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Chastity Belt Christmas Present

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A guy wrote that he was doing his Christmas shopping:

i also spotted a cb-3000 chastity device in a toy store nearby work, and i want to buy it for Her and present it to Her. Trouble is She probably wouldn’t know what to do with it! So what i was thinking was trying to locate some stories or real life testimonials about the advantages of keeping your husband in chastity, i would present the device to Her at Christmas along with all Her other gifts and let Her read the stories to spark Her mind

You can just see the look on his wife’s face when she opens that mysterious looking thing. Though I do remember a few men who got a chastity device as a birthday or Christmas present.

A few people replied. As did I:

Much of what is put up on the web about “advantages” of chastity is just folklore. A man who is better behaved because he’s wearing a CB-3000 is really one who misbehaves as a way to get it put on him.

I think you should just honestly tell her that you would appreciate it if she’s help you explore this because you think it will make you happy. If she does then make sure her kindness to you is reciprocated by kindness to her.

Since she loves you your happiness will make her feel good. And as your life-partner she will appreciate any additional helpfulness and attentiveness you bring to your relationship. I think you’ll see it is really easier to cultivate and sustain a D/s dynamic that is rooted in mutual happiness than BDSM fiction.

It got me to thinking about instances in my own love affairs when either I or my lover should have expressed some desire clearly and directly. It is easy to go unheard if you are coy or mumble your wish under your breath.

And to strive to be more obliging. Often I fear I failed to be. Intimate times with our partners might prosper more if for fifteen seconds we paused to get past the “No” that instantly rises in our mind and weigh the mutual happiness that might be found in “Yes.” Often our objections are rooted in trivia.

Anyway the guy came back to say:

… i think its best leave it for now as rightly pointed out this is probably for me more than my Wife, its Her birthday the 31st Dec so there’s a few more presents to be bought

Then:

just sold my sony psp for 270 euro… so could spend some of that on the cb 3000

Maybe he’ll return and let us know how it went.

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Kajirus: Male Slaves of Gor

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When serving, a kajirus should serve Mistresses in nadu position, and Masters in tower; this is out of respect for gender. the quotes below, help to explain, the male slave and the strength it takes to be……

But most perhaps, incredible as it might seem, I feared that if I asked for a kindness, even a word or a gesture, it would be refused. Alone and slave, beaten and degraded, I found myself desperately in need of something, be it almost nothing, to indicate that I was a man, a human being, something that might, to some extent or degree, be worthing of respect or understanding. I think that if she, this proud woman, before whom I felt myself nothing, she my Mistress, if she had but cared to speak a word of simple kindness to me I might have cried out with gladness, willingly serving her in all things she asked. But if I should but beg a kindness, humbly, I feard it might be refused, that she might reject me in this as she had in all other things, my manhood and my humanity. And fused with this, excruciating in the pain of it, was my desire for her, the crying out of my blood that she had so, and deliberately, aroused.

Raiders of Gor

Male slaves are mainly enslaved for economic reasons, as cheap labor. The Gorean philosophy of “natural order” supports female slavery but it does not support male slavery. Gorean society though recognizes the validity, legality and economic necessity of male slavery. It is a more practical decision and not one based on a deeper philosophy. Under these justifications, anyone can be enslaved. Not all societal institutions need be based on an underlying philosophical foundation. Some are simply practical concepts.

Few male slaves are considered valuable and they generally do not garner high prices, even at auction. The primary exceptions are male silk slaves and exotics. The normal high price for a male slave, not a silk slave or exotic, is a silver tarsk. Many female slaves would sell for more than that amount. There are also very few male slaves with long pedigrees. There are few reasons to breed male slaves except as exotics. Nearly any Gorean man can serve as a typical work slave.

The most common types of male slaves are the work slaves. They are usually used on cargo galleys, mines, great farms or as porters on wharves. Port Kar, Cos and Tyros utilize thousands of male galley slaves. Many cities use male slaves for some of the more unpleasant labor in the cities, such as in the refuse pits or cleaning the public baths. Some slaves may pull wagons in teams. Most men work on chains with other slaves. In some cities like Ar, an unchained male slave is rarely ever seen. Work gangs commonly consist of fifty to one hundred men though they may be as large as one thousand men. They are commonly considered to be cheap and expendable labor.

Free work chains also exist as slaves are not permitted to engage in certain construction work. Work slaves are not used for road construction, siege works, erecting walls, or the construction of temples and public buildings. In many respects though, free chains are often not much different from slaves. Many free chains consist of criminals. These criminals have been sold, for a nominal fee, to work gang leaders to serve out the rest of their sentence as a laborer. Though they are technically supposed to be freed when their prison term would be up not all are. Some work masters create stringent rules for their workers. If you violate one of these rules, it will add time onto your sentence. The rules are created so most of the workers will violate them at some point, effectively keeping the workers much longer than their original sentence. The workers are commonly kept under slave discipline and the work master can do anything he wants to them, including killing them.

Probably the lowest of all work slaves are the salt slaves of Klima. Klima is located deep in the dune country of the Tahari region. Its exact location is a well kept secret. Thousands of salt slaves work there to extract salt from brine pits, generally by drilling or flush mining. Salt slaves are taken there on foot. They are hooded, chained and led through the desert. Many never make it as far as Klima. Escape from Klima is nearly impossible and no one until Tarl Cabot had ever escaped from there. No kaiila are permitted there and there is no water for a thousand pasangs. No women are permitted there and the workday is from dawn to dusk. It is brutal work and few slaves last too long there.

From Kajirus Basics (#19, Version 5.0)

Silk slaves:
“A male slave kept by Free Women as sexual toys, handsome and sometimes pretty by male standards, these slaves are often muscular and manly, as Free Women love having strong men at their feet, this can be dangerous if the slave doesn’t know his place or wishes to be free. At the present time there is a city ordinance in Ar which restricts the sexual use, or “couching” of slaves by Free Women, due to the widespread belief that the physical charms of precious Free Women are reserved only for the free.”

“I lifted my chained wrists. ‘Why am I chained?’ I asked. ‘What a stupid fool you are,’ she said. Then she walked about me, whip in hand. ‘Yet you are a pretty one,’ she said. ‘To a woman you might not be unattractive.’

“Then she stood again before me. I shrank back in the chains. I was acutely conscious of the clasp of the steel on my wrists and ankles. She approached me and with the coils of the whip, tapped the metal on my neck. ‘This is a collar.’ she said. Then , with her left hand, she jerked at the metal piece attached to the collar. From the way it felt I gathered that it was as I had suspected, a ring. Then it fell back against the collar and against my collarbone. She then stepped back, and regarded me. Never had I been looked upon so objectively by a woman. ‘I think you will do very nicely,’ she said.

Fighting Slave of Gor

Female slaves normally despise male slaves. They consider themselves the rightful property of only free persons. It is considered a great shame for a female slave to have to touch a male slave. Male slaves though are often permitted to have a female slave for their pleasure, especially as a reward. But, a male slave might be killed for touching a female slave without permission. Female slaves show contempt toward male slaves because they do not see them as real men, because they have been made slave.

Usually, but not always. Although “kajirus” technically refers to all Gorean male slaves, there’s one type in particular that raises the hackles on the backs of most Gorean men — the willing male slave. Especially, the willing sex slave … a man who of his own choice gave up his freedom, who realized that it was his true nature to submissively fulfill the wishes of a woman (or possibly a man) … and thereby becoming an object of desire.

Why Gorean Men Hate Kajirus So Much

Kajirus: Male Slaves of Gor
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Male Slave’s Daily Prayer to Mistress

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Enslaved Man’s Prayer to Owner-Goddess-Mistress

Male Slave Daily Prayer to Woman

This slave has no past
This slave has no future
This slave exists in an eternal present of woman worship

This slave worships no god
This slave worships one Goddess
This slave prays to Goddess silently throughout the day

This slave knowns its inferiority
This slave knows its Divine Mistress’ superiority
This slave strives for perfect humility

When this slave awakes it
Humbles itself in the heart
Kneels in its mind
Begging Mistress for another day as her slave

This slave has no desires, no wants
This slave needs only to serve and obey
This slave has no will
Mistress’ wish and whims rule its soul

This slave exist for its Mistress’ pleasure
This slave is happy only if She is happy
So it will be for all of this slave’s life

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Femdom Prayer

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Male Slave’s Prayer to His Mistress

Femdom Prayer

Mistress is my Goddess, I shall obey
She leads me to fulfill Her will
She makes me understand my male inferiority

She accepts my submission
All that I do will be in Her divine name

Though I am unworthy
And can never be worthy
Mistress’ rod and whip will teach me
She teaches me my place with pain

Her perfection and flawlessness humble me
Her rules I will follow all of my life

Submit your F/m prayer.

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Masochismo

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Recently someone left a comment to rather forcibly let me know that he didn’t think the scenario was brutal. My correspondent evidently endures hours of scream worthy corporal punishment.

Hooray for him.

Our bodies and minds aren’t identically constructed. The physiological ability to handle physical pain and the masochistic gift to process it erotically are individual to each of us.

Sure I know many sadists really like masochists who can really take it rough. But the best sadists understand the subjectivity of S&M and that it isn’t an Olympic sport. They can appreciate that for some people thirty minutes with a flogger is the most they can take.

Treating masochism as a competitive event is risky since it can motivate a bottom to try to endure more than he or she should. It can be another form of rape.

‘Manly’ masochists should relish their own capacity but otherwise just shut up.

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Do You Really Want to Be Her Household Servant

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Life of Servitude?

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Many submissive men write about their (often fictitious) delight in being their wife’s or girlfriend’s household servant.

They boast of their intense and continual labors.

Is a role of service, as a woman’s servant, a lifestyle that you really want.

When your fantasies fade after, say, wanking do these dreams persist. Do you think you can sustain and delight in coming home from your paying job and working like a slave at home.

  • Will you thrill to wash the dishes?
  • Happily scrub floors and walls?
  • Wash, dray, fols and hand the laundry?
  • Will you be proud of how you make the bathroom sparkle: tub shiny, gleaming toilet?
  • Will you gladly every day insure that your Mistress never lifts a finger, performs a chore?

Will your life as a laboring slave of a woman truly be your perpetual source of joy?

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Vintage Female Domination Photographs

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Femdom Stereotypes

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Sexist Femdom Stereotypes Cliches

Funny how men who say they want a female led relationship so often describe themselves and the entire male sex as unromantic, shiftless, selfish and rude.

I’m glad my heterosexual male friends don’t match those masculine stereotypes.

And all women are shimmering paragons of limitless virtuousness that somehow leads to assertions of female supremacy and superiority.

Really we’re all just people. Some clichés might match a few of us. But I doubt many of us are epitomes of stereotypes best left in TV sitcom land.

You are man who feels a need to submit to a woman.

She’s a woman who enjoys controlling, ruling a male.

Without any nutty theories or convoluted justifications those arethe only essential to establishing a F/m love affair, marriage or romance.

Originally posted 2010-06-06 20:34:45. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Natural Order

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Maledom vs Femdom

Maledom

From a longish thread involving dime store anthropology, gender cheap stereotypes and other bad generalizations about men and women and submission and dominance. Mostly I like quoting the estimable Laura Goodwin:

I disagree. Where is the “dominance” in either a dog/dog or cat/cat relationship? They may play rough, but few females in nature get raped. I saw a female horse repel an unwanted suitor with fierce kicks. That’s no abberation, it’s the norm in nature. Female hyenas are bigger than the males, have balls just like them, and require submissive behavior from their male partners. Elephants live in families ruled by the females. What is the one male lion of a lion pride but a sex-toy and towel boy for the real hunters of the pride, the females? Kind of like if I were to allow you to hang around with me and my lady friends until a hunkier male proved more interesting.

As for exceptions, the male seahorse is an exception: The female leaves her eggs with him, and he bears the offspring in her absence. As for using weapons, either sex can play that game. They don’t call guns equalizers for nothing.

My personal feeling is males sometimes overreact against female power. Woman is authorized by nature to dominate other humans and play a leadership role. One word: motherhood. A woman in power is nature’s default. If a mother abuses her power she may produce sons and daughters who develop a feeling of repugnance for the idea of a woman in charge. I certainly have seen ample evidence of this, just as I’ve seen the adult children of abusive fathers reacting against the whole idea of male rule.

It’s not your sex that makes you fit or unfit for responsibility over other human lives. People who are capable and compassionate dominants can be of either sex and any gender identity. That’s the way HUMANS are.

I Can’t Handle Male Dom!

Originally posted 2009-02-07 13:23:13. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Approaching a Dominant Woman

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Mistress Sky has a list of questions to ask yourself before approaching a dominant of which I’ll quote just a couple:

Are you really capable of putting someone’s needs before every single one of yours? – That’s what true submission is, you know. You have to want to do anything and everything, wherever you are, whenever it’s asked of you, to please your chosen Dom/me. They must always come first. Whatever they ask of you, you must do without question…. could you do that?

If, despite all the above, you still feel that it’s for you, you must approach your chosen Dom/me with utter RESPECT. Manners are very important – they show intelligence and sincerity aswell. If you are answering an advert, then answer it properly: Address each point. Be yourself. Above all, be HONEST. If you lie, you’ll defeat the object.

Are you sure?

Originally posted 2011-01-02 04:04:14. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Dominant Aunt’s Harsh Punishment

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A young man is disicpline and punished when he visits his Aunt Rita, a stern and strict woman.

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Aunt Rita gives the bad young man a hairbrush spanking.

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Feeling that the naughty male hasn’t learned his lessons she strips him, ties him to a post and brutally beats him with a switch.

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Aunt Rita calls in a nurse to help her administer further discipline.

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The two women subject the deliquent to an enema to humiliate him.

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Aunt Rita continues his punishment with a heavy leather strap.

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Then she whips him with a flogger.

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She surely knows hos to maintain discipline in her female-led household. If you punish a male harshly enough he will learn to be polite, humble and to obey her orders.

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Submitting to the Feminine

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Feminine sensuality.

(Old newsgroup posting by Katharine Hawks.)

I do believe that “submitting to the feminine” is one of the more common patterns in F/m relationships.

Speaking for myself, that squicks me. I don’t want anyone submitting to the “feminine” in me. Blech. And while I’m content to use that energy to my advantage every once in a while, I only feel comfortable with it as a sideline or occasional subtext. I wouldn’t feel comfortable with it as a mainstay.

For example, I was recently dressing for a party and I called my boy upstairs to help me dress. I was wearing a latex tank top and certainly enjoyed the way she got all drooly when I asked her to help apply the shine . It was also fun to have her help me pick out clothes — that moment between us was *very* gendered and were certainly playing off the “feminine mystique” stuff. I know she felt like she had entered a *secret girly world*.

I can also play occasionally with gender supremacy in the right context and enjoy that dynamic. But again, as a steady diet.. .blech.

This is because I don’t go through my life always experiencing my gender. Not all moments are gendered for me. Similarly, I cannot imagine a dynamic as rich as dominance/submission stemming *only* from a gender dynamic. While some of my power does come from my gender — most of it comes from other sources. From my experiences in life, from my perceptiveness, from my sense of ethics, from my sadism, from my intellect, by being a good decision-maker, by being open of heart, etc.

And I am more likely to be turned on by someone who submits to me because of these qualities rather than the uninteresting nature of the fact that I’m gendered. (Since most of us are gendered in some way, I don’t feel like that makes me unique or worthy of someone’s submission. I enjoy much more the sense that someone is submitting to me because of qualities that I’ve worked very hard to develop and nurture.)

Originally posted 2009-03-04 07:19:09. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Would You Pray to Your Wife?

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A couple of weeks ago I saw a photograph of a shrine a man had erected to a ProDomme he often sees.

The other night I ran into one of the wackiest websites I know of: Woman Thou Art God.

The Cbelians are big on woman as divine (and piss in their men’s mouths daily to prove it).

And let us not forget the Service of Mankind Church, on some level part of William Bond’s feverish female supremacy fantasies.

So there are plenty of examples of the divine feminine in a crass and amusing sense. (And I’m not even mentioning the more obvious commercial goddess sites.)

What would you do if your wife – or girlfriend – that you should now pray to her as a deity. If she told you that he was literally a goddess and holy?

All manner of males claim to embrace this belief. What do you think of it?

Here are some woman worship prayers.

Originally posted 2008-03-08 16:12:06. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Animated Female Led Spanking

Bill Ward Female Led Relationship Spanking Art

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Females Spanking, Punishing Males

Bill Ward corporal punishment art that fits the more conventional image of female-led relationship spankings than his more extreme drawings.

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Lots of Bill Ward Femdom Art

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Lightly

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Many men and women approach female domination and male submission with great seriousness. While our love lives are of real importance this excess of sobriety can become a source of pompousness and self-righteousness.

Just because you think having a cruel women – or to whatever archetype of female power you favor – boss you about doesn’t mean that it is the only form of female led play that is worthwhile.

Many couples engage in light, playful dominance and submission. Maybe they have a pair of plastic handcuffs and a blindfold. Perhaps engage in light spankings. Male chastity games are common though hopefully not as heartless and wrenching as some weblogs suggest.

Many couples just use words. They weave a private poetry of love. It is full of smiles, sweet and gentle.

And the love life of the couples who enhance their romantic friendship do lightly is as good – if not better – as that of those who engage in more strenuous practices.

Be happy. Never Preach. Leave the latter to the bores of femdom.

Originally posted 2007-09-21 15:39:40. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Divorce

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As we know many submissive men feel miserable because their wife or girlfriend has no desire to be dominant, not even to regulate their orgasms. Some have bought chastity devices only to find the woman they live with look on them with horror.

When does the frustration become so bad that divorce is the sane option?

Not a simple question. Even if they feel hurt from a lack of fulfillment they may still deeply love her. Or they may have children. Or be economically interdependent: health insurance, retirement plans and the like.

Some men have admitting to planning to divorce their wives after the children are raised. A truly joyless prospect to live with someone but plan to leave them in a few or several years.

How many submissive men have finally chosen divorce because life with a vanilla spouse seems intolerable.

Originally posted 2007-11-12 12:02:35. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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