John Keats’ poem La Belle Dame sans Merci is famous. At least it was. Hard to call any poetry well known in this age.

O what can ail thee, knight-at-arms,
Alone and palely loitering?
The sedge has withered from the lake,
And no birds sing.

O what can ail thee, knight-at-arms,
So haggard and so woe-begone?
The squirrel’s granary is full,
And the harvest’s done.

I see a lily on thy brow,
With anguish moist and fever-dew,
And on thy cheeks a fading rose
Fast withereth too.

I met a lady in the meads,
Full beautiful—a faery’s child,
Her hair was long, her foot was light,
And her eyes were wild.

I made a garland for her head,
And bracelets too, and fragrant zone;
She looked at me as she did love,
And made sweet moan

I set her on my pacing steed,
And nothing else saw all day long,
For sidelong would she bend, and sing
A faery’s song.

She found me roots of relish sweet,
And honey wild, and manna-dew,
And sure in language strange she said—
‘I love thee true’.

She took me to her Elfin grot,
And there she wept and sighed full sore,
And there I shut her wild wild eyes
With kisses four.

And there she lullèd me asleep,
And there I dreamed—Ah! woe betide!—
The latest dream I ever dreamt
On the cold hill side.

I saw pale kings and princes too,
Pale warriors, death-pale were they all;
They cried—‘La Belle Dame sans Merci
Thee hath in thrall!’

I saw their starved lips in the gloam,
With horrid warning gapèd wide,
And I awoke and found me here,
On the cold hill’s side.

And this is why I sojourn here,
Alone and palely loitering,
Though the sedge is withered from the lake,
And no birds sing.

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FLR Matrimony

F/m Wedding by Sorenutz

Female led marriages are inherently unequal because they are authoritarian. The Mistress Wife is the Head of the Household, CEO of the family; she’s the boss.

The submissive husband has vowed to love, honor and obey his wife. He accepts all of her decisions. He complies with her will. He is the junior partner in a female led marriage.

Mistress controls sub hubby’s diet, determines how much money he may spend on himself. She also decides how he may – or may not – spend his free times. She may forbid him to socialize with anyone she thinks a bad influence.

The dominant wife has the right to punish her inferior spouse. Spankings are the most common form of husband discipline. With cane, switch, belt, tawse she delivers painful lessons in obedience. He is thus taught to never be tardy and always promptly perform his chores.

Mistress Wife is the dictator of their submissive husband’s sex life. She rules what he may do with his penis, how often. Whether or not he may orgasm. If ever. When the man is being kept completely chaste she milks him (allowing him to eat his own cum as a treat).

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Madonna Sumuru: Female Supremacist Icon

Sumuru – Our Lady Madonna Sumuru – was the central focus of a few novels by Sax Rohmer.

She is the most beautiful woman in the world, brilliant and omnicompetent.

Sumuru leads a worldwide cult of followers devoted to carrying out her will. Sumuru is a pure female supremacist who believes that the world can only be saved if it is run by beautiful women. Her goal is personal dictatorship of the world.

At least a couple of the novels are available on Kindle.

Thee have been a few Sumuru movies. I doubt any of them are much good. But may provide enjoyable scenes of female domination and feminism.

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General materials for most SD/SO scenes:

• blindfold
• earplugs and/or headset (can get earplugs at any sporting store with firearms sales)
• gloves and/or mittens
• your favorite restraints
• anything with a texture or temperature
• favorite toys
• videos and/or audio tapes that turn you on (including your own recordings)
• whatever else you can find

Guidelines: 1) consent, as always 2) safety-if you are going to play with restraints or toys, follow general safety 3) planning-decide what senses you want to deprive/overload. Plan accordingly. 4) atmosphere-you set the scene to fit your kink. It can be an open play with the body with no reason besides physical pleasure, or it can be incorporated into a larger roleplaying scene. (ae, captured spy, training, etc)

Premises: SD/SO can basically be used for 4 purposes. Disorientation, deception, focus, and to increase sensation in one or more areas of the body/senses. There tends to be an inversely proportional reaction in the senses when SD/SO is applied. In other words, when one sense is deprived, the others become stronger. Also, the mind tends to create it’s own scenarios when the senses we use most (sight and sound) are fooled or not in use. This is an important thing to remember. If you are turned on by certain ideas that you don’t actually want to try (body modification, drugs, public display/use, etc) then these techniques can send you through the roof. If these ideas squick you or your partner, then you want to take care to avoid easily misinterpreted actions/situations.

********************* Basic Scenes: Blindfold based *************************

Blindfolds are the single most used form of SD. The reason for this is that humans have become so sight dependent. When deprived of sight, we can become easily frightened or disoriented. Also, our latent senses become much more acute in order to make up for the loss.

scene 1) place blindfold on yourself or lover. Make love. Enjoy. (OK, it sounds tame, but it’s still a helluva lot of fun. Love really can be blind. And with no restraints, it is the easiest to get a vanilla partner to try. When both partners wear a blindfold, love is not only blind, but groping. Hearing and the feelings on the skin become more intense) Advanced lovemaking: put a pair of thin gloves on your lover, then cover these with a pair of mittens. When we can’t see, AND can’t feel what we’re doing with our hands, we get very disoriented. Additionally, tying those unfeeling hands together, and adding earplugs drives our other senses nuts. You are completely dependent on the senses of smell and taste, the skin on the rest of our body (which is rarely used to get a feel of actually completing an action) and on memory.

scene 2) use the blindfold during a spanking, caning or whipping scene. It becomes easier to focus on the sensations on the skin. If done non-rhythmically and on alternating parts of the body, it can increase tensions. You never know when or where that lash will strike, even when your lover is standing right in front of you. And will it be a lash or a lick? You’ll just have to wait and see.

scene 3)disorientation (and possibly toys) Remove all objects with sharp edges (furniture) and tuck away all electrical cords. Take your lover to another room. Blindfold them. Get them excited. Spin them in a circle a few times, and walk into another room. They should then get on there hands and knees and come find you to collect their reward for entertaining you. You can be nice and ring a bell to let them get a general sense of where you are. You can have more fun by tying that bell in front of a fan or from a metroname or using wind chimes, then going back and watching your lover stumble around trying to find you. You can be cruel and use more than one bell, or using multiple recodings of a bell in different rooms, ringing occasionally at different times, thereby confusing your poor sub and frustrating the hell out of them. You can be even more cruel by using clips with long banners of ribbon or yarn attached to their sensitive areas. They can tangle, get caught under knees and feet, end up being an amazing toy for a housecat , or pull with every step because of small weights attached to them. If those wieghts just happen to be bells that disorient your lover more…well, you get the idea. Wanna have more fun? Both of you blindfold yourselves in different rooms. Turn around a few times and find each other for lovemaking. You never know when you may suddenly find yourself stumbling blindly over a naked body. Try both of you wearing bells. Try wearing bells with other bells or recordings around, or (even worse) buying that damned housecat a bell ball for it to chase all over the place. Add those streamers and it’s a wet dream.

scene 4) place objects about the room to be found. blindfold sub and have them find objects. Smack them with favorite toy while they collect the objects. Maybe use a different toy for each different color ball or object they find. Or maybe have them find the toys that will be used on them.

Note: any of the above can be used with earplugs or headphones, or mitts, or anything else you lie.

scene 5) the mindfuck Blindfold your sub, restraining them if you wish. Play with them for awhile. Then, the doorbell rings. You leave the room. Sub hears a muffled conversation. Someone enters the room and starts making love to your sub. Sub thinks it’s you, but something isn’t right. You’re acting strange, or your mustache is missing. Or your groin is suddenly shaved. Then your sub hears your voice in another room, or maybe in the same room. Oh my GOD! This isn’t my Master/Mistress! How frightening/exciting!! How do you pull this off without actually having someone else make love to your sub? Modern technology and/or good friends. Have a friend come over at a specified time, and then have a nice conversation with them. After they leave, use a prerecorded scenario in your stereo in order to make your sub think you are somewhere else. Or, just use the recording the whole time. In the time that the recorder has you “talking with another person” go shave. When you return, don’t speak, and act differently than you normally do. Be more aggressive, or softer in touch, or fascinated with different parts of the body. It can really throw your sub off. For females who’s partners (male or female) aren’t too squicked by the idea of making love to a man, go out and buy a dildo with harness. Don’t let your lover know that you have it. Suddenly making love to a man and not the expected female lover is an obvious change. Just don’t let your more female parts have too much contact with your lover in ways that make them realize it’s a woman with a harness.

**Tip for above scene. Make sure that you test the recording before using it. Make the recording, start it playing, then go into the room where your sub is to make sure that it is the right tone and volume. And use extra long tapes or other precautions. The sudden snapping of a tape deck shutting off can ruin the realism of the scene.

scene 6) Another mindfuck. Public scene This is much the same as the above scene, except that it takes a little more time and preparation. It requires an elaborate tape. You might want to prepare by using a video recorder (with lens cap on) to record a play party. Video tapes usually have better sound quality than audio tapes, and they can roll for 6 hours. Just set the recorder down in a safe place with the lens cap on and the REC button pushed. Set it in a place that catches plenty of sounds, but isn’t too close to any voices, so there is a constant volume of voices. If you have a surround sound system in your home to play it on, then you are set. Start it playing early before you re-enter your own home. Actual scene: Dress your sub up sexy, get some toys ready, and let them believe that you are going to be doing some basic play. Then blindfold sub, put an overcoat on them, lead them to your car, and drive around for 10 minutes. Drive back home, lead sub into your own house. The tape should already be playing so sub hears a “party in progress”. Start scening. Or give your sub to someone like scene 5. Or, if you think you can actually pull it off, hold an auction. If your sub is being held up for display while you take bids (and they actually hear the bidding) It’s a total mind trip. Hard to pull off, but well worth the effort. You can either pull the blindfold off at the end, or lead sub back to car and “drive them home”. If you do that, make sure that they never find the tape until you want them to.

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Michele Backmann as Mistress Wife?

I asked more or less the same question about Sarah Palin some time back. (And will eventually find a liberal democrat to do likewise with.)

Does the Representive Michele Bachmann match your ideal of a superior woman. Of a woman who you would like to lead you in a female led relationship / marriage?

Her leadership, charisma or whatever virtues you may see in her.

Or – since she is the quintessential Tea Party politician- do your progressive progressive political opinions cause you to feel exited by the idea of being at her mercy because she is so contrary to you? To be helplessly in the power of a very conservative woman.

How much can politics affect sexual desire?

Originally posted 2011-06-27 12:32:52. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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F/m Chastity Contract Between Chaste Male & Keyholder.

I, [chaste malesub], the chastised, agree that I will be locked into the CB 6000 chastity cage for an indefinite time period. I understand that [Mistress Keyholder], will keep and control all keys to the lock for the device, and that I will not be even allowed to touch a key. Only the Keyholder may free me from the device’s cage. When the Keyholder is removing the cage, I may not touch myself in any manner unless told to by the Keyholder. Only the Keyholder may lock me back in the cage. When the cage is being locked or unlocked, I must be handcuffed.

I am permitted to shower as I wish, with the understanding that such showers will be taken wearing the CB 6000. I may ask the Keyholder to remove the CB 6000 cage and wash my genitals, clean the cage, and reinstall it. I will be kept handcuffed during this process.

I will never touch the CB 6000 in any way to arouse myself or bring on an orgasm. This includes using any kind of vibrator or mechanical means to cause ejaculation.

I must never ask her for sexual gratification for myself.

I will, at her wish, provide the Keyholder with whatever sexual gratification she desires, whenever she desires it, without any hesitation of any kind. Literally, her wish is my command.

________________________________, [chaste malesub]

I, [Mistress Keyholder], understand and agree to everything accepted by the chastised in the paragraphs above. I will require him to always wear the CB 6000 chastity cage except for short periods when I allow him otherwise. I will never let him have a key to the device, or to know where I keep any of the keys.

I will require him to give me sexual service anywhere and anytime I please.

His service may include normal sexual intercourse, putting me in bondage, giving me oral sex, using vibrators, other mechanical devices, or anything else I can think up. I do understand that due to his physical limitations, it is unlikely that he will be able to give me a hard, erect, penis. I may allow him to try to use what he has. However, when giving me sexual pleasure, I am under no obligation to allow him to ejaculate or have any kind of orgasm. I may or may not allow him out of the cage during such activity, but if I do, he may NOT touch any part of his genital area unless I instruct him to. I will not ask for oral sex unless I am perfectly clean.

Besides intercourse, I may give the chastised oral, hand or mechanical stimulation as a reward for his chaste service. It is strictly up to me what I may give him, and he may only ask for something specific if I give him permission to do so. If the reward makes it likely that he would ejaculate, I may put a condom on him and remove it afterwards. Generally, release will be given to the chastised no more than once a week. It may be longer.

We agree that any failure on his part to keep the above agreement will automatically result in two weeks of chastity starting with the date of the failure, no matter how long he had previously been without release. A failure during the two-week period will result in another week being added, and so on.

___________________________________. [Mistress Keyholder]

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A study in the American Sociological Review will certainly prompt thoughts in men who aim for a female-led marriage:

Men routinely doing “female” chores appear to have less—not more—sex.

Guys Who Do Housework Get Less Sex

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Just a pointer for those of you with an interest in genetics and gender qualities.

In virtually every mammal and nearly all birds, males are more aggressive, females more nurturing. …

…

Take the cliché of the golf-playing husband and the shoe-shopping wife. Not even an evolutionary psychologist would claim to find monkey equivalents to this. Yet the obsession with the trajectory of ballistic objects is as baffling to most women as the obsession with searching and re-searching every store for the perfect shoe bargain is to men. (I know there are exceptions, but admit it: Marriage surprises most people by revealing the truth of such clichés.

Can Genes Explain the Sex Divide?

Originally posted 2010-09-25 05:12:42. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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DIY Male Orgasm Denial

I have done a lot of self-domination. I really get off on this and I will continue to post experiences and ideas on the subject. One of the big problems has been one of self-control as it is no fun once I orgasm. It is all over for a while. I quickly discovered the need for a chastity device that once it is on would not allow me to cum. It is quite fun to writhe in pain and pleasure and not be able to orgasm no matter what you do. I never made a locking device but my next one is going to have a padlock or two and I will freeze the key in a block of ice and keep it in the freezer. I will be able to get to it by breaking the ice with a hammer or running it under hot water, but it will provide a time that will be a cooling down period that will not allow the removal of the device not under the heat of the moment. I have only rarely in the past removed the devices so that I could orgasm and I have punishments for such actions but this will ensure that it stays on.

I have made many such devices with various amounts of success. I will tell you of a few of the more successful ones. All of the devices where based on a waist belt of some type. Some tied behind the back and others were leather belts that fastened with buckles. I will leave the end long so I can secure the lock after the buckle is fastened. I have used various devices and arrangement for the genital region and this will be the main topic of this post.

The genital chastity devices have all ended at the perineum (the area between the genitals and the anus) where one or two straps where used. A single strap was on the first one I made. It went between the cheeks and secured to the back of the belt. This was good for spanking but not for anal penetration. It is however good for holding a dildo in place. The arraignment of these straps that I like best is two straps from the perineum running one around the back of each leg and fastening to the belt near the front. With the locking design this will require custom fit. I can always add an additional removable crack strap if I need to. I plan to use T nuts and screws to put this together. I have used nuts and bolts and I have used leather laces both have their advantages. I think the T-nuts and screws will be harder to remove quickly, yet I still will be able to make adjustments.

The last part is the hardest part and the most important to be effective part and that is the chastity device. I have tried many things and one that I am using now is an metal cup that has been modified to make it comfortable to wear for long times yet if you get hard it causes mild discomfort. The cup is a metal cup that is about three inches in diameter and about two inches deep. I have take a piece of split foam pipe insulation and put the split over the edge of the cup. I used electric tape around the foam on the outside this provides a wide comfortable area contact the skin. Now if I may digress to tell you about a material that I have found to be very useful for many devices and that is a rubber welcome mat cut to various shapes. I will do a future post on this. I cut a round piece to put in the bottom of the cup with the points facing up. I cut strip the size of the circumference of the cup as wide as the space remaining between the bottom of the cup and the edge of the pipe insulation and insert this with the points toward the inside of the cup. I insert the penis and the testicles inside of the cup and secure it in place with a triangle leather pad that is attached to the belt and the Straps that run around the back of the legs attach to the point of the triangle. This is very effective. It is uncomfortable if you get hard and it is comfortable for extended regular wear. The only problem is the small bulge when you where street cloths. I do not wear this out much anyway.

I have another device that is very effective in preventing orgasm that I use for punishment only as it is very painful. Again using a strip of the welcome mat about 8 ” long and about 6″ wide I wrap this with the points toward my flaccid cock. I secure this on with a long strip of cloth. With the belt harness in place this is This is quite intense and I am very careful about rubbing or applying pressure to my cock much less trying to orgasm. I do not notice how uncomfortable this device when I am enduring some other severe form of punishment. I have had an orgasm in it under a severe spanking but that is rare.

I have used many other things for chastity devices. I have read about male chastity belts and I would like to incorporate some of those ideas so I could have one that I could wear under street cloths that would be effective. I am also very interested in a design that could be put on a female that would accomplish the same purpose. Any thoughts and Ideas are appreciated.

(Old Usenet Posting)

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By Corey

First I’ll describe the type of scenario I’m suggesting. Although it’s technically unnecessary, I think you’d be hard pressed to find a man who would cooperate through 2+ hours of orgasm control, and besides that takes away half the fun =). Personally I think of very tight bondage involved with this scenario, down to restraint of the hips and fingers and head.

I’ve had past vanilla experiences where I was somewhat forced to enjoy the talents of a woman’s oral ministrations, being kept on the edge of orgasm for probably 25-30 minutes. She knew my sexual tells well and stopped me on the brink of orgasm about 4 or 5 times before I eventually snuck an orgasm in. She was displeased that her fun had ended prematurely, but as our relationship was vanilla nothing came of it, except for my many tokens of appreciation =).

We had further experiences, but this one I must clearly recall. My point is that she would have had much more control had I been restrained, and despite the vanilla relationship she had no intentions of relenting until she was satisfied with my excitement and frustration (there were occasions she had me screaming, begging, and literally crying for release.)

In essence I’m saying that being tightly bound and stimulated for an extended amount of time can be quite torturous as I recall some of the few brief moments of my life where I wished my cock could just be left alone and allowed to settle down.

I think the deliciously horrible part of it is the urgent feeling that builds up. I liked the control I lost and that was gained over me. At that urgent point I’ve always felt the desire to be forced to say or do “things”. I’ve speculated some on what these “things” would be, but I’ve preferred to leave them to the inventive imagination of my dominator. Rest assured they’d be things under other circumstances I’d forcefully resist.

Fortunately for me I’ve always eventually been allowed release, and better yet at my tormentors hand. Forced chastity has been an area of interest of mine as well, but as I’m young and have the sex drive to follow, 2 days is a long time without orgasm for me. I think it’s literally impossible for me to wait a week for orgasm willingly. I think I’d be crying in frustration by 5 days. So naturally I’ve always wanted to try it =).

I’ve also fantasized about involving another tormentor and/or an audience to this scenario. I’d like to experience being taken from the heights of pleasure to the depths of agony and both at the same time. I wouldn’t know whether I was coming (no pun intended) or going. And then the audience.

I’ve always wanted to be exposed so to speak under such circumstances, although otherwise I’m hardly an exhibitionist. Adding an audience feels like a narrow interest in which I’d be greatly interested in hearing from anyone from either sex who shares it with me. The more aware that the audience is there the better, although I’m curious as to whether I’d enjoy being blind folded more or not.

So back to my original question, can teasing be torture? My personal opinion is it can be. But I suspect many would feel, since it does involve pleasure, that it’s invalid in way. It seems many dominant women abhor and condemn anything that is sexually pleasurable to men.

I feel that although a D/s relationship may involve pain and\or discomfort and control in general, that a relationship that involves a balance of pleasure and pain is entirely possible and satisfying for both partners. For me it comes down more to an issue of control. I prefer to relinquish the control of my pleasure and pain to suit the needs and amusements of my dominating partner.

I guess that comes down to the real motivation behind writing this post. I feel that an unfortunate majority of dominant women are merely interested in abusing submissive men without any interest in their sexual or mental well being. And thus they would have little interest in activities involving male sexual pleasure.

Does anyone else get this same feeling?

Also does anyone have any ideas on how I could setup being teased and tortured in front of an audience? It’s a fantasy that I strongly want fulfilled, but I can’t think of any realistic way of going about it. I’m 20 and still a year away from even socializing in the local BDSM groups here in SD. I’m not sure how to safely go about it.

Well thanks for reading through the post and if anyone has any of their own opinions on male (or female) orgasm control I’d be interested to hear your thoughts. Also when it comes to forced orgasm deprivation (I.E. via chastity vice and usually involving daily stimulation) I’d be interested in others thoughts there as well.

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Cuckoldry Is a F/m Retish

If you are a conventional wife (girlfriend) and your husband (boyfriend) as begged you to cheat on him and have sex with another many and you are confused and horrified you might find the following useful for context.

Cuckolding among female-dominant couples differs from the original definition of cuckolding in that many of these men are voluntarily “cuckolded” by their wives, sometimes as part of the husband’s sexual fantasy and sometimes because they gain genuine sexual arousal through being humiliated by his wife being better sexually fulfilled with a potentially superior male. In some cases the husband may instigate and nurture his wife’s sexual infidelity.

The husband usually finds pleasure through that of his wife (or what he perceives to be her pleasure), and they (the wife and extra-marital participant) may both enjoy attempting to actively include him in the act of cuckolding as much as possible through serving her. Some common themes include praising her appearance, attempting to stimulate her sexually at the same time as the additional participant, and generally being engrossed in her enjoyment, usually while masturbating or involving himself in some sexual act with his wife during their activity.

Some less-common themes might include grooming his wife for her “date”, homemaking, or oral sex following the conclusion of sex with the other man. When this oral sex follows ejaculation, it is termed a creampie or cleaning up.

You can find additional information at Wikipedia: Cuckold.

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Rules of Behavior and Deportment Governing Enslaved Men

Mistress, i freely and willingly affirm that i am Your slave, whose sole reason for existence is Your pleasure. i have no rights or privileges other than those granted to me by You. i swear to always honor You through my obedience and service. my body and mind are Yours to use in any way You choose.

“Mistress , i acknowledge that You are under no obligation to explain Your orders or to justify Your punishment and training, but i am under every obligation to obey You and accept Your punishment.

“my body, mind, and soul are from this day forth the private property of my Mistress, to be used as SHE sees fit. i promise to obey Her completely, to do whatever She tells me to do, to submit to any punishment SHE sees fit to impose on me.

“i renounce any rights that i may have to think my own thoughts, care for my own needs or comfort, or control my own destiny. From now on, i shall wear only what SHE commands me to wear, and serve only HER.

“Since i hereby renounce any rights to a personal opinion, desire, or need have my own, this agreement can never be broken by me for any reason because I desire a lifetime commitment. my obligation to the Mistress is to be whatever SHE wants me to be.

“i acknowledge i am a slave and i live to Worship and Obey You as my Mistress.”

THE SLAVE’S GENERAL ORDERS
Part of a slave’s training is having clear-cut rules to live by. There are rules that apply to all situations and some that apply only when in the presence of the Mistress or in an environment where the SM scene is understood and accepted.

The Mistress’s time is precious and HER time with the slave may be short. In no case does this fact detract from the standards of excellence expected from the slave. Training may be harsh. This is the fastest way to train and also the method that produces the most effective results. The slave will enthusiastically accept training. The Mistress will acknowledge when a task is performed properly and the slave will sincerely thank the Mistress for the training. The Mistress will take as long as necessary to train the slave as long as the slave is genuinely trying and not malingering. Once a slave has been trained, if it fails in a task, the Mistress will assume that it is being disobedient and it will be punished.

The slave’s body becomes the Mistress’s property; as such, the slave has no right to protest any use the Mistress chooses to make of it.

Rather, it is an honor if the Mistress deigns to touch HER property in any fashion SHE desires.

It is the slave’s duty to obey any and all commands given by the Mistress, and to do this without question or hesitation.

The slave shall speak only when the Mistress gives permission. The slave will request permission to speak prior to asking any questions it may have regarding the Mistress’s commands or specifications of the slave’s assigned duties.

In all his personal activities, the slave surrenders all decisions to the Mistress.

A series of positions will be learned by the slave regarding standing, sitting, using the toilet, presenting his body for inspection, etc., and will be practiced according to the training provided by the Mistress.

The Mistress may choose to ignore the slave for long, extended periods. The slave will remain silent for whatever length of time the Mistress requires.

The slave agrees to adhere with all his life to the rules or regulations the Mistress may add at a future time. The slave understands that the Mistress is the sole judge in determining whether an infraction of this contract has occurred. The Mistress is also the sole judge in determining the degree of punishment. Punishment may include dismissal from service.

THESE GENERAL ORDERS WILL BE MEMORIZED AND QUOTED FROM MEMORY AT THE COMMAND OF THE Mistress
1. The slave will always show his Mistress the highest level of respect.

2. The slave will never lie to his Mistress.

3. The slave will never piss standing up. A slave is subservient to his Mistress and should not be so presumptuous as to imitate a man. Men piss standing up slaves do not. The slave will always sit on a toilet or squat down to piss. This will help serve as a reminder of who and what he is. The slave will not use the seat of a toilet. The slave will sit on the cold porcelain when he shits or pisses. The Mistress uses the seat and the slave’s ass is not worthy of touching what SHE has used.

4. The slave shall address the Mistress as “Ma’am” or “Mistress” at all times unless given permission to do otherwise, and shall address the Mistress with respect at all times. When using formal address, the slave will refer to the Mistress as “the Mistress” or “SHE”, and to itself as “the slave” or “it”. When using familiar address, the slave will refer to the Mistress as “Ma’am” or “You”, and to itself as “i” or “me”. When speaking to others, the slave will refer to the Mistress as “my Mistress” , and to itself as “i” and “me”.

5. The slave shall, at all times, respectfully request permission to take any action not expressly directed by the Mistress. A reason must be given for such actions at the time of the request.

6. The slave is to use the Mistress’s space with utmost respect and shall always leave any area he is permitted to use in a state of order and cleanliness. Not withstanding, the slave shall not disturb any of Mistress’s personal belongings without express permission.

7. The slave will never wear underwear, except as the Mistress directs. It is an article of unnecessary clothing. If the slave works on the outside and must wear something, it will be a jockstrap.

8. The slave will never touch its cock, balls, asshole, or tits without the Mistress’s permission. They are for HER enjoyment only, not the slave’s.

9. The slave will have no privacy from his Mistress. There is nothing that the slave will not reveal to HER. The slave is the Mistress’s property and, as such, SHE has the right to know everything.

10. The slave will sleep at the foot of the Mistress’s bed or in a cage as the Mistress requires. The slave will only sleep in the Mistress’s bed when ordered to do so.

11. At home, the slave will not sit on any furniture unless instructed to do so. The slave will kneel, lay, or sit on the floor as ordered.

12. The Mistress will train the slave and the slave will always do his best to follow instructions. The slave will learn how to serve his Mistress’s every need and desire.

13. The slave will never embarrass his Mistress for fear of being severely punished.

14. The slave will always strive to extend his limits to new heights so the Mistress can be increasingly proud of HER property.

15. The slave will willingly accept punishment from the Mistress. It is meant to remind the slave of how he is to behave and perform his duties to HER.

18. The slave will offer his body and mind to the Mistress at any time SHE desires to use it. The purpose of how SHE uses the slave is immaterial; it is sufficient that SHE wants to use it.

19. The Mistress will frequently enjoy Herself in ways that may cause the slave great pain. The slave will learn to accept and rejoice in the fact that it is able to perform that service for HER, even when it means considerable agony.

20. The slave will always wear what the Mistress determines to be the appropriate attire for any given situation. This may be as little as a jockstrap and slave collar, even in public. The fact that this may cause the slave embarrassment is of no concern. When in the Mistress’s home or when the Mistress is present in the slave’s home, the slave will remain naked at all times.

21. The slave will keep himself shaved of hair, as ordered or as removed by the Mistress. When clothing is required, as determined by the Mistress, the Mistress will specify it.

22. All orders are subject to verbal modification at the pleasure of the Mistress and the Mistress may impose such additional orders as SHE deems appropriate.

23. The slave shall keep its mind concentrated solely upon service to the Mistress and shall demonstrate its acceptance of his role of service and availability at all times.

24. Whenever the Mistress or the slave enters a room in which the other is already present, the slave will immediately kneel and kiss the Mistress’s feet, unless physically unable to or under previous orders not to. If the Mistress’s clit is free, the slave will take it into its mouth after kissing the Mistress’s feet and keep it there until the Mistress orders otherwise.

25. The MISTRESS may give the slave “free periods” in His presence, during which the slave may express himself openly and freely. There will be no punishment applied during “free periods.” It is understood, however, that the slave must still address the MISTRESS with respect at all times, and that the slave may be punished for infractions of this rule.

INFRACTIONS
The slave is to be punished for all infractions of both the letter and the spirit of this Contract. The form and extent of punishment shall be at the Mistress’s pleasure and the MISTRESS shall make it clear to the slave that he is being punished when punishment occurs. The slave shall always thankfully accept punishment as an opportunity to expand in the service of the Mistress.

CONDUCT MODES
The slave shall behave in a manner consistent with the rules set forth in the three conduct modes outlined below. The Mistress may, from time to time, indicate which mode the slave shall act within by stating the name of the mode to the slave; the mode may change at any time, depending on circumstances, and the slave must always be aware and conscious of the Mistress’s wishes. The Mistress may institute a set of silent or otherwise unobtrusive signals to notify the slave of the current mode.

Private Mode
In Private Mode, the slave is bound solely by the rules set forth in the basic Contract and no additional restrictions are imposed upon the slave’s conduct, save those stated by the Mistress. This mode will normally (though not always) be in effect when the Mistress and the slave are in the Mistress’s space or in the space of a knowledgeable and/or sympathetic person or persons.

Friendly Mode
Friendly Mode may be in effect in public places such as leather bars, where casual onlookers will understand the dress, demeanor, and appearance of the Mistress and slave, and the nature of their relationship, for what they are and viewed sympathetically (or at least not antagonistically).

The following specific rules shall apply to the slave’s conduct and demeanor while in Friendly Mode.

Stationary Position

The slave shall remain at the Mistress’s side at all times unless specifically instructed otherwise. While the Mistress and the slave are standing in one place, the slave shall maintain a physical position to the right of and one-half step behind the Mistress.
Moving Position

If the Mistress begins to move from one place to another, the slave shall position himself to the right of and slightly behind the Mistress and move at the same speed as the Mistress. The slave’s position shall be such that he is always within the limit of the Mistress’s peripheral vision at all times. Under no circumstances shall the slave precede the Mistress, except to open the door or other such service as the Mistress requires. Elevation

The slave’s eye level shall be below that of the Mistress at all times. Should the Mistress move so that HER eye level is below that of the slave, the slave shall immediately move so as to correct this imbalance. The General Orders are hereby extended to include all furniture, not just that in the Mistress’s space: the slave shall therefore go to its knees (or to a lower position, if need be) should the Mistress’s eye level drop below the slave’s, rather than (for example) sit with the Mistress, unless granted specific permission or specifically ordered to do so.

Interactions With Others

The slave shall speak to no one at any time unless first spoken to or instructed to speak by the Mistress. The slave shall treat all persons with deference and respect, regardless of their demeanor or appearance. The Mistress may, at HER discretion, grant the slave free time. In this mode, the slave is free to interact normally with acquaintances, but shall make frequent eye contact with the Mistress and be prepared to go into any other mode the Mistress directs.

Public Mode

Public Mode will generally apply in contexts where the Mistress/slave relationship may not be accepted or understood by those present. The following rules are, therefore, intended more to ensure the physical safety of the Mistress and slave, rather than to further the relationship between them.

The following specific rules shall apply to the slave’s behavior in Public Mode. General Demeanor

The slave shall conduct itself at all times in such a manner so as not to call attention to the Mistress and slave.

Certain Orders Suspended

The rules of the General Orders prohibiting the slave’s use of furniture and prohibiting the slave from being clothed are suspended while in Public Mode.

Movement and Position

The movement and position rules set forth in friendly mode also apply to Public Mode, with the provision that the slave shall not make his adherence to said rules obvious; casual and relatively loose (but definite!), rather than quick and snappy, conformance to the rules is called for in such situations.

Interactions With Others

The slave shall speak only when spoken to by others and shall converse with others only with the Mistress’s permission. If someone approaches the slave he shall limit his speech and behave in a courteous and non-offensive manner. The slave should assume he is in the company of the straight public and identify himself with his common given name, behaving in a manner that will not call attention to the nature of the true relationship between the Mistress and slave, calling the Mistress by HER formal surname, rather than referring to HER as Mistress.

ATTITUDES AND ATTRIBUTES
The slave shall display the following authorized slave attitudes and attributes at all times:

Humility Submission Obedience Eagerness to Obey oSpeed in Carrying Out Orders br> oCompetence in Carrying Out Orders oSuccess in Completely Carrying Out Orders br> oServility oSlavish Loyalty oSlavish Devotion oGratitude towards its Mistress br> oLove for its Mistress br> oWorship for its Mistress

1. The slave shall immediately, eagerly and without question carry out all commands and orders given to it without exception.

2. The slave shall fully and successfully carry out all such commands and orders, complying completely with both the letter and spirit of every command.

3. The slave is strictly forbidden to make any mistakes whatsoever in carrying out its Mistress’s orders and commands.

4. The slave must carry out all orders and commands completely within the time allotted for carrying them out.

5. The slave shall show its Mistress the utmost gratitude for the privilege of carrying out HER orders and commands, offering HER formal thanks whenever permitted to do so.

6. The slave shall NEVER, for any reason or under any circumstance, question, complain about or refuse an order or command given to it by its Mistress.

7. The slave shall immediately report to its Mistress upon the complete carrying out of any order or command, except when to do so would bother or irritate Her.

8. The slave shall humbly and quietly await further orders when it has fully completed one order or command and has reported back to its Mistress.

9. The slave shall be prepared at all times to have all completed orders, tasks and assignments fully and minutely inspected to see that every detail has been carried out according to instruction.

10. Any failure on the part of the slave to fully, completely and perfectly carry out its assigned orders shall be considered a serious and punishable offense.

THE TEN BASIC RULES

1. The slave speaks only when spoken to and then says, “Ma’am”, with every sentence.

2. The slave obeys all orders, no matter what. it questions nothing and is well punished if it does.

3. The slave does not sit in its Mistress’s presence. it may stand, kneel, or lay, but sit only when ordered.

4. A slave never wears underwear. it seldom wears anything above the waist outdoors other than its leather (if earned), and indoors little below the waist other than its chains.

5. The slave may be shaved and instructed to wear its cockring permanently.

6. The slave’s toilet training begins with always obtaining permission to use the bathroom — and is seldom allowed to use it alone.

7. The slave, in its entirety, belongs to its Mistress and, therefore, the slave is not allowed to touch certain areas of itself or its Mistress for any reason without permission.

8. All of a slave’s possessions are automatically its Mistress’s. The slave owns nothing.

9. The slave lives by a curfew; all personal habits — such as drinking, smoking, eating, sleeping, exercise, and sex — are governed completely by its Mistress.

10. The slave’s creed is to be memorized, as it will be called upon to recite it at any time — and perfectly!

THE SLAVE’S CREED
“I am a pussy licking, ass-kissing slave whose sole reason for being is the pleasure of my Mistress. I have no rights, no privileges, and am worthy of no considerations. My Mistress’s pleasure is my reason for being. My body and mind are His property to do with whatever SHE chooses. I exist only to serve.”slave’s number or slave name (assigned upon acceptance)

SIGNATURE
By his signature below, the slave acknowledges that it has read, understands, and agrees to abide by the rules of this Contract.

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False Stereotypes of Female Domination

Dominant women as depicted in the mass media and popular culture is false and misleading

Some authors are under orders to write descriptions of their sessions and many of these are genuine accounts of a session (or lifestyle). The stories are directed to male readers who, it is hoped, will be turned on by the portrayed dominant woman and will contact Her. The dominant women may be attired in leather, brief lingerie, spike-heeled boots or shoes, masks, etc., and are usually brandishing a corrective implement.

There are a few publications in which only dominant woman-authored articles and stories are published; they are authentic and involve discussions on the dominant woman’s point of view. These articles are educational and informative.

It is important to distinguish a hack pulp writer’s description of a dominant woman (first person) and the action in the story. There are certain clues that the reader or viewer can pick up after reading a number of these accounts.

FALLACY: All dominant women are absolutely gorgeous and have non-stop legs.

FACT: dominant women come in all shapes, sizes and colors. Some would not be considered “pretty” by any stretch of the imagination. Some are Amazon-types, imposing, while some are petite, dainty, Women. dominant women are as varied as Women in the general population, with as many varied backgrounds and interests.

FALLACY: dominant women live in 20-room mansions and keep a stable of slaves in the cellar. The slaves and servants work round the clock attending to the household and other chores and duties.

The slaves are kept in cages and chains when not in use and are always being punished for some infraction. These dominant women spend their entire day lounging or preparing themselves for a party or affair. They have 12 closets full of expensive clothes and shoes and their biggest concern is dress and toilette.

Naturally, they are wealthy and haven’t a care in the world because their slaves are doctors, lawyers, and accountants. The slaves, purportedly, hand over their assets and income for permission to live in total slavery in the dominant woman’s castle. The slaves are kept on strict diets of approximately 500 calories a day, and the food is gruesome. This dominant woman is a modern-day Medieval Queen, like the one in the fairy tale “Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs.”

FACT: Most dominant women live in houses and apartments like other Women. Some are married or partnered, have children and lead a rather ordinary life outside of their slave training activities. They may or may not have one or more live-in slaves. Some slaves come over occasionally while others may spend a weekend.

FALLACY: Every submissive male wants to be a full-time, live-in slave. They can dream of nothing more satisfying and exciting than being a full-time slave. If only they could find the right dominant woman who would accept them, they would do anything for Her, submit to degradation and torture. And, of course, EVERY dominant woman is on the lookout for just such a slave.

FACT: Few males are interested in full-time slavery under any conditions. Many are married with families and some have careers that could not possibly include entertaining business colleagues down in the slave dungeon. How could they explain the lousy grub and living conditions to a honcho from IBM? What about a telephone, a fax machine, and the company car?

FALLACY: All submissive males are submissive all the time; they love to submit to a dominant woman whenever She commands and will come to Her at any time, even across five states if necessary. Nothing is too difficult, too embarrassing, or too time consuming for a submissive male when the dominant woman summons him to do Her bidding at a moment’s notice.

Occasionally, some submissive males have to be captured and forced to submit simply because they will not willingly obey the dominant woman’s orders. They are kidnapped off street corners, restrained, transported to god-awful places where they undergo horrid tortures and humiliation at the hands of crazed Women or equally crazed males (bikers, etc.). The most perverted sexual acts, even maiming and castration, ensue at the appointed destination. Nevertheless, the captive slave is always sexually aroused due to the various acts being forced upon him.

FACT: Few submissive males will submit to anything that does not sexually arouse them. Most submissive males will visit a dominant woman occasionally when he’s in the submissive “mood.” The concept of “submission” arouses them but it quickly disappeared once the submissive has satisfied his own needs. Tah tah till next time, my Queen.

Submissive males have all sorts of limits and boundaries which the dominant woman must respect, although the opposite is rarely the case. Thus, the submissive who is “not turned on” by life in a slave dungeon is not going to submit to that lifestyle come hell or high water. The “captivity scenario” is merely the fantasy of true captivation, because this submissive cannot overcome his fear of consensual submission and surrender, a perceived abyss where one never returns to the pre-captive state — finality, the pits.

This fear is the main reason why most submissives will never submit to full-time, live-in slavery or servitude. Even a one sided masochist will not submit to full-time since their pain must be administered in precisely the method and amount they require for the submissive state to overtake them.

FALLACY: All dominant women enjoy sexual intimacy with their trainees and slaves. This may be coitus, cunnilingus, anal worship, etc. Whatever turns on the slave is always what the dominant woman enjoys as well and, in fact, he is there strictly to serve Her needs and whims in this manner. The slave does little else.

Hours and hours of “torture” servicing the dominant woman while rigged up in chastity devices, chains, dildo head harnesses, and various attire such as ladies lingerie. The accounts of slave sexual service could fill 50 New York libraries. The variations are limited only by the author’s imagination, and the slave’s.

FACT: Few dominant women enjoy sexual intimacy with a slave since to do so would reduce their power and authority over him. If a submissive were interested merely in ordinary sexual encounters, he would not seek out a dominant woman. The slave’s orgasms, as well as freedom in general, are controlled by the dominant woman. She alone decides what he does, when he does it, and how. That’s the “turn-on.”

As stated above, many dominant women are married and have no interest in cohabiting with slaves while others consider it demeaning to allow a slave sexual intimacy. In stories where the “scene” ends in coitus, the dominant womantion was a prelude to “vanilla sex”, foreplay. Many dominant women live a life completely separate from slaves and slave training and are not interested in a life partnership with a submissive male of any type.

As stated previously, few submissive males are sincerely willing to fulfill a dominant woman’s real needs and desires if they do not coincide with his own perceptions of what submission should be to him.

FALLACY: All submissive males are wealthy, generous, and there is nothing they wouldn’t do for their dominant woman, even undergoing poverty and starvation for Her. They would hand over their houses, cars, boats, land, pensions, annuities, inheritances, the family jewels, and so on.

They sign a contract that says they are now the dominant woman’s slave property, to do with as She pleases (or banish). The slave “has no choice,” he has surrendered his will to the dominant woman. Right.

FACT: This writer has never seen a valid slave contract that would stand up in a court of law. Non-consensual slavery or enforced servitude by coercion or threat is illegal in most countries today. “Slave contracts” are usually consensual, open ended agreements and cannot be enforced by either party. Thus the slave can run away any time he pleases. It is only by his free will that he remains enslaved, a surrendering of his will to the dominant woman.

Full-time, live-in slaves give up personal responsibility for their actions and would not want to resume responsibility for themselves. A pure freedom. The dominant woman is burdened with the responsibility of the slave’s welfare and needs.

FALLACY: Slaves (live-in or out) spend most of their time tied up or serving the dominant woman in kinky sexual acts. They are always in trouble, so they are always being humiliated or severely punished. They can tolerate tremendous pain and suffering, denial, etc.

Even Attila the Hun could not get this slave to fess up in a pot of boiling oil. The slave withstands hours, days, months in restraints, locked in closets or kept under the bed. The scenarios defy the human body’s limits, are incredible. But the slave always comes out smelling like roses and good as new. No one missed him at home or at work. Naturally, the dominant woman, a wealthy Queen, does not miss his income or services while he is restrained for these long periods of time.

FACT: The tiny percentage of live-in submissives are engaged in typical chores and duties that any well-trained, ordinary male can do at home. They work (some do not), lead ordinary lives (that which is visible to outsiders), and assist the dominant woman with most domestic tasks and general servitude as She requires. They may assist with slave training sessions.

The major difference in a dominant woman-slave relationship, compared to a mainstream hetero relationship, is the total reversal of roles. The slave is not the “head of household,” does not negotiate work-sharing, money-sharing, or anything that remotely resembles a “normal” relationship. The lifestyle dominant woman is a Matriarch and runs the whole house as She sees fit.

The slave (whether solo or stabled) spends his day working (if he works) outside, and then comes home and does some more work like cleaning, cooking, washing the car, and all sorts of exciting things like that. Sound familiar?

No matter how tired and stressed out he is, he will work until he falls into bed exhausted. If he pleases the dominant woman, She may allow him some sexual release, but only if he’s earned that reward and only in the manner which suits Her.

Dominant women dress in ordinary clothes like other Women because only they choose what they will or won’t wear, not the slave!

(Old Usenet post. Edited.)

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Playful CBT

Torturing the skin covering the genital organs is very different from torturing the organs themselves. Many of the usual types of CBT, are actually tortures of the skin… abrasion, light whipping, clothespins and other small clamps, ice, hot wax, bengay/vicks/tiger balm/etc. and most temporary piercings. As I said in lesson 1, the more this skin is stretched the more sensitive it becomes. Thus the skin of an erect cock, or bound cock and balls, is more sensitive therefore more susceptible to these types of tortures.

I like to keep my slaves in suspense by providing a variety of stimulations to these sensitive nerve endings…… feathers, soft bristled brushes, abrasives (use emery boards or other disposable abrasives so that body fluids are not transferred,) Mentholatum/Icy Hot/Bengay/etc., dragging the tip of a straight pin over the sensitized skin. Be creative, make him jump or gasp.

Heat and cold can also provide torture for genital skin, especially when applied in rapid succession….. alternately dipping the scrotum in ice water and hot (but not scalding) water, or alternately dripping hot wax from a candle and cold water from a melting ice cube. When using candle wax remember the greater the distance from which the wax is dripped, the cooler it is on contact.

Pinching the skin is a common torture (sometimes inflicted unintentionally by hurriedly applied bondage.) Pinching can come from fingers, clothespins or other clamps which grip a bit of skin. The smaller and sharper the bite of the clamp, the greater the pain it will cause. The application of clamps is painful, especially as the skin becomes tighter as you apply more and more clamps. Leaving them on, while frequently manipulating them, can cause agony. But, the real torture with clamps comes upon their removal, caused by pinched nerves waking up and regaining life.

Light whipping can also sting genital skin. Good cock whips are made of light leather thongs, horsehair, soft rubber, and similar materials that will sting the surface but not transfer pressure to the interior of the organ.

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Four Male Milking Humiliation Scenarios

1. Pretending he is a beast: This is a psychological game designed to let him orgasm, but pretend it is not for his pleasure that it is being done. This is where I put, or tie, slave in a kneeling position on a table or bed, where I can gain access to his penis by reaching between his legs from the rear. I might order something like….

“Up onto the milking table animal, we have to do this once a week for your health.”

I pull his penis backwards between his legs, and then grip it in my fist, so that the tip emerges beneath my little finger. Then I ‘milk’ him to ejaculation, as though one was milking an animal. I do this slowly with a steady pace. All the way up with my hand, and then all the way down. I pretend it is a necessary chore. Usually accompanying this with words and comments designed to suggest this……

“I really must get a milking machine, then I wouldn’t have to bother myself with this unpleasant business.”

I usually handcuff and gag slave for this process, and there are two ways to bring it to a conclusion.

Either I keep a steady milking pace right through and beyond his orgasm, squeezing the shaft as though wringing out every last drop. If he remains hard, then I keep going and try for another.

“I think maybe there is more of the nasty stuff to drain off.”

Or if I’m feeling cruel, I will just let go at the point of his first spurt….

“There that’s over and done with for another week.”

I walk over to the box of tissues and wipe my hands, leaving slave groaning in frustration as he wants the contact to continue through to a full orgasm. It’s amusing to see him thrusting into thin air unable to gain the satisfaction from the contact he desires.

2. Ejaculation without orgasm. I often do this while I am Queening him. (by that I mean sat upon his face.)

I have found, after twenty years of practice on slave, that I can tell when to stop manipulation short of his orgasm by two things. His moans and his thrusts.

My technique is to tie him spreadeagled on his back and first get him close to coming a couple of times using my full hand to masturbate him. At this stage I stop quite early to be on the safe side. Two or three early on the verge experiences like this gets him ready for the next stage.

Then I switch to fingertip manipulation and teasing. I just let my fingertips brush lightly over the shaft, frenum, and head of his penis, vibrating my hand quite fast, almost as though masturbating my own clitoris.

In this way, his moans intensify, and his hips rise up to meet the teasing, and he thrusts and moans in a certain way that I have come to recognise at the perfect moment to stop.

When I stop, I immediately start slapping his penis hard, back and forth, until he calms down. Usually at this time a little leakage of ejaculate occurs without any spurting.

If it doesn’t, I return to the full hand again, to bring him back up to his peak. To be sure he knows he is not to come, and what is expected of him, I might tell him…..

“It’s milking time slave.”

I sometimes tell him this is the best way to let him have a release, as it’s so messy when he spurts and he wouldn’t want to make me angry by hitting me with it. I tell him it’s a kindness to milk him in this way, as otherwise he would probably have to be punished for making a mess. -grin-

If he goes soft after the first leakage, I go away for twenty minutes or so and leave him tied to the bed. If however he is still hard I continue. I think it depends on how close it was to a full spurt as to whether he stays hard or not.

Either way, I then return to full hand masturbation a couple more times to get him ready again, and then back to the finger manipulation.

Because he never actually gets the satisfaction of a spurt, this process can be repeated until he is dry or exhausted. Or until I’m bored with it.

Often I will finish with some warning about his wanking…..

“There, now you’ve been milked dry, that’s more than any man should expect. So you will not need to sneak off and wank for at last another week. If you do, the punishment will be dire.”

If, as used to happen, he accidentally ejaculates fully. I would punish him with a caning him straight after any failures. I often issue a warning…..

“If you spurt, I shall cane you.”

slave soon learnt, perhaps unconsciously, to emit the right kind of signals, (moans and thrusts) at the right time. Either that, or the practice made me perfect. -smile-

3: Supervised Wanking:

I sometimes make him “milk” himself, sat upon his wanking stool across the room at a “safe distance” from me……

“Sit on your stool and milk your penis, no spurting or else you’ll be for it!”

The rules then are straightforward. He must sit there and wank while he looks up my skirt……..

“Look up my skirt wanker, and imagine I let you have me.”

Anything that comes out of his penis must ooze out gently, and never spurt as it would in a full ejaculation……

“No spurting wanker, that’s for real men who get to make love to a woman.”

He has to release his penis just before his peak, and let the ejaculate gently seep out and run down his shaft.

Over the years, escalating the punishments whenever he failed, has him brought him to a well trained state.

Now we have the remote control electronic zapper, I sometimes ensure he doesn’t get too much pleasure from these sessions by zapping his balls each time he lets go of his penis. Then he doesn’t know whether he is coming or going -chuckle-

4. Prostate massage:

This is often done with slave kneeling on the bed as in the first example. Combining a dildo in his anus with the milkling can transform the sensations he feels.

For full prostate and seminal vesicles massage, having him lay face down over my knees gives me greater control. The massage is done by inserting my well lubricated fingers, or sometimes a dildo, in his anus. I have a pack of disposable rubber gloves which allows me to be theatrical and clinical in the process. Rubber gloves should be used to protect the anal tissue from fingernails.

I often find slave remains erect after “milking” with this method, especially if I avoid stimulating his penis too much at the same time as massaging his prostate. For info on prostate massage for health reasons take a look at

Milking the seminal vesicles beyond the prostate may produce much more fluid. If you plan on restricting or denying him ejaculation it is arguably a “kindness” to “milk him off” this way instead and it may avoid fluid build up from prolonged stimulation without ejaculation. See

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The Teacher

She corrupted the youthful morality of an entire school!

Sounds like a fine woman.

Her best lessons were taught after class!

Who taught you about female led relationships?

What was the most important lesson that you learned about female led relationships?

Originally posted 2009-09-27 20:40:08. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Reading on the web, comments on this site and others and the visitor stats from my assorted sites show me:

Sissymaids From Beyond Infinity in the Slimeball Bowl-O-Rama

An issue of Boy Becomes Girl.

Oh, how those pink panties excite you. Even before learning about female domination I knew there was a large hidden body of heterosexual transvestite men but I don’t think I really perceived just how large it is: at least once you add in the men who probably never even try on a dress once.

That some of you have discovered the joys of anal sex strikes me as a good thing.

Originally posted 2008-03-18 13:15:40. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Reading on the web, comments on this site and others and the visitor stats from my assorted sites show me:

When you dream of your wife cheating on you – hmm, not sure consensual cuckoldry really could be called cheating – you claim to want:

• Be forced to fellate her “bull”
• Or at least consume his semen from your wife’s vagina
• And hugely popular is being forced to drink your own semen

Originally posted 2008-03-18 17:30:30. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Reading on the web, comments on this site and others and the visitor stats from my assorted sites show me:

Play the penis game!

You want your penis:

• Locked
• Mocked
• Shrunk

I’ve long known about the chastity fans and the men who want their small – or they wish it were small … or something – penis laughed at. But the men who are engaged or at least claim to be so in search of penis shrinking methodology were a surprise.

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Enhancing a Submale’s Punishment

When a submissive male has been too often lazy, disrespectful or sloppy his Mistress may want to intensify his corporal punishment the better insure future correct behavior.

On deciding to spank her submale Mistress can simply grab him by his earlobe using it to drag him to the place of punishment. Imagine his shock at instant pain that he cannot eroticize. Humiliated when handled like an errant child.

Shamed and hurt his spanking (or other form of corporal punishment) will be felt more forcibly. Driving home the lesson that as a submissive male his duty to always show a serious dedication to please his Mistress.

Some may wish to further deepen his corrective suffering with a mouth soaping prior to physical punishment.

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