Female Led Relationships: Femdom Lifestyle
Varieties of Male Submissive Needs & Desires
- 1. physical (most submissives, masochists, etc.)
- 2. emotional
- 3. intellectual
- 4. spiritual (least submissives, masochists, etc.)
I have seen various writings on the levels of servitude and have written about them in various articles (Techniques of Servitude). However, I have found that just about everything in life can be divided into the four categories above.
They are not exclusive, a person can be operating from one to all four of them. The concern in training submissives in a lifestyle capacity is where the majority of focus lays.
The submissive who is operating mainly or solely from the physical level is foremost interested in fulfilling his own needs primarily. Submission begins and ends with sexual arousal leading to orgasm. This is one reason orgasm training/ denial/deprivation is used in training.
The physical level of submissive is not a good candidate for continuous service unless some aspects from the other three levels balance out the physical attractions.
The emotional level of masochist is trying to fulfill emotional/love needs. They serve from a base of love for the Mistress. Often this may be unrequited love as the Mistress may have someone else as Her significant other. It is extremely difficult for the emotional submissive to live with the fact that they may not be lovers. However, the wise Mistress can elicit better performance from a submissive operating solely on this level, rather than the physical.
The intellectual submissive may or may not be physically involved with the lifestyle of serving a Mistress. He usually likes to know why he is this way, reason it all out. This submissive is likely to be a good servant because they have thought it all out, come to grips with it and serve from a base of knowledge. Combined with the emotional aspects, the physical attraction to serving womyn, he can be successful.
The spiritual submissve serves with the goal of betterment of womyn, not as much his own needs or an individual womyn, but all womyn. He is often found working in Female Supremacist organizations as a servant and all-around worker. He may or may not be Goddess oriented in his personal beliefs, but is open-minded enough to accept that in the Mistress.
Ideally, the preferred servant is well rounded on all levels of submission and able to function in a wide variety of situations to benefit the Mistress and womynkind.
Four Variations of Male Submissive Orientation,
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