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BDSM Sans Eroticism

I posted this elsewhere about five years ago. I still think that kink and fetish whether F/m, M/f, F/f, M/m has an erotic root.

Sexuality embraces far more than coitus or orgasms. I find expressing submissiveness, being whipped completely satisfying experiences in themselves. But my power exchange and S&M orientation stems from my erotic nature. It is an inextricable component.

Some submissive men (the person quoted below not included) try to make their submissiveness nonsexual as a way of making it morally pure. False sexual purity belongs in the graveyard of hypocrisy.

From an ongoing discussion of D/s on usenet:

Me:

I can’t imagine asexual D/s. Or at least BDSM that is wholly divorced from eroticism.

Brian:

As someone who is also asexual, I thought I’d offer my perspective on this too.

Firstly the BDSM. For me at least, as a bottom/submissive/switch, the key element is sensation play. Whilst I do enjoy various elements of eroticism within that, it’s certainly not the main reason why I enjoy BDSM.

The caress of a flogger, the sting of a single-tail, the depth of inner peace from a well executed scene that has both the mind and body tingling with pleasure. These are the things that I enjoy the most. On occasions where sexual stimulation has been part of the scene, I found that it often conflicted with any sensation of well-being, to the extent of breaking down sub-space, rather than enhancing it. For me, it has to be either sensation play or sexual play, but not necessarily both together.

I’m not sexually attracted to any particular gender, will happily play with anyone, whatever their gender, and I can watch or participate in many scenes without the least sign of arousal.

Indeed, when I was first collared by a Mistress, I was permitted the privilege of shaving her genital area, which had absolutely no erotic effect on me. Later in that same relationship I was involved in some very intensely sexual scenes, but purely from an observational aspect, with the ‘threat’ that I’d be punished if I were to become aroused during those scenes. Little did she realise at the time, that it wasn’t the perceived ‘threat’ that kept me from any state of arousal. Yes, it was interesting and indeed fascinating to watch, but on the arousal scale it did nothing for me at all.

Asexual D/s is much the same. In the three D/s partnerships I’ve had, sex has never been part of, or even the objective of the relationship. It’s been the pleasure of giving part of myself for the pleasure of the Mistress I was serving, with rewards for good behaviour etc. Usually those rewards consisted of sensation play or mind games, either in a club environment or occasionally in private scenes. On occasions where punishment was deemed necessary, those rewards would be withheld. The fact that sex wasn’t on the menu, never once spoiled my enjoyment of either her company or the scenes we did.

At a private club event a couple of years ago, after a fairly intense scene I arrived at the buffet table to get some well earned food for my play partner & myself. Standing next to me was a naked young lady, also getting some food. That moment just seemed so surreal – here I was, in a situation that many of the male population would sell their souls for, and yet was so natural and casual, and for me at least, not at all erotic or arousing – just nice.

As an asexual, I do however, find it a fascinating situation to be in, surrounded on all sides by sex and sexual scenarios, whilst having little or no interest in that aspect myself. If anything, I feel it adds to the trust that I’ve built up over the years, that even in highly charged sexual situations, I’m safe person to have around.

Angela St. Lawrence’s comment prompted this entry elsewhere: Asexuals and Masturbation.

Originally posted 2011-08-08 07:17:17. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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He used to boast that he was a man’s man: tough and macho.

The he met her. They started dating.

She was very assertive, liked to take charge. Somehow he didn’t mind; happily relented to her will. But he was shocked when she asked him to try on a pair of her panties.

In his anger her cursed her, told her that they were through and left her apartment slamming the door.

Away from her he felt lonely, lost. He couldn’t sleep his heart tearing apart from lack of her nearness. Within a few days he sent her flowers, candy and a card promising he would do whatever she wished.

He tried on her panties. When she suggested that he wearing them under his pants to work he complied.

Panties leg to stockings, then high heels, finally cosmetics and even a wig.

The more he consented to her wishes the more he fell within her power. He didn’t suspect that his girlfriend was becoming his Mistress.

The time came when she started spanking him. A rude remark, arriving late for an appointment, faulty hygiene. Any failure found him over her lap his butt growing red from her discipline. The more she spanked him the more he loved and worshiped her.

She is in charge of everything now. He never argues. She still spanks him. He’s one of those men who needs regular discipline.

He dresses like a girl when at home. He’s become his Mistress’s submissive sissy. As he slave he has found his proper place in life and is happy.

See more female-led artwork by Eric Stanton.

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Some of you are ardent supporters of female superiority. Think men inferior, perhaps inherently wicked.

Should males be deprived of the right to vote, lose their franchise?

Only Women Should Be Allowed to Vote
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Female-Led Disciplinary Ritual

This Mistress Wife is a firm believer in corner time for submissive males,

For his daily maintenance spankings her sub husband stands in a corner for 30 minutes before she spanks him. And another 30 minutes after the spanking.

Mistress says this procedure insures that the sub male isn’t able to take his daily discipline casually.

When she spanks him for misdeeds his time in the corner is raised to a full hour before and after his punishment spanking.

Drawing of submale standing in the corner by Westfield.

Does your Mistress use corner time to discipline you?

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It is a submissive man’s role to perform all household chores, cleaning, ironing, scrubbing, polishing and – most often depicted – washing the dishes.

Disciplinary wife expects mindfulness from her sub husband.

Westfield drawing of a Mistress Wife to keep him naked, in heels and doing his household chores.

Another Mistress Wife and her sub hubby household slave.

Eric Stanton wife uses her belt to insure her husband does his chores properly.

If a woman isn’t satisfied with her husband’s performance a yank on his ear will grab his attention.

Mistress Girlfriend gets her boyfriend on the right path. See more implied female domination.

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Do you wash the dishes for your Mistress? Are you her household slave or houseboy?

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Kinky Mistresses
Dominant kinky women willing to be perverted to forbidden sex fantasies!

For many men female domination is the splendid stuff of fantasies. A man wanks to dreams of powerful and cruel women who hurt and humiliates him. Orgasm achieved the images go back into a mental toybox to be retrieved the next time he plays with himself.

Other men seek an actual and tangible submission to dominant women. Many aspirant male submissives confuse their wishes with a dominant woman’s desires.

There is no submission in expecting a dominant woman to conform to a checklist. She is the one who takes control, who decides.

Even smart and empathetic but inexperienced submissive men don’t necessarily anticipate what an individual female top will want. How much less do a man drunk on his nocturnal whims.

If you are looking you must empty your minds, become mindful and attentive. It is the necessary first step to meeting a Mistress.

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Evenings With a Young Bitch Goddess

Her personal ad was terse and titillating:

Bitch Goddess seeks part-time male slave and pain toy.

After much patience she found a male that fit her criteria. Good-looking and well built, very submissive and a pain slut.

Their relationship – the word seems almost too fancy – was very simple

Each day after work he went to her apartment, stripped of his clothing and prepared her supper. Then he waited at her door naked and kneeling with his head bowed.

Then, like a waiter, he served his young Mistress her meal.

Rarely was a word said. Only three statements were permitted to the servile youth:

Yes, Mistress

No, Mistress

Thank You, Mistress

Relaxing after her meal the slave was allowed to kneel at her feet in a ritual posture of submission.

If he had been allowed to look at her face he would see her lips curve into an anticipatory smile. For a time she held her need in check. Then the impulse out of her control …

She would grab his hair and slap him in the face or kick the clear lucite prison that confined his penis. The second part of the evening had begun.

It was always the same. He had a heavy leather strap. She whipped her slavew as with force and speed. Delighting in the red streaks forming across his skin. Happy in the whimpers he strove to suppress, the moisture around his eyes. She beat him until she until her muscles ached.

Lastly she pulled his head between her legs and allowed him to service her with his tongue. Some nights a tardy tear would alide across her thigh.

When is Mistress was satiated the part-time slave left without a word. To her mind he had ceased to exist.

And so it was five nights a week, every week.

On the weekend? Another story.

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Part-Time Slave of a Bitch Goddess
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Woman Led Male Orgasm Denial

One of the happiest uses dominant women find for enforced male chastity is the increase in quantity and quality of their orgasm once male sexual self-expression is curbed or proscribed.

Sexual denial leaves a man restless and needing a fresh outlet for his unspent energies. Mistresses and teach their submissive males that more talented and enduring performances of cunnilingus and analingus are necessary precedents to any possible future male ejaculation.

Novice keyholders may feel that total and permanent orgasm denial is the best means of insuring the submale’s enhanced sexual performance. More experienced believe that periodic release will maintain the male’s zest for oral servitude. A quarterly or semiannual orgasms are common schedules. Each Mistress what keeps her sex slave working hard for her pleasure.

Male chastity drawing by Jan Thor.

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This Mistress believes that allowing a submissive male to stand in a woman’s presence diminishes his sense of his inferior status. So her sub male spends most of his days on his hands and knees, his testicles locked in a wooden humbler.

Her slave Is unlocked for one special bathroom trip (other times he uses his basement litter box). And to perform cleaning and cooking chores as his Mistress’ servant.

Mistress has taken great care to insure that her male slave’s humbler is snug. As he crawls across the floor his motions are accompanied by tugs on his locked testicles. Each of a reminder of his life as woman’s pet, slave and servant.

(Regrettably I do not know the name of the artist or its source.)

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Submissive Male Feminization Training

Many dominant woman don’t enjoy the bother and fuss of teaching submissive men the basics of becoming a sissy servant. Hence the Girls School for Boys.

As soon as the novice submissive sissy arrives at the institution male clothing is stripped off and burnt. Each sissy boy is given a maid’s outfit to put on. All of the clothing is identical and uniform: no sissy male is allowed individuality.

The sissy male students are taught:

Sewing
Use of cosmetics
Haute Cuisine
Waitress skills

The sissy cooks eat only food that they themselves have prepared. This is considered a real stimulus to accomplishment in the kitchen.

Much of the sissy male student’s time is spent learning feminine deportment and behavior. This include knowing when to curtsy, keep her head bowed and respectful protocols for addressing the slave’s Mistress or Owner.

For two hours every night the sissy slaves kneel while women teach them women’s history and the politics, sociology and philosophy of female superiority. This grounds the sissy males in their perpetual status as inferiors of women.

To enhances their skills as household servants the sissies clean the entire school every day: mopping, sweeping, polishing. Their busy schedule leaves them only six hours a night for sleep. There is no leisure or playtime for sub sissies.

Each sissy graduates the school ready to begin its lifetime as the humble feminized servant of women.

Eric Stanton cover art.

Would you like to attend the Girls School for Boys?

See more sissyfication, feminization art.

Sissymale Servant Training
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Amity Harris has been a well-known treasure within the D/s community for years. Her explanation of female dominance remains a classic. An excerpt:

A FemDom relationship is intensely intimate. Inside this relationship, both the woman and submissive find caring, intense emotional exchange and validation of each other. I’ve said many times that a submissive man on his knees is one of the most beautiful and powerful mental images for me to behold. Even though a woman may demand that which satisfies her, a simple caress of her partner’s hair or cheek speaks volumes about the intense intimacy of this type of relationship.

When your partner is on his knees, even if only in his daydreams, he is begging silently for a woman’s strong hand to guide and lead him and the thought of that woman’s touch is arousing to him. However, he doesn’t want just any woman’s touch; he wants yours. Expressing the secrets in his soul is something painfully difficult to do without the assurance that the woman on the other side of the relationship will accept it and value it as a treasured gift.

Women learning about female domination must remember that your partner will be sharing his innermost secrets and longings with you. It’s up to you to value and cherish the trust he is placing in your hands.

What Does Female Domination Mean?

Originally posted 2010-12-28 20:23:03. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Learning to Disicipline Her Husband

There is a place where woman’s mastery of the male is unquestioned.

When a young woman has selected the male who will spend his life as an obedient and submissive slave husband she approaches an older woman. A mature dominant woman wise and experienced in the control and discipline of submales.

Often she is the young woman’s own mother or future step-mother. More affluent brides hire a professional consultant.

The professional Disciplinary Mistress teaches the young Mistress to be the nuances of F/m corporal punishment. Control of intensity and quality of punishment spankings.

With the consultant’s advice the young woman selects the male’s first chastity belt. Selects dresses, cosmetics and wigs for the sissificatiion of the groom. And if she is a sadist those special toys for evenings entertaining herself tormenting the helpless slave husband.

More Jay Em woman-led spanking art.

Young Woman Learns How to Spank a Man
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I read a self-professed ‘malesub’ stating that he would train his sons to be submissive to women. He would try to force the orientation on them, not enable them to seek fulfillment.

The idea of a father teaching his boys to want to be a woman’s slave is quite disgusting. Should someone really try one can only hope the children are taken away from him.

This is a good example of the kind of damnable consequences belief in female superiority can lead too.

Originally posted 2008-11-18 06:46:28. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Train Male Children to Be Submissive
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Female Led Chaste Human Male Pet

He has been his Mistress’s human pet slave for several years now. His him life is a almost shapeless infinity as the property of a strict but affectionate Woman Owner.

He crawls after her kneeling or lying at her feet when she sits. Usually she doesn’t mind if he licks and kisses her shoes and boots. Occasionally she kicks him away and her curls up on the floor next to the objects of his devoted ministrations.

Since being allowed to wear his Mistresses collars the pet has never been permitted to say a single word. He whimpers playfully to beg a treat hoping she will give him a tiny cookie or cracker. When – mirable dictu – she allows him up on the couch to rest his head in her lap his soft sighing is almost a purr.

Nowadays he barely verbalizes even to himself. He mind if filled exclusively with the image of his Mistress Owner.

Happiness when she is near. A pang of loneliness when locked in his cage when Mistress leaves the house to go work or run errands. The pet doesn’t mind the cage. The cage is his home. When his Mistress is absent his life is empty, blank. When she pets him or scratches him behind the ear the surge of pleasure almost shuts off his brain.

His Mistress wants to keep her humble pet in good working order so his gloves come off once a week so he can exercise his fingers. By happy coincidence he can do this by cleaning her house.

Aside from household chores her slave pet is allowed to rise from his hands and knees to use the bidet.

As a pet slave he has been totally chaste. He has never been allowed an orgasm. Nor will he ever in the future have one.

Once a week his Mistress Owner takes off his chastity belt. Then she milks him. His life is so empty of events that licking up his ejaculate afterward has become a treat.

As is the spanking that follows. He’s not ever sure why he is being punished. He’s grateful that his Owner is giving him attention.

Her human pet slave: perpetually humble, loving and worshiping.

I don’t know the name of the artist of this human pet drawing.

Woman’s Human Male Pet Slave
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Female-Led Disciplinary Punishment Notification

Feel that you aren’t getting the frequency and intensity of the punishment you deserve?

Have you been disrespectful, rude, disobedience, lazy, irresponsible, smug?

Should you be spanked, paddled, whipped, feminized?

Want to aid your Mistress – girlfriend, partner, lover, wife – in giving you the discipline that you deserve?

Click on the thumbnail below and print he full-sized disciplinary notification below.

Now present it to your superior so that you know that you understand that you should be punished and welcome her authority over you.

And do let me know how this works out.

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Animated GIF of a woman spanking a man.

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Lifetime Orgasm Denial

In this Matriarchal Female Supremacist state male sexuality passes through two distinct phases.

I

For many years after he is born a male is a member of the Country of the Youth. They are naturally inculcated in the state religion of Woman Worship and instructed in their status as women’s inferiors, mere creatures.

The young men are allowed to spend some time under their own control, enjoying themselves as they wish. When their sexual capacity and desires develop there is no restriction on their sexual fulfillment. Males are allowed to masturbate as often as they wish. (And it is very, very often.)

II

When the male approaches the age when he will be auctioned off and become the owned property of a woman he is moved to the Country of Preparation. A time of stunned shock. While the males grow up knowing their future as slaves their hearts are never really ready for their transition.

The slaves-to-be are assigned small cells. They are allowed no entertainment. No socializing. Much of their time the men are locked in bondage chairs and watch training and condition films.

This is when each male gets his first chastity belt: his penis’ permanent prison.

In the first phase males are allowed leisure and sexual pleasure so that will keenly appreciate what they lose on becoming the property of a superior female.

Once a man’s penis is locked up it is forever. Total male chastity has begun. He will no longer be allowed to masturbate. Never again will he experience the pleasure of an orgasm.

More F/m art by Xrenderer.

Masturbation is Forbidden Forever
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Light sissification can be used to curb a young male’s slovenly ways.

To cure boys of the habit of not keeping shirttails tucked in, sew an edging of lace around the bottom of the lad’s shirt. There’ll be nor more shirttails showing.

How to Make a Male Dress Neatly
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Panty Boy’s Shame & Humiliation

The young man’s life changed forever on this day. He’d long had a covert passion for fondling, sniffing even wearing women’s lingerie. His conventional shame kept this pastime he most deeply buried secret.

His redheaded girlfriend was shocked. While she found him handsome he’d always seemed a pedestrian, almost boring male. Her nude girlfriend merely had ancient suspicions conformed.

After the girls’ phone camera created documentary proof of his panty fetish it was time to talk to the abashed man.

Preservation of his privacy had a cost. Submission. He would obey both women’s commands. Wait on them continually. Run errands for them. Provide them with a life of lazy ease.

And he would forever more wear only their used panties under his pants. And the skirts they would force him to wear when they were home alone.

Needless to say his former girlfriend never had sex with him again. And ruled that no other woman would as well. What female would want to humiliate herself with such a wimp.

The two women became lovers. His sex life was jealous observation of their affectionate lovemaking.

Illustration © Alazar

Caught Wearing Women’s Panties
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