Male Slave Conduct Contract Regulations*

By Mistress Thionite

[1]Male Slaves are considered as the lowest form of life on this planet. Every
other living thing has a higher rank than that of Male Slave. A Male Slave’s Mistress
may use his Male Slave for any purpose, including, but not limited to, household
duties, sexual gratification, and being loaned out to others for the
exchange of money. There are two types of Male Slaves, Full-Time Male Slaves, and
SessionMale Slaves. Some rules differ for each type, and are described as such
when necessary. When no distinction between Male Slave types is given, the Rule
applies to both types. Full-Time Male Slaves are exactly as the title suggests,
full time. These types are used in household duties, and are under
constant supervision by a Mistress. Session Male Slaves are those who only
occasionally enjoy the sexual aspect of the Mistress/Male Slave life.

[2] Absolute obedience of each of these 35 rules is required. Failure to
comply with any of these rules will result in 25 lashes with the cat-o-nine
tails, belt or cane, for each offense.

[3] Male Slave is not permitted to use pronouns that refer to it as a person.
Only “Male Slave”, and “it”, or something else that shows no personal identity.

[4] Male Slave will not speak unless spoken to by Mistress or any of Mistress’s
associates, except in case of an emergency such as fire, drowning, or other
such event that would require instant help.

[5] Full-Time Male Slave is responsible for keeping its body devoid of hair,
except eyebrows and on the top of its head, either by shaving, waxing or
hair-removal gels/lotions. This will be done with complete supervision by
Mistress. Session Male Slave may be required to arrive at its appointment
completely hairless. This is at the discretion of Mistress.

[6] Full-Time Male Slave is to be naked at all times. Session Male Slave is to be
naked when it arrives for its appointment. The appointment is considered
to have started and/or ended the moment Male Slave steps over Mistress’s
threshold.

[7] Full-Time Male Slave is forbidden to touch its genitals, or ass, except in
accordance of Rules 5, 13 & 14. Session Male Slave is forbidden from touching
its genitals at any time during an appointment.

[8] Immediately upon agreement of becoming Full-Time Male Slave, it agrees to
surrender its payment for the privilege of becoming Mistress’s Male Slave, in the
form of all liquidated bank assets. Male Slave must also forfeit any previous
employment. Male Slave’s immediate family must be notified of Male Slave’s free will
to go into servitude. In return, Mistress agrees to keep in touch with
Male Slave’s family, in the event of family sickness or death. Session Male Slave is
required to surrender its payment for the privilege of becoming Mistress’s
Male Slave at the rate of $50 per hour. Appointments generally do not last more
than one day, unless previously agreed upon by both parties.

[9] Full-Time Male Slave is not permitted to leave Mistress’s residence, for any
reason except for emergency purposes.

[10] Male Slave is not permitted to use any seating other than the floor.

[11] Male Slave is not permitted to use any appliances, electronic devices or
other household items, unless otherwise ordered. These items include, but
are not limited to, stove, refrigerator, microwave, washer/dryer,
television, cell phone, radio, computer, etc.

[12] Male Slave has no privacy.

[13] Full-Time Male Slave will give itself a daily enema while under its
Mistress’s supervision. This will serve as Male Slave’s allotted daily
defecation. Session Male Slave is required to arrive at its appointment,
completely cleaned out.

[14] Full-Time Male Slave is granted permission to relieve its bladder three
times daily, at 8 am, 4 pm and Midnight, provided Mistress is awake. If
Mistress is not awake, or Male Slave is not being used as described in Rule 15, no
bathroom relief shall be granted. Session Male Slave will not be permitted to
relieve any bodily functions during an appointment.

[15] When Full-Time Male Slave is in use, Male Slave must remain within 3 feet of its
Mistress’s side, at all times. “In Use” is considered to be anytime Mistress
is home and awake. Session Male Slave must remain in sight at all times.

[16] When not in use, Full-Time Male Slave will reside in its cage, where its
arms and legs will be shackled, and tethered by its balls with a rope or
chain.

[17] Full-Time Male Slave will be displayed as such when Mistress receives guests.
No effort shall be made by Male Slave to cover up or hide its lowly status from
others. Male Slave is required to undertake all hostess duties, and provide
enough food to satisfy two servings, per person, per each dish made. Male Slave
will also provide all refreshments, and offer its mouth as an ashtray for
those guests who smoke.

[18] Male Slave shall regularly be tested for Obedience, to ensure proper
compliance.

[19] All orders given to Male Slave must be obeyed immediately, without
question, and without hesitation.

[20] Male Slave shall assume any position when commanded. Positions are as
follows: (A) “Inspect”- Male Slave will stand, legs spread apart to its
shoulder-width, hands clasped tightly behind its head. (B) “Present”-
Male Slave will stand, legs together, hands clasped tightly behind its back.
(C) “Kneel”- Male Slave will drop to floor on its knees, legs spread apart to
its shoulder-width, hands clasped tightly behind its head. (D) “Lay”-
Male Slave will drop to its stomach, legs spread as wide apart as possible,
hands clasped tightly behind its head, elbows touching the ground. (E)
“Wall”- Male Slave will stand against nearest wall, hands clasped tightly behind
its head, and arch its body out as far as possible so that only its elbows
and heels are touching anything solid. (F) “Relax”- Male Slave will drop
facedown to the floor, then raise itself off the floor and arch its back as
high as possible, with only fingertips [not entire hands!] and tips of toes
touching the floor.

[21] When Male Slave is not being commanded, it will sit on the floor, hands
wrapped around Mistress’s ankles.

[22] Full-Time Male Slave will be locked into a chastity device at all times,
and permitted to cum only as Mistress sees fit. SessionMale Slaves may or may
not be kept in a chastity device, dependent upon Mistress’s desire. Male Slave
will be frequently edged toward cumming, but not be permitted to do so.
If, during an edging session Male Slave “accidentally” cums without permission,
it will receive an additional 10 lashes.

[23] Male Slave is required to have a butt plug in its anal cavity at all times.

[24] If Male Slave must relieve any bodily functions other than allotted times,
it must ask permission. If permission is asked, Male Slave will be punished for
breaking Rule 4 and receive an additional 25 lashes. Permission may or may
not be granted, dependent upon present activities and/or Mistress’s mood.

[25] When there is more than one Full-Time Male Slave in residence,Male Slaves are
not permitted to speak to each other in accordance with Rule 4. There are
video and audio surveillance devices located throughout Mistress’s home,
which are in use 24/7. If Male Slave is discovered to disobey this rule, an
additional 50 lashes will be served as punishment to all parties involved.

[26] Male Slave understands that it will be subjected to any and all sorts of
varying things, including, but not limited to, urination, pain, and
bondage.

[27] Male Slave will immediately apologize, and request forgiveness of any
wrongdoing.

[28] When Male Slave is answering a question or commandment, Male Slave must reply in
as few words as possible. Male Slave will always end each sentence with either
“Sir”, “Mistress”, or “Mistress [insert name here]“.

[29] Full-Time Male Slave will be fed twice each day, 7 am and 7 p.m. Meals
will consist of whatever Mistress deems appropriate. Session Male Slave will be
fed if an appointment lasts longer than 9 hours. Male Slave can refuse any
meal; however, each refusal of a meal is punishable by 25 additional
lashings. Full-Time Male Slave will also receive a 36-hour fast of any food or
drink.

[30] In the case of sickness or death of anyone in Full-Time Male Slave’s
immediate family, Male Slave will be notified immediately and granted a
temporary Bereavement Leave of all household duties and allowed to join its
family, with Mistress’s supervision. Rules 3 – 5, 7, 10 – 14, 19 – 24, 27 -
29, 31 & 34 will still apply. In addition, no effort will be made by Male Slave
to cover up or hide its lowly status from others. In addition, Male Slave’s
safeword will not apply to this situation, nor will it get Male Slave out of any
service during Bereavement Leave. Male Slave must always remain within sight of
Mistress. There are no exceptions. Any and all punishments earned during
Bereavement Leave will be given immediately upon return to full service.
All “off-duty” time accumulated by Male Slave during its reprieve will be added
on at the end of its service, and tripled.

[31] No refunds for Male Slave servitude will be given, for any reason,
whatsoever.

[32] Full-Time Male Slave agrees to a minimum mandatory 90-day contract, as a
trial period for both itself and Mistress. If during that time Male Slave does
not wish to continue service, or if Male Slave’s service is deemed
unsatisfactory by Mistress within that time, servitude will end on the 91st
day. If Mistress agrees to keep Male Slave longer, a new contract of no less than
six months will be signed and agreed upon. Each subsequent contract
renewal will carry an additional three months. For example, if Male Slave
passes the 90-day trial period, and the following six-month contract, the
following contract would be for nine months, the next would be twelve
months, and so on.

[33] Upon agreement of becoming Male Slave, it must commit to memory a safeword
of Mistress’s choosing. The safeword will release Male Slave from any situation
where it feels it is being used too roughly. If the safeword is used,
Male Slave understands that it will be punished for attempting to defy its
Mistress, and agrees to submit to a future punishment of Mistress’s choosing.

[34] Male Slave must endure any and all punishments without speaking, swearing
or other vocal statements. Sobbing, wailing, shrieking, etc., are
permitted, as long as no words are uttered. If any words are uttered
during punishment, an additional five lashes will be administered, per
offense.

[35] Male Slave is required to memorize each of these 35 Rules, verbatim, and
must be able to correctly state any and all Rules at any given time, under
any and all circumstances. Ten punishment lashes will be given for each
word missed or incorrectly added by Male Slave during recitation.

( * NB: I know some of you think this is the way to live in real life. But the words above are for fantasies. None of you could actually handle living like this.)

More F/m Contracts.

Originally posted 2013-07-20 05:50:09.

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More Than S&M and D/s

Part of an entry I wrote on my personal site over a year ago. We all have our moments of confusion, desires can be inconstant things. As a couple we’re full of simple love and we always strive to talk. So the uncertainties resolve themselves.

It may surprise some of you that I don’t think about dominance and submission most of the time. Life has many other needs and requirements.

Especially right now. When my libido flags, as it unkindly does at times, I lose my connection not just to my penis but also the joys of masochism and surrender.

Spooks me a bit. It as if something has been taken away from me. Suddenly I look at my desires with puzzlement. Only a little, I miss feeling them.

Makes me worry that she’ll need for me to become her slave and while I will comply my heart won’t be fully in it. She has a discerning eye for the depth and quality of my surrender however much I try to offer a simulacrum. I think that was a problem only once.

And one of the pleasures of our mutual exploration is that she has gained increasing insight into how to bring forth in me what she requires.

Really I can’t imagine a time when I wouldn’t happily lick her boots.

I’ve gotten sidetracked.

What I wanted to explain is that as much as I enjoy her taking me as her slave the thoughts that first come to my mind when I think of her return are often of other things.

Nibbling her earlobe, digging my tongue into her belly button.

I’m so very lucky to have found someone with whom I can share a full spectrum of experiences.

Originally posted 2011-01-01 15:32:25.

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Not by me. Left elsewhere as a comment on Cut Your Cock Off.

Typical Rubex Illustration

I have been permitted to make this comment:- As a permanently chastised companion – my lady doesn’t like the word slave – I would – if I may – fully endorse the idea of penectomy for permanently chastised males provided there are not medical reasons preventing it. Chastity devices have their limitations and are uncomfortable.

This discomfort is useful for showing the slave the permanence of his situation and the futility of resistance to his total submission but once he is completely conditioned and submissive penectomy would be a complete and final finish to his enslavement. From then he and his mistress can get on with their life-style.

Castration is not the preferred choice compared to penectomy since penectomy retains “sexual desire” that castration removes but both are as permanent – the unrequited desire is what makes the slave totally submissive in a way that castration does not.

The methods often employed are that the urethra is retained although the remainder of the penis is removed and relocated behind the scrotum for sit-down peeing – or that the the penis is simply cut off at its base with a small tube inserted into the urethra to permit peeing during healing.

This latter method can be problematic – infection control and /or bladder control as the penis helps with bladder function.
Two methods I submit would be worth considering are 1: Where the removal at – or near – the base is preferred a metal tube be inserted into the urethra and a elestorator band be placed on the penis so that it crushes onto the tube as in castration but still permitting peeing whilst the penis dies – it could then be removed later with the band and tube. 2: That the same approach be employed but only the head be removed – making the penis far less sensitive – then a small light weight chastity tube be permanently fitted onto the penis stump thus removing the ability for any sexual activity with minimum interference to bladder control.

Lastly I would respectfully urge all mistress to be strong in their will-power once such a step is embarked upon but be kind and gentle – but firm when necessary – to their slaves once this final step is taken – reminding the slave that all of this is for his own good within their lifestyle.

Thank you.

Originally posted 2011-04-20 07:17:51.

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You might find the story of the man who bought a CB-3000 as a Christmas present for his wife interesting.

I have no proposals for arcane and bizarre F/m Christmas rituals. Why should there be any?

This post is to direct you to a small collection of Femdom Christmas Cartoons. A new illustration be added every day for the next several days.

Originally posted 2010-12-01 07:55:52.

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A guy wrote that he was doing his Christmas shopping:

i also spotted a cb-3000 chastity device in a toy store nearby work, and i want to buy it for Her and present it to Her. Trouble is She probably wouldn’t know what to do with it! So what i was thinking was trying to locate some stories or real life testimonials about the advantages of keeping your husband in chastity, i would present the device to Her at Christmas along with all Her other gifts and let Her read the stories to spark Her mind

You can just see the look on his wife’s face when she opens that mysterious looking thing. Though I do remember a few men who got a chastity device as a birthday or Christmas present.

A few people replied. As did I:

Much of what is put up on the web about “advantages” of chastity is just folklore. A man who is better behaved because he’s wearing a CB-3000 is really one who misbehaves as a way to get it put on him.

I think you should just honestly tell her that you would appreciate it if she’s help you explore this because you think it will make you happy. If she does then make sure her kindness to you is reciprocated by kindness to her.

Since she loves you your happiness will make her feel good. And as your life-partner she will appreciate any additional helpfulness and attentiveness you bring to your relationship. I think you’ll see it is really easier to cultivate and sustain a D/s dynamic that is rooted in mutual happiness than BDSM fiction.

It got me to thinking about instances in my own love affairs when either I or my lover should have expressed some desire clearly and directly. It is easy to go unheard if you are coy or mumble your wish under your breath.

And to strive to be more obliging. Often I fear I failed to be. Intimate times with our partners might prosper more if for fifteen seconds we paused to get past the “No” that instantly rises in our mind and weigh the mutual happiness that might be found in “Yes.” Often our objections are rooted in trivia.

Anyway the guy came back to say:

… i think its best leave it for now as rightly pointed out this is probably for me more than my Wife, its Her birthday the 31st Dec so there’s a few more presents to be bought

Then:

just sold my sony psp for 270 euro… so could spend some of that on the cb 3000

Maybe he’ll return and let us know how it went.

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Woman as Superior Goddess

Not that I think they are.

But many of you – i.e., submissive and masochistic men – think women are better than men.

My own suspicion is that the primary appeal of this belief is that it justifies in the man’s mind his cravings for humiliation and pain. Enables him to overcome the social taboos that surround his kinks.

But if you believe in female superiority / supremacy what do you attribute the inequality to?

• Biology? Do women have superior genes, some sort of chromosomal superiority?
• Socialization? The differences in the ways each gender has been during childhood? Their upbringing makes girls full of sugar, spice and everything nice?
• Spiritual, magical forces? Some sort of neopagan Goddess pervades the universe and imparts her holiness to earthly women?

Why is a woman better than you? Better than me?

Originally posted 2012-11-06 06:26:18.

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I Believe Women Are Better Than Men.

A man expresses his faith in the superiority of women

(Like many in the world today, i grew up in a home that was destroyed by the man.) You do not explain why he left, so your argument has no bases. Your Mother by taking out their anger on you is guilty of Child Abuse.

(my experience is not the only one, as there are millions of worthless men all through the world that will say anything and everything to a Lady, just to take her to bed and leave Her soon after. This is the lowest form of life… someone who is so concerned about self-gratification that he doesn’t think about how many lives he ruins in the process.) Did he force them to go to bed with him? No he did not they knew it was only about sex and enjoyed doing so themselves.

(Women generally i do not think would go to war or fight over foolishness like this.) Please I have seen women fight over less and even try to kill each other over a Girl Friend or Boy Friend.

(When i moved to Florida, i was fortunate enough to be allowed to serve a Mistress who was a firm believer in chastity. She felt that every male should be in chastity when they turn 10 years old. males have no ability to control their ‘urges’, and prove on a regular basis how inferior they are to Women by everything as simple as obsessing about pornographic material, to the ache and need to constantly touch themselves, all the way to much more violent crimes such as rape.) OK as a Dominatrix myself a chastity device is used for the enforcement of rules. Females and Males can be fitted with a Chastity device. Your Mistress mistreated you and trained you in the wrong way, she was not a mistress but a Female supremacist who imparted her views on you which is a violation of the Dominate and submissive values. Males can and do control their ergs because you could not is one of your problems. The difference is a Males arousal is physically noticeable where a Females is n
ot so noticable. Female also watch porn on a regular basses.

(i think some men, when properly trained and conditioned can be useful parts of society and assist Women, but so many men should simply be castrated to help society be a better place.) Yes males trained to be Sissies and be overlords of other males. Yes a Feminist way of thinking that castration is such a good Idea to control males,IE Eunuchs. Now I Know you must be one of them Gynarchists thinking you will save the Planet from males who went on a rampage.

Yes all who agree with this are #gynarchists who think Lesbians are the most advanced form of life on the Planet. We are not the most advanced form of life. We are just as human as males and just as apt to screw things up as the males did. Balance between both Feminine and Masculine would work best, but as equals.

GYNARCHY is a really stupid Idea born from a person who a Sociopathic Homicidal Maniac.

(i can only pray that Hillary Clinton is able to win the next election and at the very least, America can be under the power of a strong intelligent Woman and no longer ruled by male dictatorship.) Hilary Clinton is not strong or intelligent, She is only a figurehead her strings are pulled by someone else. She should never be Elected if she is Males will know a future of subhuman slavery. The extremists of Gynarchy have linked up all Female supremacy, Female empowerment, Feminist and Female rights groups together to form one Hugh association. If you doubt me visit their site. (Gynarchy international.)

I am a believer in Female superiority but see some vry disturbing things in the making.

This was originally posted as a comment on Femdom Government

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An extract from Charlotte’s response to a question on Men Who Accept Being Inferior Make the Best Husbands.

Fortunately the feminization of male clothing has progressed so far that tights and pantyhose for boys and men now are easily available and I insist that my son and husband in the winter season wear tights especially when they are outdoors. I do it because it is a sensible and practical way to make sure they do not get cold but I admit that it also plays a role that as a bonus effect wearing tights seems to make them both feel more controlled and in a way restrained. It is only a theory I have but I suppose that what causes this bonus effect is that tights are tight and make a male feel that his body and especially his private parts are restricted.

My males’ wardrobes do not include many traditional male shirts; I prefer them to wear t-shirts sweatshirts and blouses. Their nightwear include pajamas, nightshirts and big t-shirts but mostly nightshirts. Also with nightwear I prefer buying them things that are cute, soft and at least not explicit masculine.

The way I dress my husband and son of course very much reflects the way I expect them to be; sweet, cute and meek and I am certain that this as one of many things helps modifying their behavior.

Read all that Charlote wrote.

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Charlotte has posted more invaluable words on the entry “Train Male Children to Be Submissive.“

… I have always been very controlling and restrictive with my son, set narrow limits for his activities, discouraged tendency to independence, checked on him, supervised him, guided him carefully in even the smallest things, never trusted him with responsibilities I had not first tested that he was completely competent to handle and never trusted him with much freedom.

He has always had earlier curfew and earlier bedtime than his sisters at the same age and he has to ask for permission before going anywhere and before doing most things. The early bedtime occasionally annoys him but in general he is content and seems to experience his very controlled and regulated life as pleasant and safe and he accepts as the perfectly natural thing it is that there are things his sisters can be allowed to do but that he cannot be allowed because he is a boy.

Read all of Charlotte’s words.

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Varieties of Male Submissive Needs & Desires

• 1. physical (most submissives, masochists, etc.)
• 2. emotional
• 3. intellectual
• 4. spiritual (least submissives, masochists, etc.)

I have seen various writings on the levels of servitude and have written about them in various articles (Techniques of Servitude). However, I have found that just about everything in life can be divided into the four categories above.

They are not exclusive, a person can be operating from one to all four of them. The concern in training submissives in a lifestyle capacity is where the majority of focus lays.

The submissive who is operating mainly or solely from the physical level is foremost interested in fulfilling his own needs primarily. Submission begins and ends with sexual arousal leading to orgasm. This is one reason orgasm training/ denial/deprivation is used in training.

The physical level of submissive is not a good candidate for continuous service unless some aspects from the other three levels balance out the physical attractions.

The emotional level of masochist is trying to fulfill emotional/love needs. They serve from a base of love for the Mistress. Often this may be unrequited love as the Mistress may have someone else as Her significant other. It is extremely difficult for the emotional submissive to live with the fact that they may not be lovers. However, the wise Mistress can elicit better performance from a submissive operating solely on this level, rather than the physical.

The intellectual submissive may or may not be physically involved with the lifestyle of serving a Mistress. He usually likes to know why he is this way, reason it all out. This submissive is likely to be a good servant because they have thought it all out, come to grips with it and serve from a base of knowledge. Combined with the emotional aspects, the physical attraction to serving womyn, he can be successful.

The spiritual submissve serves with the goal of betterment of womyn, not as much his own needs or an individual womyn, but all womyn. He is often found working in Female Supremacist organizations as a servant and all-around worker. He may or may not be Goddess oriented in his personal beliefs, but is open-minded enough to accept that in the Mistress.

Ideally, the preferred servant is well rounded on all levels of submission and able to function in a wide variety of situations to benefit the Mistress and womynkind.

Originally posted 2013-04-13 14:27:05.

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Drawings and painting portraying female domination. Some of us are – or have been – determined collectors of it.

I suspect most people like Sardax’s refined, fantastic and smug young women. I’ll own to be a Sardax admirer though I do wish the men didn’t always look so damned miserable.

Bill Ward, a cartoonist who turned to BDSM when his income from other sources dwindled. I used to be a fan of his extreme and unlikely drawings of women abusing men. Then my lover at the time pointed out how awful those women’s faces were Killed most of my interest in Bill Ward’s drawings.

Gene (Eneg) Bilbrew (Van Rod) produced a huge amount of D/s and S&M themed drawings. Some remain among my favorited.

John Willie – famous for Exotique and Bizarre drew some very cute dommes: girlish sadists. I like those.

Jim Bishop’s black and white illustrations of men in bondage remain favorites even though I know my body could never handle some of those contortions.

And I have a terrible weakness for Kami Tora’s anime style drawings of cbt.

Stig, Hata Deli, Laurent Lebeau, Bernard Montorguel, Jack Rhodes, Steffi and so many others have rendered drawing of women dominating men over the decades. Some had a specialty; others drew either whatever was ordered or fancy suggested.

Perhaps you have a stash of F/m artwork that excites you.

Is that something you enjoy? Are there artists you are fond of, some whose work you despise? (There no denying the incompetence of some.)

Two Years Later

After posting this entry I started a F/m art site. While there is the usual sort of imagery I’ve gone out of my way to find illustrations from diverse sources many of whih were not original about female domination or male submission. But can be seen as such if you have the right kind of imagination.

My Femdom art site is:

Originally posted 2008-02-28 14:14:42.

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Lifetime Orgasm Denial

In this Matriarchal Female Supremacist state male sexuality passes through two distinct phases.

I

For many years after he is born a male is a member of the Country of the Youth. They are naturally inculcated in the state religion of Woman Worship and instructed in their status as women’s inferiors, mere creatures.

The young men are allowed to spend some time under their own control, enjoying themselves as they wish. When their sexual capacity and desires develop there is no restriction on their sexual fulfillment. Males are allowed to masturbate as often as they wish. (And it is very, very often.)

II

When the male approaches the age when he will be auctioned off and become the owned property of a woman he is moved to the Country of Preparation. A time of stunned shock. While the males grow up knowing their future as slaves their hearts are never really ready for their transition.

The slaves-to-be are assigned small cells. They are allowed no entertainment. No socializing. Much of their time the men are locked in bondage chairs and watch training and condition films.

This is when each male gets his first chastity belt: his penis’ permanent prison.

In the first phase males are allowed leisure and sexual pleasure so that will keenly appreciate what they lose on becoming the property of a superior female.

Once a man’s penis is locked up it is forever. Total male chastity has begun. He will no longer be allowed to masturbate. Never again will he experience the pleasure of an orgasm.

More F/m art by Xrenderer.

Originally posted 2013-02-23 06:14:34.

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Caveat 1: This approach will not necessarily work for all dominant womans but we feel we were open enough in our suggestions that at the very least, the dominant woman you contact should not accuse you of disrespect or trolling. At the very least, we would hope not. We are hoping other dominant womans will contribute to this with their own advice, opinions, needs, etc.

Caveat 2: The examples we give here should NOT be copied & pasted and used as your own. You should simply find inspiration in them. We hope you will retain the spirit in which these examples are written and personalise them to represent yourself accurately.

Sample introduction letter

Dear Lady,

I have read your profile from beginning to end, not once but twice, to ensure that I didn't overlook anything. I realize that you took the time to write your profile so that others may learn from it.

My first impression of you is that you are a woman deserving respect and only the best. That said I am sincerely hoping that through my interactions, I might show you that I am worthy of your time, affections and dominance.

I would very much like if we could get better acquainted, the how, when, where and pace I leave as your final decision. But if I may humbly propose that whatever is convenient for you, be it, emails, instant messages, chatting, phones calls, meeting for coffee, would be more than satisfactory for me. I understand fully that a lady of your stature does not make rash decisions and that I must prove myself worthy of your time. I understand that things may or may not progress at a pace of your comfort level. I humbly agree to abide by whatever attentions you wish to grant me.

If you will grant me the privilege of meeting you I promise to meet whatever requirements you may have of me. I understand that your safety is of paramount concern and will gladly respect whatever method you deem to be appropriate.

1. Be clear about what you are seeking.

• Do you want a D/s or S&M play relationship?
• Do you want a monogamous relationship and eventually perhaps a lifetime commitment?
• Are you unsure about what you seek, and will leave that to the two of you to determine?

a) If the dominant woman you are contacting is not looking for applications, respect this! You can write to her and tell her that you realise she isn't looking for applicants but that nonetheless you appreciate her profile and simply wanted to let her know. You can also ask her if she has time to or an interest in entertain a friendship with no strings attached. Do not be pushy! FYI: dominant womans do not keep waiting lists of potentials so don't ask to be put on one. However if you are friends first she may take interest at a later date.

b) If the dominant woman you are contacting has stated what she is looking for and it is not what you are looking for, move to the next profile and don't try and change her mind. Nothing is more insulting then a sub who wants to convince us of something we don't want.

c) If the dominant woman you are contacting hasn't said what she is looking for, you might want to ask her politely in your letter of introduction. If she doesn't respond to this, you might want to just keep looking. There is no guarantee that because someone states she is a dominant woman that she has it all together. Use your judgement.

2. State what attracted you particularly about her profile.

This is important. If the profile attracted you, it is important that you say why. Many of us take the time to write good profiles explaining who we are and what it is that we are looking for as well as our views on life and then BDSM dynamics.

The above is critical. Do NOT limit your attraction to solely our photo. That shows that you are superficial and vain. Most dominant womans know they are beautiful, but wish to be appreciated for things other than our appearances.

Here are a few examples or what you might write:

a) In reading your profile I was impressed by your comment about "such and such" and found it to raise feelings of understanding and agreement within me. It was as if we were on the same page.

b) I believe that we share a similar view of dominance & submission and I have a feeling that it goes beyond that. It would be a privilege to discuss such issues with you and explore our compatibility.

c) When you stated that you wanted a submissive who held similar non-kinky interests as you I was pleased. I am delighted to see that you share my enthusiasm for "such and such".

You should draw parallels when possible. For example, if she mentions she likes to sail, and you have a sailboat, perhaps a short description of it would be good here.

3. Be truthful about your current status and obligations.

If you are married, have kids, have personal obligations, are willing to or not willing to relocate, have religious or social obligations or have time constraints, put them all on the table from the get go. A reasonable dominant woman will appreciate your honesty and decide whether or not she can work within potential limitations. If you get a negative response because you tried to communicate this, then just take a deep breath and move along. (You might however want to make sure her profile doesn't say "no married men" or "only local men" or "must be willing to relocate"). Honesty will always be the best policy.

4. Be truthful about your former experience.

Be honest about what you have experienced. Don't sugar coat it. Give a certain amount of detail but don't go overboard. This is an introduction letter. Also, if your experience is limited to Pro's or online experiences say so.

5. State what it is you are willing to offer.

Before you write what you want, write what you want to offer. This isn't a D/s thing. This is simply a courtesy thing. No one wants a selfish sub that lists only his/her desires. When we get a message that starts off with "Hello Mistress, I'm a slave boy into CBT, humiliation, and love being turned into your own private whore with your strap-on" we tend to either click delete or respond with something unpleasant like "go away, do-me sub". You have to woo a dominant woman. Write it from the heart. List what it is you want and not what it is that you think she wants. This also includes writing about your limits.

Here are a few examples or what you might write:

a) I am happy to offer whatever services you may require in exchange for nothing other than your happiness and the personal satisfaction of knowing that I pleased you in some small way.

b) My pleasure would be to give you pleasure. I find a life of servitude rewarding. I would very much like to learn which ways I would best be able to serve you.

c) I am a masochist who would consider it a privilege to lend my body to such a woman as yourself, for your pleasure and mutual enjoyment. My limits are "such & such".

6. List your skills.

You might want to write something such as "My skills and talents lie in the areas of (cleaning, ironing, chauffeuring, handyman, etc)." You can also list the skills you wish to develop. If your skills are in your profile and you want to be succinct in your initial note, you can say something along the lines of "if it pleases you Miss, please refer to my profile to see my list of skills"

7. List your interests.

It is important that you also put a short paragraph about your vanilla interests. If it is a relationship you are seeking, chances are, you will be spending equal if not much more time outside the kink zone then in it. Deciding whether the ultimate date is going to see the ballet or a ballgame might be something you want to clear up ahead of time. Even if it is not a relationship that you are seeking, for most dominant womans, we appreciate knowing that there is more then a piece of flesh to you.

8. Avoid negativity.

The title says it all but here are a few basics to check for:

• Don't put negative comments about other dominant womans in your message. You are addressing a dominant woman you wish to impress and she doesn't particularly care about the other dominant womans you've contacted.
• Don't use a jaded tone. An eager (not overly eager) and positive tone is always appreciated.
• Don't complain about how you have such a hard time finding the right dominant woman.

9. Revise for grammar & spelling.

When you are chatting, things can slip. Even little posts here or there. But when you are trying to put your best foot forward, isn't she worth a few extra minutes of double-checking? A message full of typos gives the impression of negligence and carelessness.

Also, many dominant womans have mentioned on these boards and in other forums that they are not fond of chat lingo such as "It wood B so gr8 2 serve U Ma'am". In your first correspondence however, it might be better to assume that she won't appreciate it. If she responds to you using the lingo, then it's a good sign that it's fine. You might even want to ask her early on what her thoughts on it are.

Some dominant womans Like "W/we " and online protocol others detest it. A good rule of thumb is look at how their profile is written. If it contains it, use it, if not, don't!

10. Keep your messages short or parse them to avoid them being truncated.

If you have a very heavy message, chances are it might get truncated. You may want to keep the first message relatively short (especially if your profile mentions already a lot about you). But if you feel you have a lot to say, you might want to email a Part I and Part II (note that this might turn some dominant womans off). You might also want to add your other email address (yahoo, hotmail, etc) for further correspondences as the messages can run a little longer.

Every dominant woman is different but these guidelines should work with most and might help you find Your place without wasting each other's time. Good luck with Your search.

(Attributed to Maitresse Eden and Lady Angelika.)

Originally posted 2012-10-07 05:45:26.

Writing to a Dominant Woman – 10 Suggestions
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Light sissification can be used to curb a young male’s slovenly ways.

To cure boys of the habit of not keeping shirttails tucked in, sew an edging of lace around the bottom of the lad’s shirt. There’ll be nor more shirttails showing.

Originally posted 2013-08-09 13:15:18.

How to Make a Male Dress Neatly
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Rarely Allowed to Orgasm

More enforced chastity than ruined orgasms but part of the same thread.

Only One Orgasm a Month

My mistress allows me to come once a month, and insists that I retain a desire for pussy even though I will never have hers or any other. On my day, I am not allowed to touch myself and she does not touch me either, this is where the pussy desire comes in….she purchased a fleshlight and takes great delight in reminding me it is the only thing which will ever give my cock pleasure, not even my own hands ever will. I must bring it to her and then kneel in front of the sofa with a towel around it, then I push it in between the cushions at cock height. This routine of course has me harder than hard already, especially after the month long wait. Then she forces me to lick it like I lick her, then I am allowed to lube it up. After so long, even sliding my fingers inside this plastic pussy nearly makes me cum. At this point, she ties my hands behind me with a belt so I cannot grab my cock in a state of frenzy during what comes next. Now, I am told to fuck the fleshlight for her pleasure….but the difficult part is, I am not even allowed to penetrate it all the way. Only the head of my cock is allowed inside the fleshlight, and I am in constant danger when fucking it because if the entire head actually disappears inside it, she will immediately make me stop and lock me up for another month. I have missed at least four cums because of this and it is infuriating..once, twice in a row. Once, early on, I totally lost my head with desire to be buried deep inside something, anything, even this plastic pussy, and for the insanely intense, never equaled by anything, 2 or 3 seconds all the way inside it’s silkyness I was immediately locked up for my longest period ever, four months. Following this four months I actually had premature ejaculation on my first time out just from the lubing up phase…after so long and after licking it extra long to please her, my cock was like concrete and when she told me to lube it, I exploded all over the floor when my fingers slid inside. Mistress was not pleased, but I was a good boy that entire month and so she didn’t punish me further. The tension of trying to feel as much fake pussy as I can without penetrating too deeply and losing it all is extremely difficult, as is the fact that in addition, I cannot come inside anything or anyone, ever again, including the fleshlight, and she never allows me more than ten of the tiny strokes at a time. If she feels the whim or thinks I need to be reminded who is boss, she will order me out no matter what number of strokes I am on, and if I do not pull out immediately, my session is over. When my cock is about to explode, I am to pull out (from only the head being in, what torture!) and since I cannot touch it, all my orgasms since this began are ruined ones. By the time I am worked up enough from the denial and the tip only torture, my cock jerks and bucks like a banshee, but feeling only cold air as my cum spurts and then dribbles. If I have been a good boy, she allows me to aim the spurting and dribbling at the plastic pussy instead of the towel, always reminding me the first inch or two of the fleshlight is all my cock will ever feel again, and that I will never come in or on her again, and that the spunk dripping onto the plastic pussy, under her strict supervision, is as close to her as I will ever be. Following this routine I never actually get soft, I am usually hornier than when I started, and as she locks me back up for another month I am already fantasizing about the next tens seconds at a time trying not to ram all the way in past the first couple inches of plastic pussy in one month’s time. It drives me wild and I can’t help it. Last month she had a friend come over and she let the friend dictate the ten count to me, both were fully dressed and drinking wine, it was pretty humiliating when I spunked onto the pussy and they both started laughing.

Three Orgasms a Year

My wife only agrees to masturbate me once per month and only after putting numbing cream and a condom on my little dick. She almost always gets too tired to allow me an orgasm, and if I try to touch myself to achieve my completion, she kicks me in the balls so hard that it knocks me down. On average I get to cum about 3 times per year, yet she forces me to perform oral sex on her regularly. She never ever allows me to penetrate her anymore, since I am never able to last more that about 20 seconds inside her.

Do you have a similar story?

Originally posted 2012-04-21 18:02:20.

Rarely Allowed to Orgasm
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Female Led Cuckoldry

By Apollinaire

There is an old maxim: One can not embrace fire without being burned. Forced Jealousy is the act of forcing the male to endure the sting of that fire, indefinitely or permanently. (i.e. To want, desire and lust for what he can not have.) This can be small things like having orgasms while reminding the male that he can’t (some authorities claim the woman’s orgasm is only one one-hundredth as debilitating as the males ejaculation [1/100].), enjoying leisure while putting the male to work, in short anything that impresses upon the male the unjustness of his predicament. He must have “that’s not fair” written all over his being and at the same time the meekness to still submit to the whims of his woman. Sympathize with him, “Oh, you poor baby.”, while not bending an inch to accommodate his pitiful whining. This sympathy will keep the male in line, willing to endure the emotional torture.

The best example of this is when the woman has sex with another man in front of the male. She rubs it in his face, reminding him that he is not permitted to have intercourse with her, that he is not even permitted to have orgasms. Enjoying watching the male frantically struggle to cope with his insecurities, the woman forces jealousy down his throat like so much bitter medicine.

I think, partly, the desire for this comes from a past history that has left the male emotionally numb. He is simply seeking anything that can elicit a strong emotional response. Another aspect is the sense of sacrifice the male enjoys, even takes pride in. The submale somehow rationalizes that the woman’s pleasure will be enhanced by his being diminished. Every good submale wants to please, and if his woman needs a good hard fuck, then he will have to learn to like seeing it done. (ha, ha) In this particular aspect there are also Oedipus complex overtones, only the woman (mother) stifles the hostility of the submale toward the other male (father). Another opportunity for her to demonstrate her control over the male (sonnyboy).

Originally posted 2013-04-10 06:22:02.

Forced Jealousy (F/m Psychology)
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People commonly adopt resolutions at the beginning of each year.

If you don’t have a female led relationship what are your plans in the coming year to achieve one?

If you are in a female led relationship have you given thought on how you can make it yet better?

Originally posted 2007-12-31 23:00:00.

Female Led Relationships & New Year’s Resolutions
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PERMANENT PENIS REMOVAL, PERPETUAL SEXUAL FRUSTRATION, CBT AGREEMENT

This was posted elsewhere entitled “Penectomy, Castration?”

Use fresh elastic rings to avoid breakage and assure a tight fit. The rings must be strong enough to cut off blood flow. Pull both testicles into the scrotum. Place the rubber band on the elastrator. Hold the elastrator with the prongs facing up. Close the handles to open the band. With the male tied up and both testicles in the scrotum, stretch the ring open and slip the open band up over the scrotum. Release the band just above the top of the testicles (~0.5 cm), check to be sure both testicles are still in the tip of the scrotum and that the ring is placed properly If not, cut the ring with scissors and start again. Remove the elastrator from under the band.

Elastrator

Those who have successfully utilized this method report that the pain is agonizing for the first twelve hours, but after that, the feeling dulls until the testicles are entirely dead. At this point, the entire scrotum and testes can be cut off below the band without any pain or bleeding. The band is left on until the area is healed enough to hold together on its own. This method of castration is commonly done on farms and is also the method favored by home (DIY) and BDSM practitioners, due to its relative simplicity and safety. An added benefit to this method is that it also removes the scrotum during the process of destroying the testicles. If the scrotum is left on, sepsis (blood poisoning) and infection are very real risks if dry gangrene doesn’t set in like it should. On the other hand, if the band is removed too soon after removing the scrotum, major and uncontrollable bleeding is risked. However “super-glue” and an Xacto knife greatly expedite the process. (Also for Penectomy (removal of the Penis)

Elastrator Penectomy

“Removal of the penis is desired by some males, usually men desire penis removal only after having enjoyed CBT for several years. Removal of the penis is involved and requires significantly greater skill than removal of the testes. Use of elastrator bands is recommended to prevent loss of blood for convenience. Several accounts exist on the women, who cut it off, eating of the amputated penis and reliable data exists as to its texture or tastes compare it to chicken or pork.” While some individuals have managed to perform their own penectomies using a combination of elastrator and catheter, the majority opt to have their girlfriend do the procedure. Infection and massive blood loss are the major risks. However, the area heals surprisingly well and quickly. In many cases even home butcher-knife operations can (and typically do) heal on their own without major medical intervention as long as the man is securely restrained, and the woman uses clean tools, the process is not only fairly easy, but can be quite fun, for both the man and the woman who cuts his penis off.”

How to proceed: Securely restrain the man, make sure area, penis and all tools are clean. Apply elastration band to the man at the very base of his penis. Apply superglue to the band, to keep it securely in place. If you give him one last fuck at this point, it will be entirely one sided, she will feel it, he will only be able to watch her enjoy herself, as his penis will be completely numb from the lack of blood flow. Next she takes a sharp, clean knife, and cuts off his penis at the base, just above the band. Elastrator bands held in place with superglue will prevent blooding out, and the area where his penis used to be can be dried off with towel and further sealed by additional superglue, or cauterized with a soldering iron. Be sure to destroy his penis, or if it is to be kept as a trophy, seal it in a fresh jar of alcohol, and keep the man restrained for at least one-to-six hours while his penis dies.

Many men instantly regret having their penis cut off initially, only after it has been successfully destroyed and/or killed with alcohol can they begin to accept that yes it is really gone forever, and finally he’s made real his greatest fantasy. After a short period of pain and healing, soon he will be eager to please his woman, and allow her to abuse his testicles as his sex drive will continually build up, and his only release with be through her pleasure and his pain. After Adjusting to his new status most of these men become hopelessly devoted to the woman who cut their penis off, both in gratitude for her making his dreams come true, and in fear that no other woman would understand his condition or want his companionship.

Permanent Blue Balls

“Process involves restraining the man totally (spread eagle or other such 4+ point restraint) sexually teasing and taunting him until close to orgasm, followed by cutting his penis off (with elastrator to minimize/eliminate blood loss) while leaving his testicles both intact and attached. Penis is then normally disposed of in such a fashion that insures permanent loss (woman eats it, tosses penis into camp fire, feds it to animal, uses garbage disposal or blender on it. or simply leaves man restrained for 6 hours to cause permanent penis death [may occur in as little as one hour, but PLEASE WAIT SIX to be safe.

Allowing a fully or partially dead penis to remain attached or be re-attached is the #1 cause of both legal trouble for the woman, and medical trouble or even death for the man]) Make sure the man signs a release form, spelling the entire process and waiving the woman of all liability regardless and in full knowing of her inexperience related to medical operations.

Men who have fantasies and fetishes that involve ball busting and testicle torture (or women who enjoy abusing a man’s testicles without allowing him to orgasm) benefit the most from this castration method, as his testicles can be abused for months, years, decades afterward, but his penis is gone forever.

Men in long term relationships (preferably with the woman who cuts his penis off, but also possible with any woman who’s willing) may still pleasure a woman normally, by wearing a strap-on cock to vaginally penetrate his woman, and of course she can abuse his testicles until he’s screaming for her to cut them off. Do not cut off his testicles, as this will end his torture, and his sex drive. Men with permanent blue balls who enjoy ballbusting and testicle torture can maintain a healthy, vigorous sex life long after his penis has been cut off.

As long as his testicles remain in place and WELL ABUSED. Popped or critically ruptured testicles will eventually have to be cutoff, so be careful not to crush his balls too far (even if he asks you to) unless you both want him to lose all interest in sex.”

PERMANENT BLUE BALLS/PENECTOMY AGREEMENT

I _______________ being 100% sure of my desire to have my penis cut off and destroyed permanently agree to allow _______________ to chain/restrain me, sexually abuse me, and cut off my penis without being allowed a final orgasm. I understand (above) is not a medically trained or board certified surgeon, however we have discussed the process and mutually agree with the proper tools and this signed contract, this permanent and life changing action can be done safely, sanely and legally. Furthermore once this contract is signed (and FORCED PENECOTMY Authorization_________________signed)

I can and will beg her not to cut my penis off, beg her to let me have one last orgasm, and eventually beg her not to destroy my penis afterward, also beg her to castrate (crush testicles to rupture and cut off) me afterwards to end my blue balls, However THESE pleas are to be ignored. I want to enjoy a long sex life with permanently blue balls, and the only pleasure I am to receive is from using a strap-on dildo I will wear in place of my severed penis, to pleasure my partner, receiving sexual gratification vicariously through pleasing her, enjoying her regular, brutal and constant abuse of my testicles with both pressure (squeezing/crushing) and impact (hitting/kicking/stomping) for the rest of my sex life.

Also I look forward to her dressed provocatively when we’re alone or in public if she chooses, and I wish her to (both verbally and physically) taunt me regularly, about having cut my penis off, and how I am her permanently blue ball sex slave, who’s testicles exist only for her abuse and enjoyment of my permanent sexual frustration. If she chooses to allow other women to examine my penis-less state, and/or allow such women to abuse my testicles as well, is entirely up to her. If I’m only to be her sex slave I agree that if we separate for any reason after my Penectomy, she may either castrate (remove my testicles) or leave me in a cock-less, sexually frustrated state.

I ______________________ Wish to begin immediately with my penis amputation, orgasm denial and testicle abuse (Man Signs-________________________)

To be performed Immediately by:_____________________ Woman Signs_______________________)

Because this is only a once in a lifetime act I request this woman (above) to wear the following outfit, (clothes, boots and make-up), during my penectomy:__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

At any time after the contract is signed, the woman is wearing the above mentioned outfit, the man is restrained and all tools are available, this permanent and life altering act is to begin.

(NB: This contract is valid only in planetary systems where it is not illegal and in the land of your dreams.)

F/m Penis Removal Contract
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It has been my plan with this site to avoid quoting blogs. But my heroine Elizabeth expresses herself eloquently on the theme of inherent gender inequality as bad philosophy and psychosexual thrill.

Being a dominant woman or a submissive man is a sexual kink. You can make a sexual kink into a lifestyle, if you like, or you can keep it for sex play, but you are deluded if you try to make the whole rest of the fucking world fit your own sexual kink. Not to mention making yourself look very, very silly in the process.

Why Female Gender Supremacy is Ignorant Crap, part 1 of 87

Originally posted 2007-07-31 18:38:40.

Girls Are Better Than Boys!
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