In a truely and totally female led family all male submit to the females in the household.

The dominant sisters may decided to feminize and sissify him to keep him docile and humble.

Brothers find themselves dominated by their Mistress Sisters. His sisters may at anytime spank and punish him for his failings or merely for their own pleasure.

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He used to boast that he was a man’s man: tough and macho.

The he met her. They started dating.

She was very assertive, liked to take charge. Somehow he didn’t mind; happily relented to her will. But he was shocked when she asked him to try on a pair of her panties.

In his anger her cursed her, told her that they were through and left her apartment slamming the door.

Away from her he felt lonely, lost. He couldn’t sleep his heart tearing apart from lack of her nearness. Within a few days he sent her flowers, candy and a card promising he would do whatever she wished.

He tried on her panties. When she suggested that he wearing them under his pants to work he complied.

Panties leg to stockings, then high heels, finally cosmetics and even a wig.

The more he consented to her wishes the more he fell within her power. He didn’t suspect that his girlfriend was becoming his Mistress.

The time came when she started spanking him. A rude remark, arriving late for an appointment, faulty hygiene. Any failure found him over her lap his butt growing red from her discipline. The more she spanked him the more he loved and worshiped her.

She is in charge of everything now. He never argues. She still spanks him. He’s one of those men who needs regular discipline.

He dresses like a girl when at home. He’s become his Mistress’s submissive sissy. As he slave he has found his proper place in life and is happy.

See more female-led artwork by Eric Stanton.

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Submissive Male Feminization Training

Many dominant woman don’t enjoy the bother and fuss of teaching submissive men the basics of becoming a sissy servant. Hence the Girls School for Boys.

As soon as the novice submissive sissy arrives at the institution male clothing is stripped off and burnt. Each sissy boy is given a maid’s outfit to put on. All of the clothing is identical and uniform: no sissy male is allowed individuality.

The sissy male students are taught:

Sewing
Use of cosmetics
Haute Cuisine
Waitress skills

The sissy cooks eat only food that they themselves have prepared. This is considered a real stimulus to accomplishment in the kitchen.

Much of the sissy male student’s time is spent learning feminine deportment and behavior. This include knowing when to curtsy, keep her head bowed and respectful protocols for addressing the slave’s Mistress or Owner.

For two hours every night the sissy slaves kneel while women teach them women’s history and the politics, sociology and philosophy of female superiority. This grounds the sissy males in their perpetual status as inferiors of women.

To enhances their skills as household servants the sissies clean the entire school every day: mopping, sweeping, polishing. Their busy schedule leaves them only six hours a night for sleep. There is no leisure or playtime for sub sissies.

Each sissy graduates the school ready to begin its lifetime as the humble feminized servant of women.

Eric Stanton cover art.

Would you like to attend the Girls School for Boys?

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As some of you know this is but one of the many sites that I run or publish. The time and focus I can bring each site varies, some sites go through periods when I ignore them altogether.

I’m not feeling particularly inspired or motivated in terms of the material appropriate to Female Led Relationships Net.

In some aspects of the blogosphere it is common for people to write guests posts. Most often it is a means for the author of the guest post to get additional visitors to her own blog or site. (A link to the writer’s blog or website is always posted at the end of the article.)

I thought I’d invite – solicit – guest posts here. Perhaps you want some extra traffic. Or want to say something you don’t feel would really fit your own blog. Or you don’t even have blog but have a thought or feeling that you’d like to share. Perhaps after you write something you’ll decide to start a blog.

I reserve the right to correct spelling errors.

Caveat: While I don’t mind linking to a commercial website I tend to be much stricter about the value of the post than I am with people who have no commercial incentive.

Originally posted 2009-02-04 11:40:44.

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Whether or not a man should help his wife or girlfriend with household chores shouldn’t even be a question. More strongly than ever since most wives work.

But the self-proclaimed sissy sub-hubbies who make it sound as if their marriages consist of him scrubbing bathroom floors and ironing clothes (the two favorite chores it seems) make their sincerity questionable.

Is it that these benighted men had exceptionally sexist upbringings or another case of public fantasizing?

It especially seems the latter with those guys who say they work a fulltime job, then come home and labor until bedtime. Presumably their wives are curled up on the couch watching TV and eating bonbons.

Originally posted 2008-12-20 10:26:06.

Sub Hubbies : Household Chores
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Light sissification can be used to curb a young male’s slovenly ways.

To cure boys of the habit of not keeping shirttails tucked in, sew an edging of lace around the bottom of the lad’s shirt. There’ll be nor more shirttails showing.

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Femdom Butt Plugs

Finding that people are looking for information on the female dominant use of butt plugs on submissive males I dug around on Usenet.

First of all, there’s no such thing as too much lubricant! Start with a gloved latex finger, well lubed, then two. Once they can be tolerated easily without discomfort, move up to a small dildo or vibrator. Always put a condom over it, for two reasons, first of all, it’s easier to clean, and secondly, even the person’s own bacteria can be a problem if left uncleaned or unsterilized.

I alway make sure my subs remember to breathe through his tummy and to make sure that he is doing so, I put my hand on it and keep encouraging him to breathe. It’s more difficult to clench muscles while breathing.

After he can tolerate a dildo or small vibrator, start with small butt plugs, again covered with a condom. Again, make sure these are very well lubed. The rectal cavity does not provide any natural lubricant.

One other thing, in any anal play, the sub should present his bottom in a clean condition. Not only is it polite, but there will be less danger to him.

Should there be any fecal matter in the rectal cavity, there is a chance it can scratch, abrade or even tear the membranes lining it, resulting in a very nasty infection if left unchecked. Why chance it?

I’ve got a question on butt plugs. While I now have several different shapes and sizes, I have the same problem with all of them – they tend to fall out easily. Actually, it feels more like they are pushed out. Short of superglue, which is probably a really bad idea (kidding), is there something different I should be doing?

My first wife solved that problem for me with a panty girdle. It had a seam up the back designed to enhance the “cleavage” that held everything just nicely. She also gave me her size too small panties .. a bit uncomfortable but effective.

I was wondering.. is there such a thing as a buttplug that can also act as a device to stroke the inner walls? like getting fucked while having it in you? Hope I am describing this well..

Although I’ve never experienced it myself (unfortunately), the electric butt plugs are said to do exactly that. I don’t mean the vibrating electric kind, I mean the ones that are used for electrotorture.

You see, the electrodes on the outside of the plug send a jolt into the sphincter muscles, causing the sphincter to contract tightly and immediately. This contraction has the effect of drawing the plug sharply into the sphincter. Essentially, the wearer fucks himself with his own anal muscles, and has no control over the matter at all. You can set the frequency, and the intensity, of the pulses by adjusting the settings on the control box.

I would imagine it would tend to occupy one’s mind, to say the least. I think you can get remote control switch boxes, but I’m not certain of that. And you can use it in the privacy of your bedroom, as well – you like your slave to fuck you, but still want to maintain control of the action? Fasten him in whatever position you like, positioning him so that he can easily enter you, and start tweaking that control box. Want him to pump harder? Dial up the intensity a notch or two, he’ll be quite unable to keep himself from plunging forward with each shock. Not going fast enough? Shorten up the intervals between pulses. He’s a human fuck machine, and it’s all in your capable little hands!

Basically, it would be something sub could use while walking in the mall (yes, I do like that image, sue me). One little push of the button and he’s having that buttplug make love to him while talking to a cashier. Stroking his insides, pumping slowly.. ahem.

There is two different kinds it seems like.. one that is an actual dildo (looks to be made of metal?) and a butt plug (nice and wide looking, metal too?) with electrical currents. Is there such a thing as a cross between a plug and dildo? something long that is gonna *reach* in and grab his attention and one that is wide based enough to keep it in place? or am I asking for the impossible?

Another thought is lube. He is gonna have to be dripping the stuff to keep it up as long as I require. How much would that interfere with the electrical current, etc?

Originally posted 2012-10-07 08:00:46.

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I don’t really have any advice for men in vanilla marriages who hope to convert them into female led relationships. You need good luck more than anything else.

But don’t:

• Tell your wife or girlfriend that you are inferior.
• Or that she is a superior life form.

If she had thought you a lesser creature she wouldn’t have bothered with you.

And most women are uncomfortable with having unwanted divinity thrust on them.

Keep is simple and sensible: about your needs. No fancy matriarchal rhetoric.

Originally posted 2007-11-25 13:38:51.

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If you have a vanilla, kinkless marriage or relationship would you leave your girlfriend or wife for a woman who could offer you this?

By day Mistress Louise – who whips men for £100 an hour – has him scrubbing the floors, slaving away at a hot stove and tirelessly doing all her laundry, while by night he’s fed Cornish pasties from a dog bowl, sleeps in a 4ft-wide cage and endures 100 lashes… just to keep him in check.

I divorced my wife to become a sex slave

Originally posted 2009-01-24 11:11:25.

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It has been suggested that a female led man should consider signing a so-called interspousal agreement. While many who speak of loving female authority as superior to BDSM these agreements suggest in many ways a TPE voluntary slavery contract.

The man is to sign away all his property, financial assets, control of the money he earns. It has even been advised that he destroy his personal credit as a way of insuring his dependency on his wife.

And most alarmingly that the man declare himself incompetent.

This helpless, needy male creature is created with the supposed goal of fomenting romance.

• But how many marriages – female led or not – last forever?
• What becomes of a husband who has lost all skills of financial, personal management if his wife is hit by a truck?
• These agreements wouldn’t last a day in a court of law: they aren’t legally binding.

Does this really sound like the loving basis of wedded bliss?

Originally posted 2008-05-03 15:41:22.

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Tommyspt F/m corporal punishment art is very heartfelt and very much in the spirit of female-led relationships. Nothing preposterous or ridiculously extreme.

There are many moer F/m spanking drawings – and stories at well at Tommy’s blog Original Drawings And Short Stories By Tommyspt.

Originally posted 2013-03-02 06:43:30.

Women Spanking Men: The Art of Tommyspt
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Not by me. Left elsewhere as a comment on Cut Your Cock Off.

Typical Rubex Illustration

I have been permitted to make this comment:- As a permanently chastised companion – my lady doesn’t like the word slave – I would – if I may – fully endorse the idea of penectomy for permanently chastised males provided there are not medical reasons preventing it. Chastity devices have their limitations and are uncomfortable.

This discomfort is useful for showing the slave the permanence of his situation and the futility of resistance to his total submission but once he is completely conditioned and submissive penectomy would be a complete and final finish to his enslavement. From then he and his mistress can get on with their life-style.

Castration is not the preferred choice compared to penectomy since penectomy retains “sexual desire” that castration removes but both are as permanent – the unrequited desire is what makes the slave totally submissive in a way that castration does not.

The methods often employed are that the urethra is retained although the remainder of the penis is removed and relocated behind the scrotum for sit-down peeing – or that the the penis is simply cut off at its base with a small tube inserted into the urethra to permit peeing during healing.

This latter method can be problematic – infection control and /or bladder control as the penis helps with bladder function.
Two methods I submit would be worth considering are 1: Where the removal at – or near – the base is preferred a metal tube be inserted into the urethra and a elestorator band be placed on the penis so that it crushes onto the tube as in castration but still permitting peeing whilst the penis dies – it could then be removed later with the band and tube. 2: That the same approach be employed but only the head be removed – making the penis far less sensitive – then a small light weight chastity tube be permanently fitted onto the penis stump thus removing the ability for any sexual activity with minimum interference to bladder control.

Lastly I would respectfully urge all mistress to be strong in their will-power once such a step is embarked upon but be kind and gentle – but firm when necessary – to their slaves once this final step is taken – reminding the slave that all of this is for his own good within their lifestyle.

Thank you.

Originally posted 2011-04-20 07:17:51.

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In reading the authentic – opposed to the fantasy – blogs I’ve observed the strain that men seeking to introduce power exchange (call it female led relationships or just plain old BDSM) bring their marriages and relationships.

Regardless of what the loving female authority cheerleaders say many women do not want to be the boss, head of the household or Mistress/Wife. They never will.

And I’ve witnessed some men who in offering their wife submission lose her. They wind up in divorce court.

That is sad, yes, but:

If your need to offer submission is so strong that it interferes with your functioning, your peace of mind and getting a good night’s sleep there’s something you have to face up to. You may love your wife or girlfriend but the two of you are incompatible.

For a man who wants to be a woman’s slave to continue to live with a vanilla woman is as futile as it is for a gay man to be a woman’s husband.

Leaving her – however painful it is – is the honorable and sane thing to do. There’s no shame in getting your needs met. And let her get on with the task of finding a man whose desires match hers.

Staying in a miserable marriage is often only the act of a coward.

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I doubt Yahoo!’s engineers envisaged this question when they created Yahoo! Answers:

Is anyone practicing a Female-led relationship, and if so, how is it working for both of you?

The winning – or, rather, resolving, answer:

Who leads is not a problem if both parties agree that this is what works for them. There are Matriarchal relationships, even cities, and throughout history Societies. There are benefits for having a Female in charge/making decisions, usually it is a more peaceful and harmonious relationship. Once accepted, some “bumps” worked out, you may find it is ideal. It all comes down to your personalities and nature, afterall there can easily be mean spirited, abusive women, just as there is men who fall prey to those traits. Try it, you may like it, I had a relationship with a woman who was in charge and I enjoyed our time together.

Which garnered this comment:

I m in FLR for 3 1/2 yrs – our rel’ship is ever getting steady & very successful. I love & repect my wife as my only Sacred Goddess, Heroine, Leader & Guide. I learned ladies’ hair dressing, beauty & massage therapy, cuisine, house-keeping, etc to serve my Goddess-wife properly.

All sorts of things litter the world wide web.

Originally posted 2008-02-18 08:18:39.

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That men enjoy wearing panties or other articles of feminine attire is probably a very widespread fetish: exceeding the realms of female domination and loving female authority.

Luckily for submissive guys it is one that women are easily persuaded to accommodate and even come to enjoy.

But adopting women’s undergarments, lingerie shouldn’t be so often treated as assuming tokens of inferiority. If you think about it that is like saying women wear the clothing they do because they are inferior.

Just be glad she lets you wear high heels, panties and the like. You have found a spouse willing to accept your atypical needs. Just be happy.

It is like the toilet: people should use it in the fashion best suited to their anatomy. Some of us sit on it because we like to read.

Originally posted 2007-12-23 17:16:10.

Panty Boys
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Panty Boy’s Shame & Humiliation

The young man’s life changed forever on this day. He’d long had a covert passion for fondling, sniffing even wearing women’s lingerie. His conventional shame kept this pastime he most deeply buried secret.

His redheaded girlfriend was shocked. While she found him handsome he’d always seemed a pedestrian, almost boring male. Her nude girlfriend merely had ancient suspicions conformed.

After the girls’ phone camera created documentary proof of his panty fetish it was time to talk to the abashed man.

Preservation of his privacy had a cost. Submission. He would obey both women’s commands. Wait on them continually. Run errands for them. Provide them with a life of lazy ease.

And he would forever more wear only their used panties under his pants. And the skirts they would force him to wear when they were home alone.

Needless to say his former girlfriend never had sex with him again. And ruled that no other woman would as well. What female would want to humiliate herself with such a wimp.

The two women became lovers. His sex life was jealous observation of their affectionate lovemaking.

Illustration © Alazar

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This impoverished sissy was lucky to have a sadistic, dominant landlady. When he couldn’t pay his rent in cash he let him pay with servitude and humiliation.

Click on the image to see a larger text.

I don’t know the source of this.

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