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M is for Mistress (Female Led Alphabet)

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Mistress: The most common honorific for the head of a female led relationship. A submissive man’s Mistress is the arbiter, decider, ruler of his life Controls his behavior including his sexuality. The guides him with tenderness and discipline. He repays her with obedience adoration and love. He worships her as teh focus of his life.

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More drawings of dominant women by Leone Frollo.

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She Wants a Submissive Man Who Is Like a Good Dog

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A Submissive Man Like a Pet

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Years ago a dominant woman wrote:

With D/s being such a new concept for me and with only my imagination to help me develop what that lifestyle could mean for me, lots and lots of thoughts have crossed my mind. As posted in my delurk, I’ve made a lot of major changes in my life over the past six months or so. I’ve begun dating but it’s not as much fun as I remember it being 15 years or so ago. That’s probably because of my higher standards in what I’m looking for in a partner; a submissive partner. So here’s a thought that occurred to me one afternoon while running my dogs at the nearby regional park. At this, the loneliest time of my life, my dogs are my truest companions. I was thinking that if I could find a submissive man with the traits that my dogs possess, and a few of the more obvious ones, of course , I’d be one happy camper! Think about it, they’re cute and cuddly, for starters. The 120 pound 15 month old Shep/Rott often sleeps with me and even though it’s a tight fit in a single bed, it’s comforting having a warm body there. If he’s not in my bed, he’s lying on the floor next to me or in the doorway. My other dog is a 12-year-old lab mix who is the most obedient and loyal dog you will ever know. For the sake of good storytelling, I will combine their traits into one character.

He greets me in the morning by nuzzling my face and showing genuine enthusiasm for whatever attention I can muster at 4:30 AM. He watches intently as I get ready for work. He even asks for a little toothpaste to freshen his breath! His eyes express his complete sorrow at the realization that I’ll be gone for the day — again. I feed him, rub his ears, scratch his belly and give him fresh water before I leave for a grueling day at work. He sends me off with a lick on my hand and walks me to my car.

He’s always excited to see me at the end of the day. He greets me at the back gate with a hug and kiss (well, he jumps up on me and licks my face – close enough!). He nuzzles my hand as I walk through the back yard. He gets something for me to toss so we can play for a bit. We truly relish one another’s company. His devotion wipes away any stress I’ve endured through my workday. He never holds a grudge from a previous disagreement.

He lies at my feet while I check my e-mail and catch up on reading SSB. I reach down and rub his ears and pat his head. I find him so irresistible at times, that I lay on the floor next to him and just cuddle and rub his belly. He likes to be patted with a good amount of force on his lower back just at his tail. OK, he likes a good spanking, what’s wrong with that?!? He likes his nose rubbed and his ears massaged. He likes a fair amount of rough play and I’m eager to give him that.

He’ll do tricks for me when I offer a reward. He does tricks even when I don’t offer a reward. And he always eats my cooking without a single complaint!

I reward his loyalty and unconditional love with trips to a nearby wilderness area for an afternoon of running without his leash and collar. I toss the ball and he brings it back. I toss the ball again and again and again. He brings it back every time and nuzzles my hand as a sincere thank you for this time we have together.

He plays in the snow as I shovel. Sometimes he goes with me in the car when I run errands. Other times, I leave him tied up in the yard or locked in his kennel.

On occasion, this boy won’t do as he’s told so I must discipline him and although it’s difficult for me to hurt him either physically or verbally, I also understand that this is the only way for him to learn how to be a better dog. He chose to ignore my verbal commands yesterday at the park and was even bodacious enough to growl as I administered his discipline. His defiance though turned to sweet submission once he recognized I wouldn’t be frightened by his attempt at intimidation and he dutifully climbed into the back of the van.

At a recent visit to the vet, he misbehaved quite arrogantly and the vet sold me on a special collar to help keep him under control. The collar is designed in a figure-8 to apply pressure on the bridge of his nose and on his neck, right behind his ears. This pressure is similar to that applied by a pack leader to other members of the pack to demonstrate dominance. When I put this collar on him, I have a completely submissive animal under my complete, yet loving, control. It’s such a simple, yet effective tool.

He is by my side almost constantly when I am at home and he misses me terribly when I am away. He never fails to respond when I call his name either by coming to me or just wagging his tail. He’s sleeping next to me right now and as I call his name, his tail pounds on the floor with glee at that small bit of attention.

When I’m sad, he offers his big furry shoulder to cry on. He holds his paw out for me to hold. He licks my tear soaked face. He offers more comfort without ever uttering a single word than any human I’ve ever known. He barks at would-be trespassers and scares them off. I believe this boy would die for me.

In return for his unconditional love and devotion, I provide him with a safe environment to live and play in, all the food he can eat, special biscuit treats, fresh water, toys to play with, and I tend to his emotional and medical needs. I clean up the yard every week so he has a fresh place to make a mess . And I return his unconditional love and devotion without a moment’s hesitation.

Save for the obvious shortcomings, my dog is my perfect companion and possesses _most_ of the qualities I seek in a submissive partner. I hate when women say that men are dogs and mean it in a nasty context! I love men AND I love dogs! I plan to spend the rest of my life with them!

(From an ancient Usenet posting.)

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N is for Namio Harukawa (Female Led Alphabet)

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Namio Harukawa: FLR purists might assert that his art is harsh Femdom, inappropriate for the ideal of woman led relationships. Purists are invariably wrong. His dominant women are in perfect and complete control of their submissive male slaves. The most basic F/m dream and wish.

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Elsewhere many more Namio Harukawa drawings.

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Submissive Boyfriend’s First Spanking

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Becoming His Girlfriend’s Fiancé

This young man had been dating the girl on right for a few months. Passive by nature it took a powerful exertion of will to dare to ask his girlfriend if she’d consent to become his wife.

The young woman told her boyfriend that he would have to ask her family. Her family consisting of her mother and sister. During the interview he was told that in this family males held a certain position.

He would be expected to respect, obey and serve his wife. Be willing to be her servant, submit to her will in all things. After a moment’s shock but knowing his own weakness, after a moment’s shock, promised that he would. He knew that he would be happier if the woman were in charge, made the decisions.

Mistress Mother told the man that he would have to undergo a test. Prove his willingness to submit to a woman. The four people went to the basement.

He paled when he saw the spanking bench with its straps. Nervously allowed himself to be locked in place. Each of the women would take repeated turns in spanking him; lecturing him on the roles and duties of a submissive husband.

After the tears flowed and he whimpered for mercy he would be allowed to kneel and propose a second time. After acceping his spankings they would would permit him to become her fiancé.

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Spanking drawing © Alazar

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O is for Orgasm Denial (Female Led Alphabet)

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Orgasm Denial: an core component of male submission in the minds of many. Perhaps more in men than women. To have in penis locked up in a hard Lucite to metal prison. Sexual self-expression forbidden. His unquenched lust making him every more humble, servile and obedient. The oddest thing about male chastity fantasies is that men masturbate to images of being unable to masturbate.

More about male chastity.

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P is for Punishment (Female Led Alphabet)

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Punishment: chastisement for disobedience, laziness, misbehavior is a component of most female led relationships. Pain, discomfort to make the may repent is failings and mend his ways. Corporal punishment is the most common form of discipline. Including maintenance spankings to forestall any inappropriate actions on the part of the submissive male. And of course for many couples consensual sadomasochism is play, part of the fun.

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Do you think that punishment has a place in a F/m love affair? Serious punishment or play?

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Q is for Queening (Female Led Alphabet)

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Queening: woman worship through the medium of her buttocks. Also known as facesitting and smothering. There are dedicated queening chairs and smother boxes (if you have the cash). Until I started exploring F/m art (especially Japanese) I had no idea how popular queening is. (At least in male fantasy.)

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More queening drawings by Giko.

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R is for Ruined Orgasms (Female Led Alphabet)

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Ruined Orgasms: there are many ways to cripple a man’s orgasms. Perhaps the method that induces the most erotic anguish is to tease and arouse him asymptotically, stopping just before he has the release of coming. Then to milk him, massage his prostate forcing a pleasureless ejaculation.

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F/m drawing from Jack Rhodes’ Vengeance & Punishment.

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When He Asks for Chastity

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Part of something that I wrote elsewhere.

Your husband – or boyfriend – has confessed to you that he wants you to lock his penis up in a CB6000 or other male chastity device.

You are shocked. What is wrong with the man? Are you in love with a sick pervert?

The whole thing can be read here: Is My Husband A Pervert?

Originally posted 2008-06-07 13:38:05. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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S is for Small Penis Humiliation (Female Led Alphabet)

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Small Penis Humiliation: the desire some men have to be laughed at and found inferior for having a tiny cock. Even if his phallus is adequately sized. Penis size is a key element in many cuckoldry and sissification fantasies

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T is for Tease & Denial (F/m Alphabet)

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Tease and Denial: sexual manipulation and frustration for the ultimate pleasure of the male. The woman arouses the male to the penultimate, per-orgasmic state. Then she quits. She manipulates his lust repeatedly. Each time preventing release. Finally she allows the male to climax in an orgasm of exceptional magnitude and splendor.

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U is for Urolagnia (Female Led Alphabet)

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Urolagnia:* drinking a woman’s urine as a form of woman worship. Some submissive men seem compelled to call it golden nectar but piss is more vivid and to the point.

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* Also urophilia, undinism, golden shower and watersports.

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V is for Vagina (Female Led Alphabet)

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Vagina: in this instance a synecdoche for the entirety of woman’s physical sexuality. Pleasing a female partner is important for any man. Perhaps even more so for the submissive man serving a dominant woman. Her pleasure is more important than his. He will perform any acts, assume any position, perfect his techniques, forgo his own physical pleasures: do what ever is needful to provide the greatest possible erotic fulfillment. It is pure woman worship.

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W is for Woman Worship (Female Led Alphabet)

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Woman Worship: the fundamental, overpowering, consuming need that that makes a submissive man’s greatest delight in life serving, adoring and pleasing the woman who consents to accept his freely giving submission. He subordinates his ego to hers. Ordinary acts of service become almost liturgical. His heart beats with perpetual prayers to her. And the warmth of his adoration completes his life.

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X is for Xanthippe (Female Led Alphabet)

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Xanthippe: Socrates’ wife reputation was as a bitch, not a dominant wife. Images of her abusing Socrates may have satisfied deeply buried cravings of certain men that they could never admit. Even to themselves.

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Y is for YKINMY (Female Led Alphabet)

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YKINMY: Your Kink Is Not My Kink. When I first discovered the subculures of female domination I was surprised by the purists. The self-appointed Femdom police. From their buried places on blogs and forums these people (mostly men) ruled what was a what wasn’t real Femdom. Which dominant women were fakes because the woman didn’t match the hidden frustrates fantasies. You’d expect being a member of sexual minority would encourage acceptance. But people love to disapprove of others.

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Elsewhere see Bill Ward: Female Domination Cover Art.

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Z is for Zaftig (Female Led Alphabet)

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Zaftig: if a woman’s heart and soul takes no pleasure in domination what matters her shape? Femdom often burns away the detritus of physical appearance. BBWs are worshiped by cults of men.Submit to a woman because of her interior qualities and find happiness.

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Her Slave

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When you imagine yourself in a female led relationship do you think of yourself as her slave?

Or her submissive male (husband, boyfriend, whatever)?

Some people attach great significance to these words, particularly because slave is thought to imply a deeper commitment, more surrender.

Originally posted 2008-03-24 15:45:06. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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First Church of Female Supremacy

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It has been ages since I first ran across the First Church of Female Supremacy aka the Cybelians.

A cult – of sorts – pushing female led marriages. Among the cult’s dogmas are these mandatory aspects of Cybelian marriage.

The first statutory aspect is that the man has absolutely no freedom – while at home he must always be naked and collared, the collar to be of the lockable variety. The second statutory aspect is that the man has no status other than that of a toilet for the woman’s use

When I first discovered them the Cybelians seemed humorlessly fanatical about the piss business. It was like sharing bread and wine are for Christians. They’ve also come to push sissyfication and cuckoldry.

Other aspects of a Cybelian marriage which are a matter of choice include cuckoldry – wherein it is the wife’s option to have sex with as many other men as she chooses, compliant physical punishments, humiliation, and extended restriction of freedom. Details of all these options can be found in the Cybelian Marriage Manual, available as an eBook direct from this website.

Human male castration tool.

Aside from the marriage manual there’s a host of ebooks for sale. Topics include ancient secrets known only to the Cybelian elite, golden showers, extreme female domination.

I’ve always thought that the church and its messy interlocking set of websites exist to lure in the most sexually frustrated of men. Lonely submissive men make easy targets.

The name comes from the ancient cult Cybele: religious ecstatics who castrated themselves. Ancient castration device on the right.

Originally posted 2009-01-17 14:18:08. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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