Disciplinary Wifedom

The marriage ceremony was still alive in Gregor’s mind as he returned home with his new wife. The young husband had no no suspicion that his life as to be turned upside down.

Telling her husband to wait patiently while she brought him a surprise she left the room. When she returned she had become such a perfect vision of womanly sexuality he felt every dream he had of his honeymoon would be fulfilled.

Instead his bride yanked him by the neck, through him across a table, pulled down his pants and proceeded to whip him violently.

Once her lashes melted any resistance or doubt her husband had she would introduce him to his life as a slave in a wife-ruled marriage.

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His new Mistress’ name was Wanda. See all the female-led artwork telling the story of Gregor & Wanda.

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How to Spank Your Boyfriend or Husband the First Time

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• Warm-up is important. Start the spanking session by slightly cupping your hands and lightly hitting each buttock one at a time, always targeting the fleshy, middle part of his butt.
• A good way to gauge how hard you should spank is to watch your husbands reaction. If he’s having a tough time taking it, use a lighter touch. But if he tells you to spank him harder, by all means go for it!
• Gently rub the skin after every few strokes. Rubbing creates a more sensual vibe, increases blood flow, and allows your partner to take the next stroke with more ease.
• Lightly scratch the buttocks with your fingernails after you rub them to boost arousal.
• Once you’ve created a nice rosy hue on the buttocks, cool his buns down with ice between smacks. The ice is soothing — but the slick surface will make your next smack sting even more!
• Try different positions while spanking. Making him bend down and touch his toes creates a taut bottom, rendering the sting of your hand much more powerful! Have him bend over a chair or lay across the ottoman, use your imagination.
• Put him over your knee for some good old-fashioned fun!
• If the spanking is more punitive than foreplay, forget the above niceties and let him have it. Make sure to forgive and forget afterwards, that’s the reason for the punishment. Be sure to lecture him about what is causing the discipline while you are spanking as well.

Please free to add your own advice or suggestions for the novice female dominant beginning corporal punishment of men.

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A snippet from a comment Charlotte posted “Orgasm Denial – The Woman’s Choice.”

… Males are simple and in many ways primitive creatures that have to be tamed and controlled. The male sexuality is aggressive, dominant and suppressive and it is a sad fact that males forget all about rules and behavior norms and they also abstain from thinking the moment they experience a chance to instead allow their sexuality to take control of them and direct their actions. Essential in the process of taming and controlling a male is therefore to control his sexuality and effectively emasculate him.
Before I relatively early in our relationship equipped my husband with a safe high quality chastity device I already had him bridled reasonably well but I saw clearly that he still was not completely reliable but at times his sexuality took control of him and made him behave in ways that he later regretted and certainly was not proud of.
When I had purchased the chastity device and told him that he was going to be locked in it in future he was at the same time embarrassed and excited. …

Read all of Charlotte’s words.

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That men enjoy wearing panties or other articles of feminine attire is probably a very widespread fetish: exceeding the realms of female domination and loving female authority.

Luckily for submissive guys it is one that women are easily persuaded to accommodate and even come to enjoy.

But adopting women’s undergarments, lingerie shouldn’t be so often treated as assuming tokens of inferiority. If you think about it that is like saying women wear the clothing they do because they are inferior.

Just be glad she lets you wear high heels, panties and the like. You have found a spouse willing to accept your atypical needs. Just be happy.

It is like the toilet: people should use it in the fashion best suited to their anatomy. Some of us sit on it because we like to read.

Originally posted 2007-12-23 17:16:10.

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An excerpt from a commentary Charlotte posted on Men Are For Use

Are we first that far, and it will happen within the next couple of generations, we will of course look at men as utilities we keep for different purposes: workers, servants and clerks etcetera but also homemakers and in some cases as trophy husbands. They are there to be used as it suits us and to attract our interest they will need to adjust not only their physical appearances but also improve their manners and attitudes dramatically from what is typical today.
When men are liberated from all the responsibilities they are too childish to meet, limited and restricted by structures and norms and in all things depending on women it will be only natural for women but also for males to look at the male sex as created only for the purpose of being subservient and beneficial utilities for the females. This will be even more obvious when science makes the male completely unnecessary and also unwanted in the process of breeding.

Read all of Charlotte’s explanation.

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Barbara O’Toole Female Led Spanking Turned into sn Animated GIF.

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Originally posted 2013-08-09 19:01:34.

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Manthropology : The Science of the Inadequate Modern Male is sure to provide all sorts of trivia and speculations for male inferiorists*.

McAllister sets out his stall in the opening sentence of the prologue.

“If you’re reading this then you — or the male you have bought it for — are the worst man in history.

“No ifs, no buts — the worst man, period…As a class we are in fact the sorriest cohort of masculine Homo sapiens to ever walk the planet.”

Modern man a wimp says anthropologist

No, I’ve never seen the term male inferiorists before but it should surely tickle some gynosupremists.

Originally posted 2009-10-16 16:53:04.

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Physically? Mentally?

The central rule in dating, meeting and hooking up is: be honest. So much easier said than done for many men.

What are you like physically: strong, muscular, skinny, mushy, obese. There’s no value in fibbing – she’ll know the moment she sees you. And being dishonest is about as far from being submissive as you can get.

What are you like mentally: do you spend your free time with the television as your best friend. Do you read anything: fantasy novels, horror fiction, literary prose … ? That may seem trivial but people often find common ground in small things. And for some people intellectual and aesthetic pursuits aren’t trivial.

Are you physically active, athletic? Do you do good works/ Are you politically active?

A woman needs a reason to want to meet you. It isn’t because you’ll “do anything.” She’s already had offer from a thousand strangers, knows not to take it seriously and isn’t looking for a doormat with arms and legs anyway.

Learn how to describe your qualities in your profiles. It only takes a few words. Even less than this entry.

Originally posted 2012-10-05 06:34:21.

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By Jess

No one can deny the male is a derivative of the female template (why do men have nipples?). That is scientific fact. No one can deny Women are more genetically complex than men (XX vs. Xy chromosomes). No one can deny men are more prone to a number of diseases, and Women usually outlive men by an average of seven years. No one can deny Women bear the most vital sexual organs. No one can deny the main hub for emotion and memory formation is usually larger in a woman’s brain. No one can deny Women have a higher pain tolerance than men. No one can deny Women generally have better sensory ability than men. No one can deny that on average, Women are healthier than men of their own age.

All the above stands aside of certain social truths that are evident enough if one takes the time. I invite people to read The Myth of Male Power, by Warren Farrell, a former NOW board member, to start.

Science is about discovering truths about our universe which can be tested and verified conclusively. Thus far science has revealed that women are genetically more complicated—and complete—than men, as well as less prone to genetic diseases, have more advanced nervous systems, and so on. This is what the objective facts reveal. That is why good science is so wonderful; it is objective.

While science may be full of objective facts, the scientists themselves are not at all passionless robots in their observations or feelings. I will let a few individuals speak for themselves. Take from these snippets what you may.

“Males are wilting away…. From sperm count to social status, and from fertilization to death, as civilization advances those who bear Y chromosomes are in relative decline.”

“”Oh no!” I can hear you say, “Not superior, but equal, partners, complementary, different, but not superior. What an idea!” Men will mostly smile, while women, alarmed, will rush to the defense of men as women always have and always will.”

David Bainbridge Reproductive Biologist Author, The Natural Superiority of Women

“Outside the segments devoted to the small tasks of manhood, most of the y is filled with decay. It has degenerated because it abjures the messy business of sex.”

“Males are, in many ways, parasites upon their partners. Their interests are to persuade the other party to invest in reproduction, while doing as little as they can themselves.”

Steve Jones Geneticist, Author

Girls, not boys, come out wired for mutual gazing. Girls do not experience the testosterone surge in utero that shrinks the centers for communication, observation and processing of emotion, so their potential to develop skills in these areas are better than boys’.”

Louann Brizendine Neuropsychiatrist, Author

“Originally the Y-chromosome was a perfectly respectable chromosome, but its fate was sealed when it took on the mantle of creating males.”

“Are the male trademarks of greed, aggression and promiscuity genetically based?”

Bryan Sykes Geneticist, Author

The Female has two XX chromosomes, the male has one X chromosome and a smaller Y. The XX more than 1,000 genes and 160 million base pairs of DNA. The Y chromosome – 78 genes, 23 million DNA subunits. Over an extensive period of time, the Y chromosome has been slowly degrading.

Originally posted 2009-02-06 00:30:49.

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Some caucasian males harbor deep feelings of racial inferiority. Have fantasies of being dominates and punished by a woman of another race or color.

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Do you wish that you were the slave of an African American Mistress?

Originally posted 2013-02-05 18:12:46.

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From an old Usenet discussion of cuckolding and male submission.

The fantasy of my wife/mistress taking a lover is very strong with me, and I’m curious if this is a basic tenant of male submissiveness. The Father of Masochism (ol’ Leopold himself) had very strong feelings about this; in real life, he actually took out a personal ad to find a lover for his wife. So, from the very beginning, cuckolding has been a vital part of the “scene.” While these fantasies are very intense, my wife is a little less enthusiastic. She finds the fantasy appealing, but she’s reluctant to actually do it. I suppose that IS asking a lot of a person. So I don’t push the issue.

I’m not posting this to solicit “fantasy” stories – although I’ve seen other such questions posed in supposedly-serious forums which were little more than thinly-veiled requests for jerk-off material. Rather, I am curious as to how many submissive men share this fantasy. How about dominant women?

I’ve been active in the “club scene” for about 10 years, and have talked with other submissive men and dominant women about a variety of subjects – but, frankly, I’ve been a little shy about discussing this aspect of my fantasies. So I’ve really had no feedback on the subject.

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I’ve talked to a number of submissive men who have this among their fantasies, or varying flavors of this. One reads a lot of fiction about the wife/dom taking a lover and taunting her husband/sub that she needed a “real man” and so on. I know that this is a strong fantasy for some men, but it’s not something that appeals to me at all. To me this falls under the heading of “serious humiliation play”, and while that’s an okay kink, it’s not my kink.

Personally, I’m wired monogamous. I don’t really have an interest in playing with anyone other than my partner. There have been times when I have had more than one play-partner, but when I meet someone who I am interested in on a level other than play, I lose interest in playing with anyone else.

Having said that, I’ve had partners who have wanted to include others in our play in various ways, and I have thought about it. I guess it’s something I’d be willing to try if it was a really big deal to my partner, but it isn’t something I’d seek to do for myself. I try to keep an open mind, and not rule things out until I’ve tried them (with a few exceptions). Chances are, though, that I am unlikely to try this. The people who have asked me about this seem to want me to find the other playmates, and that’s something I am not at all motivated to do.

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Let me first say that my psych is a mix. In sexual matters, I am much the submissive but in all other aspects of life I am highly aggressive. With this in mind, yes, I too enjoy fantasies so themed. However, I question that it could ever work: Shortly before my wife and I were married, she admitted to having had slept (once) with another man very early in our relationship. My reaction? I basically told her to get out of the house *NOW* before I completely lost control. She got the hint and *ran* for the door. She left and I tore the place apart. By the next morning I’d more or less gotten it out of my system but I’ve no doubt that had she stayed and tried to “talk it over” she would have either been in the ICU or the morgue within an hour (physically, she’d never stand a chance against me and she knows it). Looking back, I realize that what had pissed me off the most was the feeling that I’d been made a fool of. Many of our friends (that I had met through her) were aware of the event *LONG* before I was. Suddenly, playful comments that people had made to me during parties no longer playful. Rather, they seemed to be inside jokes/insults to which I had not been privy. In retrospect, I’m sure this persecution was entirely in my mind, but that was my perception nonetheless. Does this mean that such a fantasy could never work for me? I don’t think so. As I said, it was the dishonesty concerning the tryst that hurt the most. Thus, if such an encounter were to occur over the table and with my consent, it may have a chance. But it would have to be under *IDEAL* circumstances. Circumstances that I realistically doubt would ever happen.

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To me, if your wife isn’t enthusiastic about it, I see potential problems for both of you. If she’s reluctant to do it, is there any probability that if she *does* do it, feelings of guilt might become involved on her part at some future date? In other words, does *she* actually find the fantasy appealing, or is she finding it appealing because she knows you find it appealing, or have you talked yourself into thinking she finds it appealing? In other words, lots of possibilities there………

The other side is your ultimate response. Right now it’s a fantasy. And you’re “safe” so far in that it is a fantasy. What’s going to happen should it become a reality? And a reality with humiliation attached? One of those “be careful what you wish for ’cause you just might get it” thangs.

I *have* found personally that the fantasy often seems to be a “basic tenant” for males in general, whether dominant or submissive (among those I know at least). But when push comes to shove, I’ve found the general direction in *reality* to be actually towards monogamy.

This causes a problem for me in that I recently discovered I’m polyamorous. Well, I shouldn’t say I recently discovered it……I guess I’ve know it deep down for a good long time………..but I’ve never allowed myself to bring it to the surface since any man (excepting one) that I’ve thought seriously about and who’s thought seriously about me has been monogamy-oriented. Thus I’ve always felt guilt and tried to fit into the monogamy-mold, feeling something was wrong with me. But talk about square pegs and round holes. I’ve finally hit the point where I can be true to myself and say “nope, I’m polyamorous, take it or leave it” and walk if they can’t accept that. And if they *can’t* accept it, then we’re both better off for the knowing. Or so *I* figure.

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Cuckolding has been a fantasy of mine since high school, but the opportunity has never presented itself. If my wife were to sneak around behind my back, that would be cuckolding in the technical sense, and I would be hurt. For the fantasy to work, she would have to tell me that she desires to have sex with another man. To be cuckold and not know about it is no fun AND the honesty has then been lost from our relationship. Because of my commitment to her, I would not expect to be given a choice in the matter. However, if it ever does come up, I am sure she would ask me if it is ok for her to have sex with another man. For me, it is a matter of our respective places in the world. My wife is superior to me in every way and she has the right to hold me monogamous while she finds satisfaction elsewhere. That’s just the way it is. If she had reason to permanently chaste me, then I would absolutely expect her to find satisfaction else where. To speak directly to the question below, I don’t think there is a difference between “cuckolding” and “other partner” if everyone is consensual. Cuckolding, as a word, has more mystery and…..well……charm, if you will, than “other partner” does.

It doesn’t seem that humiliation can be avoided in this situation. Even if my wife wanted to meet her boyfriend/lover in private, it would be humiliating for me. If she brought him home and I was required to serve them both, that would be absolutely mortifying. But, I think, I would feel secure with my place in the world.

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Anneli Rufus writes:

It’s S&M for Ph.D.s: Cuckolding, in which men watch their wives have sex with other guys, is catching on among people with high IQs who revel in the psychological agony.

The Daily Beast: The Intellectual Sex Fetish

A cuckold by choice interviewed makes an unlikely claim:

Cuckoldry is “truly intellectual in its enterprise because it replaces sexual touch with humiliation and emotional pain, both of which are psychological.”

This reminds me of the ProDomme’s claim that their customers are all rich and powerful.

I’m an emotional masochist myself. It isn’t because I’m a bright guy.

Anyone surveying the fetish dating and personal ads sites sees plenty of dimwits and dunces just begging to be humiliated.

Saying cuckoldry is for smart men is special pleading.

Originally posted 2010-08-05 12:37:02.

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I’m going to let you in on a Startling Femdom Secret!

MsX with whom I was exchanging a few emails wrote:

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The secret? It has taken countless hours of research, reading weblogs by dominant women, visiting F/m forums.

There are plenty of dominant women looking for the right partner. Partner may seem too neutral a word but each is variously looking for a submissive or perhaps a slave. BDSM might be only now and then, a bit every evening or some form of lifestyle D/s. Or just a play partner. But I’m thinking of the women looking for a kinky boyfriend or lover.

Each dominant woman is as individual as any woman. But she has special needs that can make even her search more complicated than the norm.

You can read my How to Woo a Domme Online but I’ll give you a concentrated dose of advice.

Don’t invent forum names like pantyworm4u. She’d rather hear from Fred. Or a guy who’s handle reflects a non-fetish interest or is a clever joke.

Don’t PM or IM her saying “want u 2 crush my nuts” and certainly not “want u 2 crush my nuts while I sing the Star Spangled Banner and you wear a maroon miniskirt.”

Even if you are looking for a short-term kink playmate that isn’t the way to approach someone who is supposed to hold the power.

Much less a woman who for some reason decided that she is a person and would like to meet the same.

Fill out your profile dammit! And try to say more than “I’m a sissy painwhore who likes to do housework.” Well, if you are really keen on sweeping floors that might be OK. (Heck you can write to me: I hate housework.) Mention your interests and hobbies (which hopefully exceed watching television).

The essence is: be a person, be as polite as you are in real life (and if need be learn some manners). Treat her like a person.

Or hire a professional. She may not be interested in you but may take lively pleasure in spending your money.

Given that dominant women are uncommon it is mighty surprising that good submissive men can be hard for some – nice, kind, smart – women to find.

Go and sin no more! Or rather sin the right way.

This could go on forever. Share your suggestions, tales of woe or funny stories.

Originally posted 2012-05-27 05:30:11.

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The first femdom novel, Venus in Furs featured cuckoldry.

For many men being cuckolded is the supreme submissive fantasy. But some of those who get to live it divorce their wives. Or their wives leave them.

If the lore that women are better and finer creatures is it any surprise that many would have no desire to pursue this?

The trauma is too awful.

How do you feel about female led infidelity?

Originally posted 2008-05-06 19:42:20.

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@%&$#!

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Males should be denied orgasms because

• Women are superior
• Men are inferior

Males should be allowed orgasms:

• Never, ever
• Only ruined orgasms
• Thinking about this excites me so much I have to go masturbate

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The best male chastity device is:

• CB-6000 with points of intrigue
• Teeth of Kali bracelet
• Barb wire with duct tape

Males should be cuckolded because:

• Women are superior
• Men are inferior

After my wife cuckolds me I want to:

• Eat the creampie
• Take her and the bull out to McDonalds

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Submales should be feminized and sissified because:

• Women are superior
• I like pink

My penis is so small:

• I clean it with a Q-tip and a magnifying glass
• My penis is smaller than your penis!

Dear gentle reader: what do you think?

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Female Led Corporal Punishment Routine

By Mistress Q

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I have a submissive boyfriend who struggles to maintain a properly deferential attitude and perfectly deferential demeanor.

I have improved his submission with three mandatory daily spankings.

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Morning Spanking

The first spanking takes place after he brings me my morning coffee and I’ve sipped enough to wake up.
I spank my boyfriend with a paddle. It takes little effort to make him whimper a little. The first spanking puts him in his place.

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Middle Spanking

The second spanking takes place when convenient in the afternoon or early evening. I use a thick black leather belt. This spanking is for my amusement. I whip him as harshly and as long as fits my mood. The spanking might be mild or severely painful.

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Last Spanking

I use a cane for my slave boyfriend’s third spanking. It is always late evening. Sometimes just before his bedtime. The intensity of this session of corporal punishment reflects his behavior for the day. If he has been submissive, obedient and pleasing he gets a firm caning of at least twenty-five strokes. If his behavior has displeased me the caning is more brutal. If I’m angry I leave him in tears before I lock him in his cage for the night.

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Recreational Spankings

I may beat him just for fun at any time during the day. Unscheduled spankings are always performed with a whip, tawse or quirt.

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Female-Led Disciplinary Punishment Notification

Feel that you aren’t getting the frequency and intensity of the punishment you deserve?

Have you been disrespectful, rude, disobedience, lazy, irresponsible, smug?

Should you be spanked, paddled, whipped, feminized?

Want to aid your Mistress – girlfriend, partner, lover, wife – in giving you the discipline that you deserve?

Click on the thumbnail below and print he full-sized disciplinary notification below.

Now present it to your superior so that you know that you understand that you should be punished and welcome her authority over you.

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And do let me know how this works out.

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Notes for Aspiring Submissive Boyfriends

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Being boring isn’t victimless crime.
– Richard Evans Lee

Why should a dominant woman pay any attention to you if you are a person of no interesting. Wanting to be feminized, cuckolded and whipped in themselves don’t make a person interesting.

That is a matter of compatible BDSM needs and desires.

Nothing is more boring than a horny monomaniac who thinks he is submissive.

A life without irony isn’t worth living.
– Richard Evans Lee

Indeed humorless monomania foredooms a satisfying relationship of any sort.

Good natured of life’s failures, flubs, mishaps and folllies is necessary if anything more in a power exchange than vanilla relationship.

A sane dominant woman will appreciate a man who can smile through the disappointments. And who can make her smile.

The will to a system is a lack of integrity.
– Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche

Fixed rules, preconceptions, one true ways will only lead to failure.

Submission can’t be systemized except that it must include empathy, tenderness and mindfulness.

In fine:

• Be a man of good will and kindness.
• Don’t let your passion drive you crazy.
• Don’t let self appointed guardians of female domination fool you.
• Communicate: don’t just be a list of wants and do mes.
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Stuff like that. Roll your own.

Originally posted 2011-08-23 13:30:14.

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For me romantic love and submission are hopelessly intertwined, in fact I can safely say they are one and the same. That is not say I cannot enjoy a good whipping from a recently met acquaintance, but I believe that is more masochistic than submissive.

In that love, romantic or otherwise has an element of putting another’s likes, interests, satisfaction ahead of one’s own, of submerging one’s self, it is submissive. Generally love is not looked at and defined as submission. The emotional rituals of courting in a vanilla relationships are very similar to those establishing a D/s relationship.

However, in a vanilla relationship one doesn’t get all the wonderful kinky stuff. Too often people define D/s in terms of bondage, whips, chains and etc, but those are a fun expansion of one’s sex life. If dominance and submission were not a part of our emotional and psychological make up we would not have individuals who identify themselves as sub or dom.

My guess is if someone finds romantic love incompatible with submission, for him, at the current time, the two are incompatible. My problem is I’ve always found romantic love impossible without submission.

(Old newsgroup posting.)

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Learning to Disicipline Her Husband

There is a place where woman’s mastery of the male is unquestioned.

When a young woman has selected the male who will spend his life as an obedient and submissive slave husband she approaches an older woman. A mature dominant woman wise and experienced in the control and discipline of submales.

Often she is the young woman’s own mother or future step-mother. More affluent brides hire a professional consultant.

The professional Disciplinary Mistress teaches the young Mistress to be the nuances of F/m corporal punishment. Control of intensity and quality of punishment spankings.

With the consultant’s advice the young woman selects the male’s first chastity belt. Selects dresses, cosmetics and wigs for the sissificatiion of the groom. And if she is a sadist those special toys for evenings entertaining herself tormenting the helpless slave husband.

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More Jay Em woman-led spanking art.

Originally posted 2013-02-21 07:29:10.

Young Woman Learns How to Spank a Man
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