Maledom vs Femdom

From a longish thread involving dime store anthropology, gender cheap stereotypes and other bad generalizations about men and women and submission and dominance. Mostly I like quoting the estimable Laura Goodwin:

I disagree. Where is the “dominance” in either a dog/dog or cat/cat relationship? They may play rough, but few females in nature get raped. I saw a female horse repel an unwanted suitor with fierce kicks. That’s no abberation, it’s the norm in nature. Female hyenas are bigger than the males, have balls just like them, and require submissive behavior from their male partners. Elephants live in families ruled by the females. What is the one male lion of a lion pride but a sex-toy and towel boy for the real hunters of the pride, the females? Kind of like if I were to allow you to hang around with me and my lady friends until a hunkier male proved more interesting.

As for exceptions, the male seahorse is an exception: The female leaves her eggs with him, and he bears the offspring in her absence. As for using weapons, either sex can play that game. They don’t call guns equalizers for nothing.

My personal feeling is males sometimes overreact against female power. Woman is authorized by nature to dominate other humans and play a leadership role. One word: motherhood. A woman in power is nature’s default. If a mother abuses her power she may produce sons and daughters who develop a feeling of repugnance for the idea of a woman in charge. I certainly have seen ample evidence of this, just as I’ve seen the adult children of abusive fathers reacting against the whole idea of male rule.

It’s not your sex that makes you fit or unfit for responsibility over other human lives. People who are capable and compassionate dominants can be of either sex and any gender identity. That’s the way HUMANS are.

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Originally posted 2009-02-07 13:23:13. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Natural Order
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Mistress Sky has a list of questions to ask yourself before approaching a dominant of which I’ll quote just a couple:

Are you really capable of putting someone’s needs before every single one of yours? – That’s what true submission is, you know. You have to want to do anything and everything, wherever you are, whenever it’s asked of you, to please your chosen Dom/me. They must always come first. Whatever they ask of you, you must do without question…. could you do that?

If, despite all the above, you still feel that it’s for you, you must approach your chosen Dom/me with utter RESPECT. Manners are very important – they show intelligence and sincerity aswell. If you are answering an advert, then answer it properly: Address each point. Be yourself. Above all, be HONEST. If you lie, you’ll defeat the object.

Are you sure?

Originally posted 2011-01-02 04:04:14. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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In a truely and totally female led family all male submit to the females in the household.

The dominant sisters may decided to feminize and sissify him to keep him docile and humble.

Brothers find themselves dominated by their Mistress Sisters. His sisters may at anytime spank and punish him for his failings or merely for their own pleasure.

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Stereotypical Value Judgments

This captures distinctions and nuances that aren’t reduced to simple black and white judgements:

In my thinking, “fetishist” is a broader term than “submissive” in the sense that a submissive has fetishized certain specific things — servitude, giving up of power in a relationship, humiliation. A submissive is still a fetishist, ultimately, just one with a particular focus.

So one way I interpret your comment is that you feel there are significant numbers of ostensibly submissive guys who have not in fact fetishist these sorts of abstractions that comprise submission; but are instead more into fetishizing objects, or particularly the objectification of their partner as a fetish-object. If this is the sense you intend, then I largely agree.

…

It’s a difficult distinction because there is, in fact, a gradation (rather than a distinction) as to what people have as their “core fetish” (if there is such a thing). Jon Jacobs solves this problem by saying that a true submissive has by definition fetishized total powerlessness at a very deep level. But I’m not sure how useful such a narrow definition is — it tends to lead to a correspondingly narrow paradigm as to what should constitute d/s practice.

Adding to the definitional problem is a certain cultural effect. I believe society as a whole tends towards objectifying female sexuality, more so than male sexuality. When this tendency is interposed with a female dominant / male submissive dynamic, often the result is a powerful objectification of the female dominant — creating a strong image of a fetish-object top, which is both sought after by the submissive partner, and used by the dominant partner to control the submissive’s responses.

While there is of course nothing wrong with this, there _can_ be a conflict of interest between being the dominant partner in a d/s exchange, and being highly objectified. I believe (again, just my current opinion) that female dominants find themselves grappling with this potential conflict, more so than male dominants. (I also believe this effect is partly responsible above-mentioned “bad image” that fetishists, particularly male-submissive-fetishists, sometimes end up with.)

The worst ever slave, and responsibility

Originally posted 2011-01-07 10:47:59. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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In a totally female-led family aunts will spank and punish their nephews when they think he deserves it or that it will improve his deportment and manners.

Have you ever been spanked by your aunts?

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Woman Worship

Supreme Celestial Femdom Goddess

I’m surprised that I haven’t seen more people trying to use the spiritual notions of the Neo-Pagan view of Woman as divinity or at least semi-divine through a connection with a Mother Goddess that pervades, forms, nourishes and maintains the universe.

Perhaps some men actually believe that women are in some way holy and sacred that men are not. Even supernatural in some fashion. I do remember a wiccan female dominant who claimed to have magical powers.

The wacky one that male has no souls, only the female. (Pretty sure I’ve read that at least once.)

And of course all spiritual leaders from the local pastor to the Dalai Lama must make way for the superior spirituality of women.

A sort of female supremacist theology.

Originally posted 2009-10-11 10:09:08. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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There was a recent rash of comments about treating boys as F/m submissive males. Even cultivating their submissiveness.

In the real world even a sign of that might get you into big trouble.

Melissa Means of Rome, Georgia got herself charged with cruelty to children for pulling her son by a leash.

ROME, Ga. — A Verizon Wireless employee captured shocking video of a mother dragging her child through the store by a monkey backpack leash.

Caught On Camera: Child Dragged Through Ga. Store On Leash

Originally posted 2009-08-06 03:40:02. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Womanly Happiness with Male Chastity

My husband approached me about a year ago with what I thought was his craziest idea ever. He had been doing some online reading and decided that he wanted me to control his orgasms through the use of a chastity device. Not being the dominant type sexually, and being rather intimiated by the whole BDSM concept, I wasn’t really sure how to react to such a request, so my initial answer was to simply say no. He continued to pester me with the idea and finally I gave in. I figured it was probably another case of an unfulfilled fantasy that would go away once he experienced it for a while, but it turned out to be just the opposite.

Had I known then what I know now, I definitely would have jumped at the opportunity the first time he asked. And so for those women who might have been similarly approached by their significant others and don’t know what the story is, I’ve put together this little page of information and tips. I hope you find it useful and educational in some way.

When Jim (not his real name) first approached me with his idea he kept telling me how much it would benefit me. It occurred to me that this was just another ploy to get me to play along. Little did I know that indeed I would be the primary beneficiary. Don’t ask me to try to explain why any man wants his private parts encased in plastic (or steel, depending on the type of device), but apparently there’s some weird pleasure he gets from the teasing and denial that accompany this little game. As I’ve learned a little more about it, I’ve come to realize that he’s naturally submissive and enjoys surrendering sexual control.

The best part of the deal from my point of view is that while being submissive in this way, he not only turns over control of our sex lives to me, but pampers me to no end. I get whatever I want and he gets nothing, but apparently that’s what makes it exciting for him. I’ll never completely understand that part of it, but as you read on, you’ll see that understanding it entirely really doesn’t matter. Here’s the way it works…

Jim ordered a CB-2000 chastity device for us to use. It’s made entirely of acryllic except for the lock which is a standard hardened steel padlock. It also comes with some plastic locks that can be used when he travels and has to pass through a metal detector. While these can be cut with scissors, it’d be impossible for me not to notice, so he really has to be on the honor system. And like everything else associated with this activity there are consequences for his actions, so he’s not likely to mess.

The only thing I have to do that requires any effort on my part is to attach this device to his genitals and see what develops from there. Let me explain what I mean.

First of all, I secure Jim’s hands with handcuffs. Why you ask? There are several reasons. First and foremost, it places me in the position of authority. What can he possibly do without the use of his hands? He immediately becomes submissive to me, and I honestly feel like I’m in charge – hence the dominance and submission aspect. Second, I once made the mistake of NOT securing his hands, and his primal male instinct was to try to resist and attempt to fondle himself in the process. Finally, there’s a tremendous amount of symbolism in not allowing him to touch his own penis. Ever. It’s part of what makes this such an effective form of denial, and makes him focus all his attention on me since I’m the only one who can potentially unlock him and give him any sexual pleasure.

Once he’s suitably restrained, I lubricate his scrotum and penis with baby oil to help reduce any friction between his skin and the CB-2000. Then I carefully attach the device – taking care not to pinch any of his more sensitive areas – and snap the lock closed. He’s now putty in my hands.

We generally begin by setting a minimum amount of time he’s to remain locked. When we first started out, it was typically three or four days. As we’ve both grown more comfortable with this form of play, I’ve increased the time to three or four weeks. One he’s served his “sentence” (we call it that because he seems to get excited at the notion of an “imprisonment” of his penis), he knows he’s going to have a chance at an orgasm. He doesn’t get one every time which keeps him on his toes and also keeps him always wanting more.

It’s important for you as the “keyholder” to understand is that while a device like the CB-2000 is generally comfortable, it really needs to be removed from time to time if for no other reason that to give it a good cleaning. It’s also going to make things easier on him to have it removed for a brief time so as not to cause any damage to the sensitive skin in the area where it’s attached. When we first started with a 3-4 day term, I’d secure his hands and take the device off for an hour or two almost every night. He didn’t get to touch himself, and there were certainly no orgasms for him during these times. Now that we go for as long as a month at a time, I generally remove the device once or twice a week. His hands are always secured behind his back, but he can watch TV or do whatever he wants (not that he can do much without his hands, but once again I digress).

During the period of his sentence he knows the he must be a perfect husband in order to get his ultimate reward – an orgasm – at the end. While I assign him some chores along the way like taking the trash out or doing the dishes, I also expect some random acts of kindness on his part. These include little gentlemanly things like opening my car door, bringing me coffee, giving me massages (without me having to ask) and even bringing me flowers or greeting cards from time to time. I don’t really keep score, but I’m always taking mental notes of how often these things occur. If that’s not enough, it’s within my power as the keyholder to ask for an orgasm of my own as often as I want. Obviously since his penis is under lock and key he can’t pleasure me with intercourse, but it’s amazing how many other ways there are of accomplishing the task. And he’ll try any and all of them if he thinks it’ll help him get his own orgasm eventually. Train him to pleasure you off in whatever ways you most enjoy, whether it’s oral sex, fingering you, using a vibrator, or even a strap-on dildo. I’ve found that the longer he’s denied an orgasm, the more he goes out of his way to treat me like a princess. Can it get any better, girls?

There are also conditions to his behavior and penalties for infractions. I expect him to treat me with the utmost respect, so talking back to me harshly, refusing to do his assigned chores, or any other uncooperative attitude will result in additional days being added to his sentence. It never fails to amaze me how abruptly he’ll stop an unacceptable behavior (i.e. just about anything that annoys or upsets me like when he drives like a maniac or chews with his mouth open) when I tell him he’s earned an extra day. He also knows that asking for early release will guarantee that he’ll get extra time added to his sentence, plus he definitely won’t get an orgasm of his own when te time is up. What’s even funnier – from my standpoint, but not his I’m sure – is that I really don’t need to keep track of how many days he has to serve. It’s so important to him that he ALWAYS knows the date of his next scheduled release. Sometimes I’ll mess with him and mention a date that’s longer than his actual sentence. He knows better than to question me on it since that’d earn him an extension, but I can tell he’s dying inside. It’s just another means of keeping the power balance tilted in my direction.

Obviously real-life issues sometimes get in the way. If he has a doctor’s appointment for instance, I certainly can’t send him with his chastity device in place. Since everyone’s situation is different, I’m sure you’ll find other reasons for a temporary release as well. But since my rule is an extra two days for each day he’s unlocked, he very rarely asks to be released for something that’s really not worth it. It’s his choice and he has to live with the consequences of his decisions.

While I still don’t consider myself a fan of BDSM, I have learned that many aspects of female domination, or femdom, can be added to our roleplay. There are lots of mistress-slave stories out there that are clearly fiction and/or fantasy, but occasional corporal punishment and bondage can be used as effective punishment and deterent of behavior that I don’t like. It took me a while to get used to the concept, but I’ve completely embraced it now, especially since I’ve seen the many benefits it brings me.

Once his sentence is finally up, and if I decide he’s earned an orgasm, it’s my decision as to how he’s going to get it. If I’m in the mood, then I’ll allow him to penetrate me. Sometimes I’ll even give him oral sex as a special reward. More often than not, however, I’ll simply masturbate him to orgasm. The main thing to remember is that since he’s NOT to touch his own penis, he also shouldn’t be allowed to masturbate himself. Allowing that gives tacit approval of an act which I personally find unacceptable.

One other very important bit of advice that every keyholder needs to keep in mind is that simply locking his chastity device on him isn’t going to give you the results that you ultimately want. Sure, he’ll be a perfect gentleman and all that, but you really need to make the effort to be an active participant in this process. Without being corny about it, find ways to frequently remind him that you’re in charge and that his ultimate pleasure is in your hands. Sometimes it’s as simple as fondling his plastic-covered crotch. Other times it’s teasing him with whatever arouses him the most. The main thing is to consistently live the role of the sexually dominant partner. If you do, you’ll be the happiest wife in your neighborhood and have the other women wondering how you trained your husband so well.

I hope that by sharing my experiences I’ve made it easier for other women to understand what was once a foreign concept to me. Take advantage of your new role and you’ll never regret having agreed to participate in the first place.

This is The Benefits Of Male Chastity, A woman’s perspective by Ms. Kay

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10 Simple Rules for a Wise Dominant

By Lady Jade

1. The submissive’s SAFETY will always be of top priority to a wise Dominant, both physically and emotionally.

2. ALWAYS respect and honor a submissive’s safe word and never put him or her in a position to be afraid to use it.

3. Just as submission is a gift to be treasured, Domination is a talent to be mastered so BE educated and experienced at dominating BEFORE you take on the responsibility of another’s life.

4. Don’t be too arrogant to be able to listen and understand your submissive’s viewpoints and needs. You might just learn something from them. After all communication is the foundation of a strong D/s relationship and can not be obtained if it is all one sided.

5. Never punish a submissive by withholding your affection, this is emotional blackmail.

6. Provide guidance and support when needed and stay tuned into your submissive’s moods. In return you will gain a submissive that is eager to please and serve you because they feel of value.

7. Provide your submissive with negotiated guidelines to stay with in and when the submissive steps out of those guidelines CONSISTENTLY apply punishment.

8. Understand that just as a submissive’s trust must be earned so must a Dominant earn a submissive’s trust. This does not undermine your control but strengthens it.

9. Enjoy and use what is offered to you with kindness, harshness, pain and pleasure and have the wisdom to know when to use each one.

10. Never be too full of pride or blinded by your own “power trip” to admit when you have made a mistake and to even say “I’m sorry”. Just as no submissive is perfect for their Dominant 24 hours a day; no Dominant is perfect either.

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Carrie: the girlfriend you always wished you had. But probably not dominant. Her obsessive show buying does work for me.

Miranda: the one you were most likely to know. Certainly capable.

Charlotte: her kinkiest experience was probably dating the cunnilingus addict.

Samantha: what couldn’t she, wouldn’t she do? But she wasn’t interested in that guy with a dungeon built into his closet.

Can you make any connection between female led relationships and Sex and the City?

Originally posted 2008-05-30 21:55:04. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Male Chastity Contract

Independently of the question if a chastity contract is necessary at all, there are some things that should be avoided and included in such a paper. Since it’s fun to create such a contract and it’s always necessary to adapt it to personal needs, i decided not to give a premade contract, but rather offer you some hints and propositions to help you create your own contract.

1. Although the keyholder can virtually deny the submissive forever, the contract should have an ending date. This does not mean that the contract must effectively end on that date, but it should be something like a “long-term goal”. In fact, every keyholder should at least try to find some reason to increase the release date at least a few days, as every submissive unconsciously expects it or maybe even secretly anticipates it. In retrospect, most submissives agree that in the long run even doubling the initially agreed time period is usually more desirable than strictly sticking to it, which is often experienced as unimaginative and easy. Frustration and unpredictability always are crucial parts of chastity training.
2. Pleading for early release can always be punished. There should be a clause allowing the keyholder to extend the chastity period for at least one day over the original release date. However, it does not have to be a mandatory consequence: the wearer must know that it is risky to ask, but it should not be definitely forseeable. Trying to manipulate your keyholder while wearing a chastity belt always is part of it, but it has to feel dangerous for the submissive when he’s trying to.
3. Good body hygiene should always be mandatory and sloppiness should always come at a price.
4. Punishments are an important part of the contract. Popular punishments are an extension of the release date or an obligation to wear plugs and gags. Suggested extension periods:
1. + 3 days: fondling self while in bed, sloppy completion of tasks
2. + 1 week: refusal to carry out orders, including: housework, oral sex, clothing instructions
3. + 2 weeks: watching porn, trying to masturbate with device on
4. + 1 month: lying about a question
5. The contract should include something like a “closing talk clause”: when the release date finally arrived, the submissive would eventually be secured safely by handcuffs or similar tools with his hands behind his back and the keyholder should be given the possibility to sum up her experiences of the time gone by. Obviously, such a clause aims at the keyholder talking the submissive into voluntarily asking her to extend his release date in the last moment. Maybe this should even be stated directly: “During the closing talk, the submissive gets a last chance to voluntarily ask for an extension of his chastity lockdown period. The keyholder will actively persuade him into doing so by wearing sexy clothing and trying to talk him into it.” This can be an highly erotic mindfuck not only when the talk happens, but all the time while the submissive is locked and yearning for his release – a release that will probably be delayed even longer by only a few words slipped out so easily.
1. Of course this procedure can be repeated multiple times.
6. The contract should state that there is no way to shorten the lock down period, but that it’s no problem to extend it.
7. The contract should contain various tasks that have to be carried out by the submissive on their own and without further notice: cleaning tasks, cooking, body workout, weight loss, sexual duties
1. Failures have to be immidiately punished by increased lock down time
8. It can be stimulating to use explicit language in the contract.

• Forbid him to watch porn
• Oblige him to watch porn
• Forbid him to touch the device
• Require him to write a daily journal
• Forbid him the use of any typing correction program
• Punish him for every typing error
• Punish him by applying chili peppers on his locked cock

Dirty little tricks that can spice it up even more

• Instead of allowing an “orgasm” after the end of the contract, the release clause can also be written like this: “the chastity belt will be opened”, or “the device will be unlocked”, this however, does obviously not have to include any form of “sexual release”, and the submissive can be contractually locked down again after like opening the lock for only a few seconds and telling him about his fate
• For this to be completely legal, the contract should also have an unsuspicious clause like: “if the device is already installed and the lock is in place, the keyholder can renew the contract without further affirmation of the submissive, as through the act of wearing the installed device he automatically displayed his desire to subject to the keyholder in knowledge of this contract”
• The contract should be signed
• “Orgasm” does not necessarily mean orgasm through penile stimulation
• “Orgasm” can be defined as “ejaculatory release of semen”, which can be achieved in multiple ways other than by penile stimulation. It will even happen in a very small scale by itself if the submissive is teased and/or locked up long enough, which is known as leaking (pre)cum.
• Duties of the submissive must not necessarily be limited towards the keyholder

(Via)

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Male Orgasm Denial Agreement

This agreement describes the relationship and duties of two people, the Male and the Guardian. The Male is to be locked in a chastity device. The Guardian is to control the keys to that device and, therefore, the sexual behaviour of the Male.

DEFINITION:
Chastity Device is a locking mechanism that encloses the male genitalia preventing erection, manipulation, and orgasm.

PARTICIPANTS:
The Male who agrees to have his penis locked beyond his reach in a chastity device.
The Guardian who agrees to maintain the keys to the chastity device.

TERM:
Once signed the Male accedes to the Guardian any and all right to terminate this agreement. The agreement will remain in force at the pleasure of the Guardian.

DUTIES:
The Male will remain in the chastity device at all times. He will keep it clean and only remove it for inspection with the supervision of the Guardian. He will never attempt to defeat the purpose of the device.
The Guardian will keep the keys to the device in a secure place away from the Male.
The Guardian will unlock the device only at her/his discretion.
The Male agrees to have no rights in determining the length of confinement even if the term is permanent.
The Male agrees to accept behaviour modification to eliminate erectile function.
The Male agrees to use prosthetic devices, in lieu of his penis, to satisfy his mate.
The Male agrees to allow others to use prosthetic devices on him.
The Male agrees to whatever use the Guardian requires, including servicing others, female and male.

The Guardian may not:
Cause bodily harm
Require brands, tattoos, or piercing
Require inappropriate clothing or adornment in
public
Require behaviour that would cause loss of
public reputation or employment
Require behaviour detrimental to health

In addition to the chastity device the Guardian may use other restraints:
Hood, collar, cuffs, strait jacket, spreader
bars, steel cage, corset, back brace, leg
braces. etc.

The Guardian and the Male stipulate they are over twenty-one years old, have read and understand this agreement, and are signing this agreement freely without coercion.

SIGNATURES:

Male:

Date:

Guardian:

Date:

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Are you sabotaging your quest to meet a compatible dominant female?

Do you focus your attention on sleek and voluptuous women who look like fashion or lingerie models? Are you confining your search to only the most conventionally sexy sort of dominatrix hottie?

Is it that your submission can only be offered to the most physically beautiful girl? Without a perfect, high-gloss finish that you can’t feel submissive?

Or do you restrict yourself to such unlikely standards are an excuse for failure? Does it wound your ego less to be rejected by beauty than by a woman is as nice to look at as you probably are yourself?

Why would Angelina pursue you if you don’t look like Brad?

Originally posted 2008-06-08 16:55:09. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Wife Worship: woman worship within marriage.

Originally posted 2007-07-11 20:59:52. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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A Chastity Slave Orgasm, Penis Control Contract

1.    Definitions
Throughout this contract, the terms are used with the following
definitions
• User: The individual who will wear the chastity belt in accordance to this contract
• Key-holder: The individual who will lock the chastity belt in >place and will hold the key in accordance to this contract.
• Chastity period: This is the time whilst the user is locked in the chastity belt by his key-holder. It includes unlocks and re-locks
that do not result in the user having sexual relief, by means of masturbation or orgasm
2. User’s obligations
The User has the following obligations to submit all control and ownership of penis / orgasm to the key holder until end of chastity period.
• The user will agree to an initial trail period of no less than 28days.
• The user will allow the key-holder to put the chastity belt on him whenever he pleases.
• The belt will particularly be used to prevent unauthorized masturbation during day or on business trips or attendance to KINK
fetish parties.
•  Where the user attends SM meetings with other men he shall be locked in the device before attendance and not unlocked until not sooner than seven days after return.
• The user is prohibited to have any sexual intercourse without the key-holder’s permission.
• The user is prohibited to masturbate without the key-holder’s permission.
• Making efforts to remove the chastity belt by the user is forbidden and will occur punishment.
• The user will allow the key-holder to use any number of toys in
his arse whenever he wants for as long as he wants, so as to tease his prostate into a state of total arousal.
• It is the responsibility of the user to maintain the cleanliness
of the chastity belt.
• The user is never permitted to leave the key-holder’s control
without the key-holder’s special permission.
• The user will accept that having his prostate milked is sufficient
sexual relief for him during any chastity period. Having his prostate milked is at the key-holder’s discretion, it is not his obligation to do so. 
• The user may not ask the key-holder for the chastity belt to be removed. Except for health or safety reasons.
• The user will allow the key-holder to masturbate him or have sex
with him whenever he wants. He will not have an orgasm without his permission however. If he does, he will be subject to whatever punishment the key-holder sees fit. This punishment may override the key-holder’s obligation to keeping chastity periods less then 3
months.
• It is the user’s obligation to let the key-holder know if he has
had sexual relief without his knowledge. For instance through
nocturnal relief or a self provided prostate milking.
• The user will be required to sexually satisfy the key holder
without user orgasm, this will include fucking duties, fellatio,
foot worship, rimming, providing urinal or other toilet duties for key holder, massages etc.
• The user will be grateful and thank the key holder for keeping him in chastity.

3. Key-holder’s obligations
The Key-holder has the following obligations.
• The key will always be securely under the supervision of the key-
holder.
• The key-holder has the obligation to pay attention of the user’s health condition and arrange necessary suitable treatment, when any
disorders are identified on the user’s body.
• The key-holder will remove the chastity belt at least once every 5
days to allow the user to be cleaned properly. This time will also be used to check that there are no health issues in regards to wearing it. Cleaning will involve users hands being fastened behind back, and hood applied with blindfold before device is removed. 
Hair may be removed to help keep the user clean
• The key-holder will not allow the chastity period to exceed 3
months without break.
• The key-holder will make the user aware of how long the expected chastity period is to be, when locking the chastity belt. • If the chastity period is increased it is the key-holder’s obligation to
let the user know how long it has been increased by and why.
• It is up to the key-holder’s discretion how long each chastity period is to be. The key-holder may increase or stop any chastity period as he sees fit.
• The key-holder can humiliate the user at any time by mentioning
that he is kept in chastity, the user must show device on request
4. Duration of the contract
This contract has no duration. It is valid from the date of signing until it is cancelled for one of the reasons listed under:
’5. Cancellation of the contract’.
Cancellation of the contract This Contract can be open for
cancellation, by either the user or the key-holder, in the following
cases.
• The relationship between the user and the key-holder is nullified.
• If the user or the key-holder does not keep to there obligations.
• If it becomes obvious that wearing the chastity belt causes
serious problems to the health of the user.
• If it is agreed by both the user and the key-holder that this
contract is to be replaced by another.
• If it is thought by either the user or the key-holder that the use
of the chastity belt is detrimental to their relationship.
6. non-compliance
The following punishments arise for non-compliance of contract.
•    Unauthorized stimulation (other than for purposes of fucking
key holder) of penis occurs 1 day extra penalty
•    Unauthorized orgasm while fucking occurs 1 week extra penalty
•    Unauthorized removal of device occurs 1 month penalty
•    Request for device to be removed occurs 100 paddle lashes on
ass, a 50 on each nipple.
•    Pleasure gained from milking occurs 50 paddle lashes on ass.
•    Refusal to wear device occurs 100 lashes, and a month
without milking wear.

7. Torture and Torment
The key hold may wish to keep the user in a state of high sexual
arousal during the period but not allowing any relief. The following
scenarios may occur
•    Nipple play or tit torture
•    Poppers play whilst stimulation form key holder.
•    Key holder masturbation of user, users hand fixed behind
back and blindfold so user can gain no personal satisfaction from
the act.
•    User must watch or participate in the masturbation of key
holder.
•    Milking periods will result in no orgasm unless permission
is granted before hand.
•    Supervised Personal masturbation moments can occur for
exceptional behavior but not in the initial trail period these will
be timed an orgasm is only allowed in the first 300 seconds (five
minutes) before device is reapplied.

Both _ ____ as the user and __ ___ as the key-holder agreed to all
the above sentences on there own free will and each of the user and
key-holder keeps a duplicated document signed by both.
The user: signed_______________________ Date: ___________________
The key-holder: signed___________________
Date: ……_______________________

(While this is a M/m Male Chastity Contract it would work fine for a F/m Orgasm Denial Agreement.)

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Matriarchal / Gynarchic Future World

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1. The relationships of female to female will change. There will be more open lesbian liaisons and also, women will bond in order to work together. No more scratching each other’s eyes out because we are an oppressed group scrambling for the resources controlled by men.

There will be a relaxed atmosphere concerning homosexual males and females. They will ‘come out into the open.’ Women will also makes friends with one another because they have to work together in managing the world.

2. Homosexuality, male and female, will be out in the open. People will not ridicule homosexuals any more as they will realize it is not a choice. The agenda of the old boy’s club will be revealed. People will see the hypocrisy, prudishness and hysteria about sex a thing of the past.

3. Sex attitudes will change entirely. There will be no denouncing of masturbation, fornication and adultery, nudity and sexiness from the pulpits of the female-based churches. The Feminine Divine will ascend and the Male God will recede.

4. In religion there will be a major changes. The orthodox religions will pass into the background. First, women will become prominent in orthodox churches, giving way to inclusive language and then ideas. Scriptures will be reinterpreted in favor of the Feminine Divine.

The orthodox churches which refuse women equal ministry and authority will decline drastically and wither away due to lack of funds. Those which remain will be seen as old, archaic, backward cults. Holding onto the stiff, anti-woman puritanical laws, these people will be viewed as out-of-date and out- of-step, totally deluded darkened. But since we have freedom of religion, it will still be practiced, but less and less so. In fact, people will leave orthodox churches in crowds even though they include females more . They are tired of the old bible (which has been such a terrible motive or excuse for violence and sexism) and ready to discover new paths.

There will be a resurgence of Eastern thought, (already strong) meditation and gnosis. People going within and finding their own way. (I am currently Buddhist, for example)

The underground religions of Wicca, Pagans, Druids, Pantheists, Gnostics and so forth will come into the forefront, as well as ancient worship of Egyptian goddesses like Isis and many others . Each sect – Christian, Jew, even Muslim, will bring forth their pantheon of goddesses and these will be worshipped in many veneus. People will be amazed as to how Mother worship was stifled for so long.

The media will have representation for the women’s spirituality equal to that of men – and then in time – surpassing the ‘male God’ religions.

There will begin to be a representation of women’s beliefs on televison. First, a station here and there. Then a network. Then more networks that represent this spirituality as well as all interests, activities, and herstory gone by. Amazing things will be brought forth, and people will be galvanized. They will breathe a sigh of relief as the old stuffy, repressed, frightening religions of men will exit out the door.

Young people will see options that appeal to them rather than make them feel life is over before it begins.

You will go from fear/guilt-/repression religions to love/light/joy based modalities. You will go from hypocrisy to acceptance and tolerance. From prudishness and condemnation you will have personal freedom and relaxation.

Nudity will no longer be associated with the forbidden, the immoral or questionable.

People will be much more relaxed and mature about nudity.

Nothing about the new behavior will be immoral. It will be a breath of fresh air. Nudism will abound – not considerd particularly sexual and certainly not evil. People will walk around naked in their homes and back yards. Children will also go naked if they please and it will not be considered irresponsible to have family nudity. Nudity will be an accepted way of life and people will not be automatically shocked and tittilated at the naked body any more. Just a part of MotherGod’s creation.

5. There will be a great decrease in two terrible things: abortion and child abuse. First, women will now have sex when they want to and will not be forced into it. (Of course in third world countries, this force will take time to eradicate.) Since women will have control over their bodies and sexuality, they will get pregnant less, and at the time they are ready for children, and this will eliminate huge numbers of abortions.

Second, the care of children, now that women are freed up, will accelerate dramatically. Women will have spy cameras in the homes and children will have chips in their bodies (non harmful, just under the skin) which allows them to be monitored at all times. If a child is taken away or kidnapped, it will be found quickly. Child abusers will be dealt with as never before.

6. New safety measures. There will be bracelets, brooches, rings and medals by which women, children and men can get instant help. Men will not be able to intimidate women (date rape) so easily because a woman will press a button somewhere on her body and help will come. Children will have such devices also, and even men who feel they need them. (Everone can use some safety! Think of hikers in the wilderness)

Moreover, since women will have become sensitive to what happens to girls in cars with boys, girls will be given their own cars more quickly than boys are. The girls will be able to take the boy out rather than the other way around.

There will be new kinds of dating. Women will have chauffer/bodyguards, so that will deter intimidation and rape on dates. New laws and old laws now enforced will deter men from much of their violence. They will have to learn to control themselves and not act out their demons.

There will be a rise in the depiction of heras – females as heroes.

7. New kinds of men will be seen as attractive; less macho, more thoughtful, gentler and attentive. The old macho-man hero will change into more realistic characters. It was all an act – let’s drop it. Women as heras however, will become common. Movies and television will search herstory for themes of their greatness.

Women will need men to do what powerful men once needed women to do. A new genre of men will be in demand – those who can be supportive rather than dominating and demanding.

Men who are compliant to women will now be an asset, not a defect, as women get more macho and powerful and need simple comfort and support. After a hard day’s work in Congress or as a CEO or stock market analyst, a woman does not need an errant, macho upstart to come home to. No longer (except in the worst of cases) will lowlifes sit around the house, watching tv, waiting for their wives to wait on them hand and foot, treating women like servants. Men like that will be invited out of the house very fast.

8. There will be increased women in government and military. America will continue to dominate the world with its powerful presence, and women will be a big part in all this. There will be less graft and waste in spending – less thievery with tax money, and so, taxes would be reduced. There will be no slacking off in maintaining world control against our enemies – as we learned our lessons long ago. A peaceful, agrarian society such as Matriarchy once was, will be taken over by macho, violent males. Women as well as men will be ready for them, and they will not prevail. The thing that will change is we will not foster unnecesassary wars. We will be careful about destruction and violence but will retain our power nevertheless, with a peace keeping presence around the world.

9. Women worldwide will clamor to come to the Matriarchal United States, as well as European countries that follow. They will especially seek to flee the countries that are most oppressive to women. Many will, in fact, escape.

Wealthy women philantropists and humanitarians will get hold of poor girls who are forced into prostitution on the streets of all countries. They will be adopted by these women or selected for training and employment in their houses and businesses. Naturally, these children will grow up, get married and have their own families, all matriarchal, and a mix of nationalities will occur.

10. New centers for entertainment. There will be many new centers of entertainment like malls, partly for the purpose of keeping males busy and out of trouble. These will be frequented by all ages, male and female, and present opportunities for recreation in a safe place. Games, rides, amusements and restaurants – similar to malls but with more activities – will rise up. There will be places where people can join groups for games and sports 24/7, or one to one activities like ping pong, checkers, and chess, etc. People will learn to interact, be friendly, without making all of life as the game of sexual pursuit or avoidance. (In today’s world there are few places people can meet for conviviality besides bars, and this will fix that.)

You will not hear sex condemned from the pulpits of female-based churches – unless of course it concerns harm done to another.

Not that sex will be a problem. People will relax about sex and it will not be looked upon as a moral issue (unless there is wrong doing) and there will be less hypocrisy and secrecy about sex. (After all, people are doing it, they just aren’t admitting it.)

Animals will once again be seen as Sacred, as important as we are, and not to be exploited and abused. Testing on animals will stop.

There will be serious measures taken against destruction of animal habitat, and animal management that works for them as much as for us.

12. Education: Not only will the schools be improved tremendously, but there will be education and skill centers 24/7. People will be able to improve themselves no matter what their time schedules are, continually learning. Some of these will cost big bucks, some reasonable, and some free, so that everyone gets a chance.

Women will have more pets than ever. Becoming more affluent, they will have much to do with restoring the safety and happiness of animals.

13. Prison and detention: There will be a tougher stand against criminals (who are mostly male.) They will not be let out on the streets too easily. Child abusers, the violent and dangerous will all have to wear implants if they ever get out. People will have devises by which they can detect these implants, so that the average person on the street will know if he or she is in the presence of a former criminal. There will be three different kinds of sounds on your device, or if silent, it will be seen written down. One signal for violent, one signal for child abuser, and another for rapist. Those who have erred more than once will not be let out again but will live in various degrees of prisons or detention centers. Outside, they will have constant monitoring.

14. There will be no homelessness. Homeless people will be provided for and police will stop anyone roaming the streets and direct them to the proper institutions. Male and female will be separate and women with children will have their own facilities. The women who are homeless, abused or in any way in danger will be given safe haven.

Children will have new ways of being cared for as it is discovered that so many foster fathers prey on children. They will be given the option of entering luxury orphanages instead of their family or foster homes. It will be a law that any child who wants to leave home voluntarily will be allowed to do so simply by asking – and will be allowed to live in these deluxe orphanages, no questions asked. It will be assumed they are being abused or neglected, but choose not to press charges. These centers will be run by all women.

A new freedom will come to Earth and men as well as women will be liberated and blessed. The whole earth and all life will dance for joy.

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Matriarchal / Gynarchic Future World

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With the new affluence and power of women in comparison to that of men, there will be much ‘reversal of roles.’ Women in big jobs earning most of the money will need men who bring creature comforts, moral and domestic support. Statistics show that in five years there will be one million more women than men with advanced degrees! The ‘futurists’ (male and female prediction pundits) unanimously agree, ‘The future belongs to women.’

In light of this, I would like to make a forecast of what male-female relationships will be like. Will it be a simple reversal of women oppressing men as men have oppressed women, (as men fear) or is it going to be something different? I believe it will be ‘something different.’ Here’s how I see it.

MARRIAGE

Marriage will swerve into many different paths and present lifestyles not seen before. Of course, some traditional-style marriages will remain, and even male dominating female will still happen, but these will be in the minority. The old-style marriage was based on the premise that male was the breadwinner, and that he would provide for family. Not so now. Women will be the chief providers, in spite of the fact that they will continue, naturally, having children. For some years now women have been having children and working, and doing all the housework, so it will not be impossible for them to carry on big jobs, take time off for birthing and nurturing, and be back to work within six months. The big change that will free women up for work-and-family will be childcare facilities. Two things will happen. Laws will be passed that the majority of businesses will have to provide on the premises child care. Mother will be able to visit her children at the nursery throughout the day – during lunch and breaks. If any crisis arises she will be instantly notified by the staff and could attend to it. Businesses will gear themselves to the importance of women and their child rearing capacity. It will no longer be looked upon as a handicap, but a prerogative of ‘the special sex’.

The absolute concern or ‘obsession’ with women is children, and they will pull out all the stops in the care of same. Safety, security at home and in deluxe child-care centers will become a reality.

Second, with their newfound wealth (I predict that the average income of women will be double that of men within twenty years) women will also have suitable private child care facilities. (No longer will women be leaving children with Dad or other males, as they have woken up to the fact that males are inadequate and dangerous babysitters.) These facilities will be not like they are today. They will have sprang up by entrepreneurs – all women and run by women – who will have ‘luxury’ and around the clock care for children of all ages. Males will be outlawed from working in or hanging about such premises. There will be all the comforts of home, plus education and recreation opportunities. These centers will truly be something enjoyable for the children and Mom’s will not need worry, as these will be strictly monitored. Older children will also be taken care of, again, with all sorts of education and self improvement plus relaxation, entertainment and rest. Many centers will have sleeping facilities, because of women working late, being occupied or leaving town. Truly, this new form of child care will be a God send for women. Why such centers now, not before? Because women simply weren’t earning enough money to afford them – now they will. (We admit not all women will be able to afford such luxuries, but many will.)

There will be new kinds of centers to provide for children (of all ages) when Mothers cannot. More luxurious than ever in terms of personal care, education and recreation opportunities, these will far surpass the ones existing today.

The affluent women themselves will band together to create these new child-care centers. However, over the long term, I see women developing clans and extended family compounds, and then, with competent females holding down the fort, children will mostly be left home.

Women will now be Self-centered rather than man-centered. In the past, man was all-important as the one with the money. Now she will be the one with the money and have her pick of men. Men will be vying for wealthy women and they will have to cut the mustard to measure up. A whole new genre of men will emerge who are relying on qualities and skills other than having money. They will look good, sound good, be charming and accommodating, carry on a good conversation and have impeccable manners. (More on this later.)

The entire role and image of male and female will be rethought. Males are becoming more feminine and females more masculine. (Tests show that men are producing half the sperm that they did years ago.) Women will be getting more dominant and assertive, as well as demanding, when they are freed up economically. The knowledge of female superiority will hit the mainstream and all sorts of facts will be made known and believed by all. Everyone in America (the rest of the world will catch up) will know that females are superior and males inferior, in all things but brute strength. Since males will no longer control information, media, science, education and the medical establishment, the truth will be out for all to see. It will be so evident and plain that only the most backward of persons could deny it. Such people will be dismissed as kooks.

There will be a variety of marriages. Women will change their outlook toward themselves, toward life and family and men. They will not see male as center of their universe any more. They will see themselves as the center, with children as important, and males according the the view of the individual woman. Some women will see men as equals or close. Some will see them as helpers or associates, even servants. Some women will choose not to have anything to do with males at all, but have themselves cloned or purchase sperm from the male of their choice. They will not want to be bothered with a male having legal rights to children or their property. Some of these women who do so will date men – but not permit them close enough for claims to be made.

Here are a few types of marriages and alliances that I see:

Woman the main breadwinner. Her job is demanding and she has no time for cooking, cleaning and housework. She has enough money to pay for all that, but in some cases, will find a man who can do these things. Men will have to train themselves or be trained after the wedding to manage household affairs. Some of these men might work, but their jobs will not be as demanding or time consuming as that of the female. (If there are children the female will leave them with luxury child care when she is at work. Women have learned by statistics and testimony that men are not to be trusted in this arena.) Because of the demand for this new type of ‘skilled’ husband, many new cooking and domestic centers will spring up – mostly attended by men. Women have these abilities branded in by generations of doing, but men need training. This will be seen to. In fact, many men will go to such schools in the hope of getting a ‘better’ wife.

Besides the regular ‘equality’ style relationships, there will be those where males are supportive or somewhat subservient.

There will also be ‘charm’ schools where men will not only be taught grooming and how to dress, but etiquette, respect for women and how to carry on a conversation. (Studies show (Dale Spender and others) that males are the pits when it comes to communicating. They talk a lot and listen little, they interrupt, and expect the woman to center the conversation around their needs. They also expects the female to encourage his speech and feed his ego while he is talking. All of this will have to be fixed.)

People will not ridicule the men who choose to be subordinate in their relationships to women. It will be a new climate.

Many women will seek men who are skilled around the house. Ability to cook will be a plus. Cleaning and shopping skills will be extra points. Men will be buying self-help books – which in the past were for women – now written for men. ‘How to Catch the Woman of Your Dreams,’ ‘Finding the Successful Woman and Winning Her’, ‘How to Appeal to a Successful Woman,’ ‘Men Who Appeal to Great Women – All Their Secrets,’ ‘Ten Ways to Meet a Millionairess’, ‘Winning and Keeping a Great Woman,’ etc. These books will sell out and men will secretly read and hide them like they read and hide pornography.

There will always be a variety of types of relationships, but females on top will be the new trend.

There will be a variety of marriages and not all will be based on sex. Some men will be accepted by women strictly for companionship and might not all get legal rights as husbands. Men might be gay companions – or celibate for the sake of spiritual attainment. Such men would consider themselves lucky to share a house with a rich woman who would support them, in exchange for work and companionship. It will become obvious to all that women are not as sex centered as males want to believe. They can live very well without sex and many have pretended a strong interest where there was none. It was all a ploy – bait to get the male’s interest.

Guys like chef Bobby Flay will be more in demand by successful women then ‘Terminator’ types.

Many men will seek the hand of these nouveau-riche femmes for the lifestyle, (but they will have to measure up to it.) Nice homes, good cars, class restaurants and luxury vacations will seem great to guys who are making a lot less money. Some will even love their women!

As said before, not all women will be with men. Some will want to spend their time with women or just hire servants to take care of things. They will live for their family and children, and men will be on the sidelines.

These changes will happen rapidly but in the long run, I see something else. As women continue to be economically superior, money will pass to more and more females. Women who will often leave their money to daughters and granddaughters rather than the men – and women’s resources will become mighty. The family structure will slowly change from ‘nuclear family’ to ‘matrilineal, matrifocal’ family. Whereas the quick changes will start in one to two generations, the matri-society will start taking shape in about six. The nuclear family was never the ideal for female, but rather, it was hatched up by males as a way of separating women from their kin and giving man the sway to rule his roost. An extended family of say four generations can live much better together than separately. As families get together and share expenses, work, and love, the males will feel happier also. After all, belonging is one of the principles of happiness, and the togetherness will make people more secure. But never again will males dominate a society where they separate females from their family, take them away, isolate them and children and abuse or neglect them.

MATRILINEAL (mat-ruh-LIN-ee-uhl) – Tracing kinship and descent through the female line. (Compare patrilineal.) (Bartleby.com)

MATRIFOCAL – Mother-centered; often refers to a household with no resident husband-father. (McGraw-Hill Cultural Anthropology)

Within her family and with resources strongly in the hands of women, men will have to discipline their actions.

Within these ‘clans’ or ‘extended families,’ the center will always be the women. Girls will be groomed, encouraged to be the best of themselves. Boys of course will be loved, but never at the expense of girls. Never again will they be given unfair treatment, given special care and resources because of their gender. They will be encouraged for good, but it will be the girls who are groomed for top leadership and places of responsibility.

THE WORKPLACE

I see women getting into all walks of life quickly and taking half the jobs in all fields. Not only will women take corporate jobs and government jobs and excel, but they will also take public service jobs now mostly in the hands of men. Half the police and firemen will be women – and half the truckdrivers. Women will handle he-man jobs everywhere, in factories, in construction, in the military.

There will be no more prejudice against big and strong women. Women will not be fanatical dieters, nor will they feel guilty about being ‘big.’ They will work on staying in shape, but if they are not young, thin and ‘pretty’ it won’t matter. Men will be climbing over each other to get to the old, fat, rich women. These women will seem beautiful to them as they represent all the good things of this world.

Women who are loaded with money will not have to worry about their weight so much. A million dollars covers a multitude of sins.

As women go higher and higher in all walks of life everything they dominate will be transformed – for the better.

Another thing that will be totally different will be that women bond and have mutual respect for one another. They will have clubs, networking together – because they have to bond in order to work together.

WILL ALL THIS BE BAD FOR MEN?

It seems like all this is rather bad for men – that they have to live with less money and power and become humble and subservient.

It is not natural for men to dominate women. They have been wearing this mask too long.

But you have to look at this picture from all angles. Much evil has come to men through Patriarchy. In spite of the economic blessings they have been spiritually poor. They have sinned. They have sinned badly and they have lost their souls. (The saints say this.) Furthermore, leading women is not natural for men. They have been put into unsuitable roles and have lost the gentle nature or have had to squash it down. The lifestyle of all this pretence to dominance has been a sham and a strain on their psyche. They need and fear women but have to hide their dependency behind a facade. Taking off their masks and just being themselves – great big boys who need a Mother – will be a relief for them. Let Mother take charge, because she can do a better job than you, my boy!

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Matriarchal, Gynarchic Skepticism

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Female Supremacy,gynarchy,matriarchy, or gynecocracy what ever you want to call it. This is something that some people are serious about, I think it hurts Female Lead Marriage as a lifestyle, and the kink community in general. I don’t believe in it,I don’t see it as a cure all for the worlds problems, and I doubt that it is a workable government, at the global, national level or even in a large community. While I do feel that many men if not all of them would benefit form FLM at home it must be consensual, otherwise being dominated even from birth breads resentment. This is going to be the first of three posts on this subject starting with why I feel that large scale matriarchy would not be a stable or long lasting goverment.

Gynarchy is not workable as a governmental policy for any number of reasons. The most glaring problem is that no one person, or group that I have been able to find has any plan on how to establish it in the open minded United States let alone more closed minded countries. I don’t mean simple goals, or how it will work once established, but a step by step plan from now until firm control has been maintained for sometime.

To begin with they would have to get better than a majority of women to agree to this and better than a majority of men. There are roughly three hundred million people in the United States as of the latest census, and almost seven billion world wide. Just think how hard it would be to get four men and 3 women to agree that all the women are superior to all the men in the group, by virtue of there womanhood. Lets try a wider sample like the Middle east when will gynarchy be established there before or after the stonings. Also before suggesting military force from other nations look how well things are going in Iraq and Afghanistan now or the U.S. and ailed forces. Then add in China, India, much if not all of Africa, and armed dissent in there own land. Never mind that warfare is against most female supremacy belief systems.

If gynarchy is established in one part of the world most probably in Europe or North America, they could not simply live peacefully waiting for female supremacy to take root naturally in other areas of the world. Is it unbelievable that any number of nations would use male slavery as an excuse to declare war? If not, then that the international community would impose heavy economic sanctions? When thinking about this remember that China the most populace nation in the world along with India are the fastest gr owning and most dynamic economies in the world today.

But lets say that on a large scale that our current society was changed into a female supremacy wonderland. Would it be sustainable, could it managed into the next great cultural force, its influence lasting centuries? I doubt it.

A major problem as it appears to me is that much of what gynarchy wants is to relive women of all the dirty, dangerous, and unpleasant jobs. The thing is there are allot more dirty jobs than supervisory ones. Business, government, volunteer groups just don’t work any other way. This means that there has to be more men in the world than women. gynarchy does not seem to compromise on this goal, and so women not men would be the minority population, if not in numbers than in the work force. As men associated with one another they would develop a culture of there own that would become dominate, work spaces, and living spaces would be dominated by there needs. If included in this was military and police service you have also added guns to the problems of a government totally controlled by women.

This leads to a male dominated economy, that leads to what? A male dominated government, and world. Leaving women where, staying home and taking care of the kids? Suddenly a theoretical society where women rule suddenly becomes one that resembles Leave It To Beaver Americana.

For these reasons women and men must be equal outside of the home. What people do in there home is up to them. If my readers want to advance women in the world, seeking to place them forever on top is not going to work, or eve happen. Instead work to help the women in your life to achieve there own success and to redress the problems of gender gaps in pay, and the treatment of women in underdeveloped countries.

Gynarchy: Why it Won’t Work
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Female-Led Strap Spanking

In this totally female led family bad boys and naughty males receiving a heavy strapping in the woodwhip by the Mistress of the household.

Female-Led Woodshed Spanking
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