Public Misbehavior
It is counter-productive to punish without cause. It doesn’t have to be an *important cause* if all you are doing is looking for a reason to play. Sensual sadomasochism isn’t really punishment, so wanting to do it is reason enough.
If you have a just and real reason for punishment, then a little instant karma can be just what’s needed. One of the most evil things an incorrigible SAM boy can do is to push your buttons in a vanilla or public environment where he knows damn well you can’t retaliate immediately. His goal is to make you angry and keep you upset for hours, in the sick hope that you will really let him have it when you get home.
This is a serious matter, and the best thing to do about it may be to *get a headache*, and demand to go home at once. If your tormentor disagrees, then just leave: take the car and leave him to catch a bus or taxi. I know this sounds extreme but with hard cases it’s often the only solution. Your swift negative reaction is an unequivocal message which he can’t ignore. It also limits how much damage he is allowed to do to your sanity.
If it’s not that bad, or if you don’t want to miss the fun you planned just to make a point, then ask your SAM out to the car and play the little “nutcracker game” for a few minutes. It’s often possible to do this discreetly in a parked automobile. This puts you right back in the driver’s seat.
Later, when convenient, you properly punish the person in private for his misdeed.
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