact be the best approach as they will have experience. However, remember, although we men may say you can do anything, what they really mean is anything I have dreamed about and dreams do not have pain in them.
Often gradual increases in pain can send people to where they want to go, but there is no substitute to having the person tell you what they want, and then only do those things. An experienced pro will be able to judge and change things so as not to go too far, but there can be some hidden taboos that if not known about in advance, could easily turn this into a bad scene.
It may all sound like a good idea now, but rememebr you are opening a can of worms, and like earth in holes in the ground, you will have some left over after filling it in to deal with. He may like it so much he craves mor. He may hate it, who can tell.
Personally, if you do not understand it, and it does not turn you on, then maybe its going to be hard for you to do it yourself, but remember, its often sexual in nature and would you be happy to share him?
Another reader advised:
Ahhh, since it seems you are doing this for his “fantasy”, I’d suggest you try for things of a general nature he has ‘fantasized’ about. Has he shared with you some of his favorite stories?
If “yes”, guide off of them.
If “no”, oh dear!! Let’s reconsider. Perhaps I’m an old fuddy duddy, but in my mind there are some things that properly need to be rushed to meet a real deadline, an emergent situation. I think this however, is not one of them. Build up to it in a somewhat planned, sequential manner. (Just seems to me, you are willing to spend a fair amount of time ((major event for a day)) and money ((cost of motel at least)) and I’d suggest some homework and preparation to make it go well.)
Decide for yourself what name / title you want to be called, while you are being dominant. (i.e. Queen Joan, Mistress Sheba, Dom Lisa, etc.)
Decide for yourself what first tenative name you intend you use for him, and he is to use for himself while playing the submissive (Slave Russ, Useless Fred, etc.) ((Very helpful in many ways – when using names both know they are in the game, failure to do so is in effect a “safeword”! Even using the names alone is a bit of a “game/fantasy”.))
For example, your first little game/test/fantasy could come one Saturday afternoon. Walk up to him, reach and pinch his earlobe with your fingers, and say something like, “Slave Russ, your Queen Joan, needs to go shopping for some new clothes, we will leave in 30 minutes, understand?” Stick with the names in every verbalization. Go shopping for a new set of underwear, either where you normally might go, or even some fantasy clothing place, or even a ‘sex shop’ place. Verbally, you are concerned only with your own wishes, , , but watch his eyes, and get somewhat a happy compromise.
For example, your next (or if above dismissed – then first) one, could be a weeknight just at home. Prepare by dressing in what you think would be a ‘nice kit’ (I’d imagine that not many would object to black bra, black panties, black garter belt, dark hose, & high heels – ((perhaps cover with ‘bathrobe’)). Walk out to where he sitting, approach, something again like above pinching his ear lobe, “Slave Russ, your Queen Joan, is commanding you to produce five stories. You will have them ready for me by 9 pm, understand? At exactly 9pm I will be in bed and you better present me with stories for my reading pleasure.” Let him scurry around, find his stash, or write furiously, and at 9 – be in bed in your ‘kit’ reclining on your back, reading something else. Command him to lie on his side facing you and cuddling, and caressing you, while you leaf through and read some aloud. Hint – the “working man’s sex position” is similar to above. You get ‘cuddle time’ at a minimum, maybe allow him to get more ‘frisky’.
Third idea – some minor “pain” —–
Seems like an odd if generous idea. What do you think?
Originally posted 2012-11-11 10:26:53.
Vanilla Wife’s Birthday Surprise
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Ruined orgasms is the key phrase bringing the most traffic from search engines.
Not a big surprise. A number of the runner up terms involve orgasm denial and enforced male chastity. Perpetually popular topics in Femdom. That is why so many telephone dominatrices make a living forbidding men to have an orgasm. Though rendering an orgasm unsatisfying is certainly extra mean and cruel.
The second most popular topic is female superiority.
Guess you guys are looking for matriarchal fascists who ensure you have as little physical sexual satisfaction as possible.
In your fantasies anyway.
You might want to look at my summary or orgasm ruination and milking kRuined Orgasms Theory & Practice
Originally posted 2008-03-03 20:57:00.
Goddess, Please Ruin My Orgasms
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
How to Make a Padlock Attached “Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device”
Materials
First off, do not be disappointed if the first attempt at making a Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device does not come out just right. my first try was an awful mess! i picked up a few time and mess saving tricks along the way which i will pass along. What used to take from a half hour to 40 minutes to make, now takes only about 15 to 20 minutes when the materials are cut and prepared for shaping. Step One: Tighten metal hanger in vise and, using the hacksaw, cur off the loop portion of the hanger. Do NOT throw away. The tiny screw will be used in making the other version of the Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device. This second version has the option of being permanent. In other words, it can NEVER be removed (except, perhaps, surgically). The next two cuts have to be made so that the resulting strip of metal will be exactly 5 and 1/4 inches and the holes will be close enough to the ends so that a padlock can be inserted through them. Once the cuts are made, the edges can be filed smooth so that there is no danger of cutting the skin as the bracelet is taken on and off. Step Two: Cut out a rubber strip the same length and width as the metal one, then carefully trim the edges so that when the strip is laid against the metal one, the holes are BARELY exposed. This is important, so that, later, when the “Epoxy” is hard, there will be enough rubber to trim. Now place the rubber strip against an old rug or cushion or anything that will allow the staples to penetrate and shoot in 13 or 14 staples (approx. 2/8ths of an inch apart). Make sure that the staples are in ALL THE WAY. Press the strip against a hard surface to make them fit flush. If a staple happens to miss or not fit right, simply pull it out and do another in its place. Trial and error is always the case here. But, in general, the more teeth the better. But not TOO many, because in that case, the rubber strip will be difficult to fashion inside the bracelet once it is molded into a roughly round shape. Step Three: This is the hardest part, the hammering of the metal strip into a shape as close to a circle as possible. If the bending is done without a mold, the metal strip can kink and break. The ease with which it bends, however, makes it a perfect kind of metal for use as an anti-ejaculatory device. First, if a vise is at hand, tighten the wood or metal mold in the vise so that a portion of it sticks out. Make sure that it is VERY tight. Now place one end of the metal strip on the mold and begin to hammer and shape it. A tiny amount of bending by hand is possible at first but not too much. It produces kinks which need to be hammered smooth later on. As the metal begins to become round, pliers could be used to bend the edges toward each other. Do not rush this step. This is the key to making an effective Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device. Step Four: Break off about an inch of the “Master Mend Epoxy,” knead until the colors are well mixed in, then roll into a cigar shape the same length as the rubber strip with the staples. Now place the puddy on the smooth side of the strip and gently press it down so that it covers fairly evenly. Do not press too hard yet. More pressing will be done when the strip is inside the bracelet. Next, start lining the inside of the bracelet with the strip of staples. If necessary, open the bracelet wider, but not too wide or else it will lose it’s shape. If the holes become blocked at first, don’t worry. Also, depending on how thick the cigar was, the puddy will ooze out from under the rubber as it is pressed against the inside of the bracelet. Use the sheet rock knife to cut away the excess. The same can be done if some of the puddy blocks the holes at the edges. Be sure, however, that all the other holes are tightly filled with green puddy. This is what holds the staple-lined strip firmly in place. Again, the first attempt might be quite messy and cumbersome, but don’t worry. The next one will be much better. And the one after that, better still. If the thickness of the puddy appears uneven in places around the bracelet, take the tiny chunks that were cut off and carefully stuff them into the gaps, pressing smooth with the fingers. The fingers WILL become stained with the puddy, but simple soap and water will remove any of the residue. If possible, try to make the thickness of the puddy one-eighth of an inch all around. Again, if the holes are still somewhat blocked, don’t worry. As mentioned in Step Two, the portion that covers the holes can be carefully cut away after the puddy hardens (which takes about 6 to 12 hours). After 24 hours, the puddy is as hard as a rock, but it still can be trimmed if necessary. How to Make a Screw-attached “Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device” In this case, the metal strip must be cut so that the holes are at least one-eighth of an inch near the edge and the length of the strip is exactly six inches. Also, because the holes must overlap, the top hole ought to be a bit larger than the bottom hole. This can easily be accomplished by using a drill bit that is a bit larger than the hole. Which end overlaps the other depends upon the shape of the bracelet once it is closed. Generally speaking, the edge that serves as the top hole will need more trimming so that the bottom hole meets the top. The number of staples can remain the same, but during the trimming stage, one or two sets of teeth might have to go. As mentioned earlier in Step One, the screw that came with the hanger can be used to hold the Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device together. First, however, it must be made shorter so that when it is screwed in, it will not touch the cock. In other words, the screw should be about as long as the thickness of the metal strip when the two edges overlap. All other instructions on how to make the bracelet remain the same. Now as to how to permanently attach the Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device to a cock, the method is quite simple. The quickest way would be to take the whole screw, uncut, and screw it in until it meets with the bottom hole or, better, until the bottom of the screw can be seen alongside the staples. Next, firmly hold the bracelet with a pair of vise grips then, either with a hacksaw or nut-cutting pliers, cut the screw as close to the bracelet as possible. Any burr that is left can then be filed. Another method, which takes a bit longer but is probably safer for both wearer and attacher, is to cut the head off the screw ahead of time, then, with a small pair of pliers, twist it into the holes as far as possible and, then, use a file to smooth off any burr that is sticking up. When this is done, using either the quick way or the slower way, the screw will remain inside the bracelet permanently. There is absolutely no way that it can be taken out again once the head is gone and the burr filed down so that the bracelet is smooth. Although harsh, this method of attachment might be useful on someone whose only purpose would be to perform household and/or outdoor groundskeeping duties.
Teeth of Kali Chastity Device: Build It Yourself
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Control Male Orgasms With Pain
The purpose of the Kali’s Teeth security device is to remind the male that erections and orgasms are not permitted without consent of the Keyholder. It is a physical preventive device. Therefore, in the interest of orgasmic control training the Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device should be worn for the amount of time abstinence is desired. It will be noted that unprinted intercourse will be impossible without serious injury to the penis. Proper use will not cause permanent injury.
ATTACHMENT
Since the Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device does not have a hinge, care must be taken in opening and closing the metal bracelet. Actually, the fewer times it is opened and closed, the better. Gently pull on ends of the bracelet until the gap is from 5/8ths of an inch to 3/4ths. Carefully squeeze the limp penis through the gap, placing the bracelet about halfway down the shaft of the penis. Go easy on this device to prevent damage to the device and/or the penis.
PADLOCK
Make sure the padlock is small enough for the holes in the Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device. The gap should be on the exact underside of the penis so that when the padlock is put on, it will not be easily seen. Unless the Keyholder wishes to display the lock, in that case the gap should be on the exact upper surface of the penis. The easiest way to put the padlock on (and take it off) is to hold it sideways and ease it through the holes, then lock it and turn the lock forward.
EFFECTS
Tested males have relayed a few of the effects of wearing th Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device. Erections are possible. However, if the male persists in letting himself get erections, for whatever reason, the teeth will, indeed, leave tiny-tiny marks. Once the bracelet is removed, these marks will form tiny tiny scabs which will shower off after 3 or 4 days, leaving no sign. If the male can keep his mind on proper thoughts, the scabs will not even appear.
As already mentioned, erections do happen. The intense pain of using the device, however, ensures that they will not last long, even in the most extreme of masochistic males. Intense mental training provided by the Keyholder over a period of time is desirable. This, and the Fear of pain, of course, can actually help a male stop his penis from becoming erect once it has started to. Stopping it in mid-stream, so to speak.
It’s all in the mind really. This is where the true value of the Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device as a training device shows forth. Coupled with audio lessons in orgasmic control, techniques provided by the Keyholder and repeater tapes; real, lasting change can be achieved. The Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device is much more than a preventive, security device – it is a complete program in i orgasmic control when used properly.
The male can be tested on effectiveness of his control over his own erections in a number of ways as he wears the bracelet. These include rigorous tease techniques, visualization of sexual enjoyments woven through the spoken word , intimate services to the Keyholder providing certain Tantric services to the Keyholder that do not include the penis. However, the device should be worn during everyday activities, employment, etc. It should only be removed by the Keyholder for permitted orgasmic activity.
CAUTIONS
It is preferable that the Keyholder maintain custody of any keys to the Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device device when it is in use. However, the male should have an emergency key when out of the Keyholder’s supervision. This key should only be used in an actual emergency. A quick examination of the penis upon the male’s arrival will determine if the device has been removed without permission. Additionally, it will be very difficult for the male to remove and put the device back on exactly as the Keyholder applied it. A variety of techniques can assure the exact placement of the Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device.
The Keyholder may desire to remove the Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device in order to allow the male to become aroused without discomfort. Periodic teasing to erection enhances the use of the Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device. Care should be taken not to allow the male to orgasm during these teasing exercises unless the Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device will be removed for at least 24 hours. These permitted orgasms should be few and far between to ensure the success of the Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device program. After adequate teasing without orgasm, the male should be allowed a lengthy ‘cooling off period’ before the bracelet is locked back on. This allows the erection to subside. If the Teeth of Kali Male Chastity Device is put back on immediately after teasing, the male might be so aroused that he might be able to ejaculate before the penis becomes erect once more. Testing has shown that perhaps a half hour of inactivity or a cold shower would suffice. The male should be monitored closely during this ‘cooling off’ to make sure he does not ejaculate.
The male can do rigorous physical work while wearing the bracelet. In fact, after awhile, he will almost forget he has it on. That is, until he starts leering at an attractive Woman or engaging in some other such unauthorized male pursuit. Then the Goddess will bite… and hard!
Teeth of Kali Chastity Device: Keyholder’s Manual
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Female Led Cuckoldry
By Apollinaire
There is an old maxim: One can not embrace fire without being burned. Forced Jealousy is the act of forcing the male to endure the sting of that fire, indefinitely or permanently. (i.e. To want, desire and lust for what he can not have.) This can be small things like having orgasms while reminding the male that he can’t (some authorities claim the woman’s orgasm is only one one-hundredth as debilitating as the males ejaculation [1/100].), enjoying leisure while putting the male to work, in short anything that impresses upon the male the unjustness of his predicament. He must have “that’s not fair” written all over his being and at the same time the meekness to still submit to the whims of his woman. Sympathize with him, “Oh, you poor baby.”, while not bending an inch to accommodate his pitiful whining. This sympathy will keep the male in line, willing to endure the emotional torture.
The best example of this is when the woman has sex with another man in front of the male. She rubs it in his face, reminding him that he is not permitted to have intercourse with her, that he is not even permitted to have orgasms. Enjoying watching the male frantically struggle to cope with his insecurities, the woman forces jealousy down his throat like so much bitter medicine.
I think, partly, the desire for this comes from a past history that has left the male emotionally numb. He is simply seeking anything that can elicit a strong emotional response. Another aspect is the sense of sacrifice the male enjoys, even takes pride in. The submale somehow rationalizes that the woman’s pleasure will be enhanced by his being diminished. Every good submale wants to please, and if his woman needs a good hard fuck, then he will have to learn to like seeing it done. (ha, ha) In this particular aspect there are also Oedipus complex overtones, only the woman (mother) stifles the hostility of the submale toward the other male (father). Another opportunity for her to demonstrate her control over the male (sonnyboy).
Forced Jealousy (F/m Psychology)
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Woman Dominant BDSM
By Apollinaire
While certainly not a complete, or necessarily entirely accurate definition, I am here going to define B/D as the use of corrective corporal punishment of a severity that requires restraining the male. (That does not necessarily mean that it must be crippling.) In my view all corporal punishment must come as a result of the male having somehow failed the woman or in some way violated a rule. (Which gives the creative femdom pretty much free reign.) I am sure this desire arises in males that were raised by parents that found the solution to every childhood problem in corporal punishment. The “problem”, infraction, misdeed, whatever, created a gap in the family relationship. The punishment restored the closeness, made everything “OK” again. The submale with this in his personal history will surely expect the whip at the first sign of his woman’s displeasure.
Strangely, I detest pain and will do most anything to avoid it, but I live for the knowledge that my woman has that power over me. The only way to make that power real is for the woman to use corporal punishment periodically. With that threat hanging over my head I am always most eager to please. It is a mystery to me, how I am so turned off at pain and yet literally tremble at the thought of the woman that holds that power over me. It is much more a fascination with power than with pain. Pain is the ultimate expression of that power. The power to tie me down and whip my ass until I’m crying like a little girl, is the ultimate power any woman can have over me. I have endured terrible floggings and tortures, even had my penis pierced over 50 times in one session.
(I’d like to interject here, that I fail to see the importance of stretching ones threshold of pain. I mean how far can one really go. Is breaking a limb too far? How about amputating one? Would you ever consider killing me? It would seem to me the principle of the conservation of motion would indicate a lower threshold of pain be preferable to the woman as it would require less work on her part to demoralize and enfeeble the male. But, I have always had difficulty understanding the hard core S/M. I bear no animosity toward people of this passion, nor do I desire to belittle their activities. [I refer not to the pleasurable sensation of a stinging bottom, rather the need of some to take pain to the extremes.]) Frankly, I was disappointed. Pain, for the sake of pain, does not do it for me. Kneeling at the woman’s feet and feeling her absolute power, as she commands me with the mere threat of corporal punishment, knowing the reality of that threat, however, is almost enough to bring me to climax. It is the simple statement “or else” that makes me tremble and “suck-cum” to acquiescence. I most definitely find power, to be the pleasurable dimension at the core of all activities involving pain.
There is also much to be said for the feeling of helplessness that being bound arouses. It is an expression of submission, “not only am I willing to offer no resistance, I couldn’t if I wanted to”. It is also a desire for the safety and restriction experienced in the womb. A desire to return to the complete dependence on the mother. Spiritually, it is the Black Widow, who after obtaining her goal “confines” the male to the role of a tasty morsel. This confinement also frees the male of any responsibility and with it the guilt caused by the desire to live in this manner of relationship. It is not enslavement, it is liberation. Give me liberty or… ah, no, just give me liberty.
Bondage & Disciipline (F/m Psychology)
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Reinforcing the Enslaved Status
By Apollinaire
One thing that is common to most all owner/slave relationships is the “Mark”. This can be a number of things including but not limited to tattooing, piercing, branding, scarring, I even find urinating on a most erotic practice.
Long ago, piercing was a specific symbol of slavery. Not just any slavery, though, slaves that had worked long enough to have earned their freedom, yet still desired to remain slaves to their owners were pierced. This practice is recorded in the Bible (Exodus 21:6). It was in fact, equivalent to a marking of rank over other slaves. Now it is truly little more than a fashion statement. Unfortunately this so obscures the symbolism of piercing, that the act no longer holds the same significance. The very nature of voluntary human slavery having also changed, the site of the piercing accordingly had to be moved, from the ear to the penis. This is currently the best piercing to use to symbolize slavery.
I think piercing of the penis can be symbolic of being penetrated, having ones “cherry popped” if you will. It can also represent being objectified, turned into a mere pleasure toy, Putting a few extra bumps and studs on the human dildo. There are so many different types of piercing, which is best for the submale? In my opinion it is the “reverse Prince Albert”. I pierced myself in this manner before I knew it had a name. (That’s through the opening of the urethra and through the top of the penis head, mine was about 3/4 of the way back to the rim) That was quite painful and after 4 weeks I had to let it heal (removed the barbell), as it would not stop bleeding. (I’m very athletic and was involved in too many activities at the time for it to fully heal with the barbell intact.)
This piercing is favorable for
This is not to be confused with S/M piercing for fun, these are generally permitted to heal anyway. This is clearly a mark of ownership.
Less common, branding is used symbolically to mark property of a lower value than a slave, such as an animal. (This has no reference to how 2 people feel about one another.) It’s permanence warrants careful forethought in it’s use. The rear flank is the appropriate location for branding of this symbolism. Less permanent and less painful a tattoo may also be used. In the same vane, magic marker or even lipstick may be used for example, to write “SLAVE” or “Pussy Boy” even “Carpet Muncher” across the males forehead.
All activities, like a tree, have many branches, as well as many roots. That in mind, I like to include urination here. As many animals mark their territory in similar fashion, the woman pissing on her male clearly marks him as her “territory”. This easily translates into forcing the male to drink the woman’s urine.
One fun way for a woman to give her piss to the male is to give him a bowl full and have him drink some through his nose. I find the saturation of the nasal tissues with the woman’s urine to be an excellent reminder of whom I belong to. (The nasal douche is a common practice in certain forms of Yoga and is good for cleaning the nasal passages. [using lightly salted *water*, of course!])
Marking – Branding, Piercing – the Male Slave
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Barbara O’Toole art demonstrating female-led corporal punishment and discipline.
Originally posted 2012-01-14 12:15:32.
Barbara O’Toole Female-Led Spanking Art 1 of 4
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Submissive Male Desire for Extreme Demasculinization
By Apollinaire
The ultimate sacrifice a male can make in being completely owned and dominated by his woman would have to be, “Castration”. I really would consider accepting this fate, for the right woman! According to the Freudian point of view, the male, upon discovering his mother has no penis, views this as an indication of superiority and desirability. I think, the removal of the testes while leaving the penis intact, serves to make, as completely as possible, a mockery of the male. He can not be a female, though he longs to, nor can he be a man any more. He is now some perversion of his own insane desires. (I would be most interested to know if sexual function [i.e. erection] is still possible in the castrated male. I can only assume that it must be. After learning of the Hale-Bopp Cult in California, I am inclined to suspect castration is not entirely rare.)
I think at this point it ceases to be just a physical or sexual matter. To be willing to go to this extreme, the male’s desire has evolved to become completely owned by the woman, body, mind and soul. True voluntary human slavery. It is also the desire to give, ingrained in the submale. Certainly the male could offer nothing of greater personal value. It is far more than just giving her his testes, it symbolizes giving everything that has made the male what he is up to that time. He offers her a true living sacrifice.
Castration (F/m Psychology)
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
Following is a list of possible punishments, amusements, and slave rules for my mistress to consider.
The main reason for writing this list is to give my mistress amusement, ideas, and some insight into my own submissive fantasies.
Another imagined use for this list is to write down the various punishments (especially the medium and heavy ones) separately on little cards, and then keep them in jars to be drawn out when my mistress feels that punishment is called for, or simply for her amusement. She might enjoy making me close my eyes and picking out a card myself.
Basic punishments/amusements/rules:
1. I can be told to keep my eyes lowered, and not to look my mistress in the face, or even to look above the level of her face without permission.
2. I might be instructed to undress completely whenever coming in from
outside, quickly and without being asked. Once undressed, I might be expected to kneel or assume some other position in a particular place. I might also be required to dress myself in a collar, wrist cuffs, and ankle cuffs, which could be locked on. Locks could be provided open and without keys.
3. My mistress could tell me to invent a series of body positions for her, in an attempt to find submissive positions which she finds erotic.
4. I can be bound, or made to stand in a corner, and left that way, as a punishment, or to provide my mistress with a break from the pressures of sex and mistressing, while still maintaining her dominance over me. Being put in “storage” in this way might be especially useful if my mistress is feeling sexually satiated or disinterested, but wants to keep me in a state of submission/arousal/frustration. (During such times, I could also be put to different constructive uses by having chores assigned, and I could be instructed to carry them out without bothering my mistress, so that she may have some time that is more to herself even though I am there. Or, of course, I could be sent out on a walk, or on an errand of some kind.)
5. I can be given a specific list of chores and household responsibilities, and be expected to execute them with a bare minimum of oversight. Shortfalls in this area would be cause for further punishment.
6. My mistress can put me in a position that she likes, and paddle my ass 25 times.
7. I can be required to perform massage and body worship as much as
mistress desires. As a slave, it will be my hope that she will feel comfortable demanding these services as much as she likes, without feeling any sense of guilt or indebtedness.
8. My mistress could establish certain rituals of punishment or service that could be required at various times, for example each morning upon awakening, or at a certain time in the evening. Should I wake up before my mistress does, I imagine her allowing me to wake her up by gently licking and then sucking her nipples, or by going down on her. I am instructed to keep a vibrator handy in case she gets turned on and would like to give herself an orgasm that way. I imagine her coming, and then amusing herself by teasing me briefly before telling me to get up to start breakfast.
9. If my mistress decides to grant me the privelege of coming, I imagine her requiring me to come while standing or kneeling in front of her, on the floor or on a low table. She instructs me to keep my eyes lowered, and observes me as I masturbate. Perhaps she is dressed, while I am naked. I imagine this situation as being humiliating and erotic for me. My mistress might also choose to put a time limit on how long it can take for me to reach orgasm, and if I fail to come within that time, I could be made to wait until later before being allowed to try again.
Medium punishments:
1. I could be denied the privelege of orgasm, and/or of self-stimulation, for12 hours, a day, or more.
2. I am bound spread-eagle on my back for a period of time. Clamps may be put on my nipples, and my cock is whipped, and my balls pulled and lightly slapped.
3. I could be required to sleep in bondage.
4. I could be given 50 strokes with a paddle.
5. I imagine my mistress telling me that, in addition to placing her pleasure before my own, and working to give her more orgasms than I am allowed to enjoy, I will also be required to “pay” for each orgasm that she has. In general, these payments might be designed to help rekindle my mistress’s sexual arousal after coming, or simply to reinforce my subservient role. One method of payment might be that for each time she comes, I am expected to write a paragraph describing a suggested punishment for me to endure, or a service that I could provide for her. Or there could be standard punishments/services, or my mistress could devise them as she sees fit.
6. I could be required to kneel for a period of time, perhaps 10 or 15 minutes or more, on a hardwood floor. During this time, I would not be allowed to put any weight on my hands. To make the punishment more severe, I could be ordered not to sit back on my heels. I might also be required to perform some kind of body worship at the same time. [I don't think I would like this one very much.]
7. I imagine being ordered to go through the ritual of masturbating (as described above), or of serving dinner (naked and subservient, of course, and perhaps waiting on my knees when I’m not needed), for my mistress and a female guest.
Heavy punishments:
1. I could be denied the privelege of orgasm, and/or of self-stimulation, fora number of days.
2. I could be denied any genital stimulation whatsoever for one or more days.
3. I am stripped and made to stand in the corner for a period of one hour, or more or less at my mistress’s discretion. Though I am not bound, I am told to observe the following rules: A. I must keep my feet flat on the floor, and not move them. B. I must keep my legs straight, and not bend my knees at any time. C. I must keep my hands pressed flat together behind my back. D. I must maintain good general posture. Any time I break one of these rules during the period of punishment, 15 minutes will be added to the punishment period. My mistress may choose to try to startle me, or to torture or tease me during the punishment period, or not, at her whim. I could be blindfolded during this time, and if my mistress wished to leave the room, she might choose to trace the outlines of my feet on a paper on the floor, so that if I moved my feet it would be easier for her to tell.
4. I could be bound spread-eagle on my back, and an electric whip could be used on me, focusing primarily on my cock.
5. I could be given 100 strokes with a paddle.
GAMES
1. “Surrender” I imagine that I have not been allowed to orgasm for two or more days, and my mistress decides to give me a chance at release. The chance takes the form of a torture session which takes on some element of competition between my mistress, in her sadistic role, and me, in my masochistic one.
I am tied spread-eagle on my mistress’s bed, and then tortured in various intense ways. Tight clamps might be put on my nipples, or my cock could be whipped, with an electric whip, or some other small, stinging instrument. Any part of my body could be whipped, shocked, paddled, hot-waxed, or otherwise tormented.
If at any time I find the torture to be too much, I will have the option of saying “I surrender,” and I will be released. However, in doing so I will give up any chance of being allowed an orgasm for another day or more. Other punishments might be added to this one as well, to add to the sting of defeat, and provide greater incentive to endure the torture until my mistress decides I have had enough (or she has). I imagine my mistress taking pleasure in torturing me, and making the effort to get me to surrender. If she is successful, I imagine her enjoying my continued frustration, and whatever other penalties she may have decreed.
If my mistress feels that I have endured long enough, and she has not been able to persuade me to surrender, then I will be rewarded by being allowed to come, perhaps while worshipping my mistress in some way.
A time limit might also be imposed on the period of torture, which only my mistress is aware of.
(By Karen on a newsgroup many, many years ago.)
Slave’s Suggestions to Mistress: Punishments & Games
Female Led Relationships - Female Domination, Superiority, Supremacy, Dominant Wives & Girlfriends, Woman Worship, FLR Lifestyle
