Corporal Punishment Techniques
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One of the factors that sets spanking apart from other forms of punishment is the deliberate and sometimes ceremonial positioning of the participants. While some spankings are haphazard, I prefer spankings that include the ritual of positioning.
Both the spankee and spanker adopt positions that facilitate and enhance the spanking. These positions generally work to the advantage of the spanker and the disadvantage of the spankee.
The spanker enjoys the following advantages from his or her position
Comfort
Whether standing or sitting, the spanker is positioned to be comfortable throughout the spanking. He or she is able to swing his or her arm at a natural angle and able to sustain a lengthy spanking with ease because of his or her position.
Strength
Because he or she is able to wind up and freely swing his or her arm at a natural angle, the spanker is able to apply swats to the intended target with force. While standing, the spanker can not only swing his or her arm but rotate his or her body to deliver maximum energy to an anxiously awaiting, clenching derriere.
Full access to the bottom to be spanked
The spankee’s position is designed to fully expose his bottom and the spanker’s relative position is designed to put that bottom at a convenient angle and height. Therefore, the spanker is able completely view, tweak, spank, paddle and strap it.
Safety
Because the spanker is in the position to easily spank the rear-end at the correct angle, it is much less likely that a blow will fall too high or too low.
Control
The spanker’s position gives him or her the “upper hand” and allows him or her to easily control the spankee. He or she sits or stands higher than the spankee and is easily able to restrain and situate the spankee.
The spankee realizes the following effects from his position
Relative comfort
Except for the notable exception of his backside, I think it’s important that the spankee be relatively comfortable so he can focus on the sensations being inflicted upon his posterior.
Anticipation
Bending over and getting into position to get your bottom blistered signals the beginning of the spanking and builds anticipation.
Increased sensation
A properly positioned bottom will tend to be spanked harder and more completely on the sensitive “sit spot”.
Humiliation
Being put over the knee is a childish, humiliating posture. Having to “assume the position” is humiliating in its submission and rubs in the fact that he is being spanked.
Exposure
A properly positioned bottom is fully exposed. The cheeks are fully presented and split, their undersides turned up.
Emphasis on his bottom
Spanking positions place the center of attention on the bottom of the person being spanked, a fact not lost on said person. The bottom is emphasized by its exposure and in an upturned position relative to the spanker.
Presentation of his bottom
Not only is the bottom exposed and emphasized but the spankee feels he is willingly “sticking it out” and presenting it for punishment in the same way as the condemned man who must place his head on the chopping block. The spankee knows his bottom cannot evade or escape the swats.
Submission
Cooperatively getting into position to be spanked is the primary act of submission in spanking.
Safety
Although it may be of little solace, the spankee can take comfort in the fact that his position affords safety from injury. Of course, this can be disconcerting if he knows he will be spanked with even more abandon.
Loss of control
Once positioned, the spankee has relinquished control and may not easily regain it until the spanking is done. He may have difficulty removing his rear from the line of fire if he tries.
Inability to clench
When standing, one can clench his cheeks together, mitigating the sting of a swat and the exposure. When properly positioned, it is more difficult to clench cheeks and the spanking will be applied to a relaxed, bouncing bottom.
Excellent visual presentation
Speaking from the point of view of an admitted bottom fancier, there a few times that someone looks more adorable and beautiful than when he is positioned to be spanked. Not only is his bottom emphasized, but it is formed to a flattering shape and sexily perked out. Spanking positions would be sexy even to people not into spanking.
Various positions
Following are descriptions of various positions that I find erotic, their distinguishing characteristics, tactics that can be used to enhance them, and precautions to take. All descriptions assume a right-handed spanker.
Over the lap
Spanker is sitting with good posture in an armless chair, knees together. Person being spanked must lay face-down across the spanker’s lap, his head to the left and feet to the right. He must be over the lap far enough so his bottom is conveniently located directly over the spanker’s right thigh.
In order to preserve modesty, the person being spanked may be tempted to lie flat with his head up and legs straight out behind; however, if he were concerned for his modesty, he shouldn’t have gotten himself spanked in the first place. The spankee’s head and shoulders should be angled down and his knees tucked down out of the way so that his bottom is well turned up. A palm pressed against the back of his head and swats to the thighs are helpful in positioning the spankee.
Knees should be at least six inches apart and the lower back should be “arched” or dipped to further turn up his rear. Depending on size, toes will either be resting against the floor or hoisted off a few inches. The full weight of the spankee should be resting on the lap.
Hands can either be on the floor or grasping the legs of the chair. If the right hand flies back during spanking, it should be pinned to the lower back by the spanker’s left hand.
Prior to starting to spank or paddle, the spanker should firmly grasp the spankee’s waist above the right hip with the left hand to prevent squirming off the lap. Then the left elbow should be planted between the shoulder blades to keep the head and shoulders from bobbing up.
The spanker should raise his or her right knee slightly, turning up the bottom further. In the case of a woman spanking a boy, she should make sure his penis is pressed firmly against her right thigh and aimed to the left.
By turning his or her upper body to the right, the spanker can get a fuller swing and more comfortably apply a stronger swat.
By combining all of these tactics—the raised knee, the elbow in the back, the hand in the small of the back—the spanker can effectively pin the spankee down and spank the daylights out of him.
Over the knee
Similar to over-the-lap except the spankee is bent over the left knee with his legs restrained by the spanker’s right leg.
Hands on ankles
This is the classic school-style paddling position. The student must stand well clear of obstacles with feet shoulder width apart. Leaving knees straight and back straight, the student must bend over and grasp his ankles with both hands. The spanker may want to observe the student’s hands throughout the paddling to ensure he does not leave the ankles and earn extra swats.
The spanker stands facing the left side of the student. He or she should stand far enough away so the paddle barely overlaps past the right cheek. He or she should adjust fore and aft to ensure that both cheeks are struck at the same time (assuming a paddle is being used. Straps warrant slightly forward positioning).
It is not possible to more fully expose and present a rear end than when in this position. When one is told to bend over and grab his ankles, he is, in effect, being told, “we intend to thoroughly paddle your bottom. So not only will you present your rear-end, but you will stretch and endeavor to stick it up and out as far as you absolutely positively can. And throughout the paddling, you will continue to strain to stick it out for the paddle.”
Since the angle between the legs and the upper body is well under 90 degrees, this position spreads the cheeks and exposes the rectum and genitals more than any other position.
This is a great fantasy position but I think it only works safely in reality for spankees with flexible bodies (especially when a thick paddle is used). Inflexible people can’t reach their ankles without bending their knees. Men run the risk of getting their testicles whacked. Non-fleshy butts get pulled tightly across the pelvic bones and don’t provide enough padding when a heavy paddle is used.
Hands on knees
A safer, more workable position than hands-on ankles. The bottom is presented in a plumper, more paddle-friendly shape but visually, the position is still very school-like. Depending on the person, I think this position can be more visually appealing because the back can be arched a bit which perks up the bottom. In fact, the further up the legs the hands are placed, the more the spankee can arch his back and stick out his rump.
Again, feet should be shoulder width apart and hand position enforced. Because the back can be arched and bottom upturned, it should be required, both prior and during the paddling. A technique which tends to arch the back correctly is to require the student to look forward at a spot high on the wall. That way, he is required to pull his head up and arch his back.
Over the desk on tiptoes
Another school-like position. The student must bend over a desk with nose or chest pressed to the desk. Hands and arms should be placed on the desk over his head to further arch the back. To further elevate his bottom to be spanked, he must raise up on to his toes. Penalty swats can be awarded for every incidence of a heal touching the floor (hint: watch after the “last” swat before the student is told he may relax).
Over a barstool or horse
This is probably the best position for paddling because the bottom is presented in a plump and relaxed manner. The person to be punished must lay his full weight across the stool, his feet hanging and hands grasping the legs of the stool at a level such that there is a little support for his upper body. This is a relaxed, comfortable position which works well for lengthy spankings.
Lying on bed
Another comfortable position for lengthy spankings and ensuing diversions. The spankee must lie face-down on a bed. His face should be pressed to the mattress while his hips and bottom are elevated on pillows. Since pillows are compressible, it may take three or four to achieve the proper elevation.
Kneeling in chair
One of my favorite positions for spankees with great butts because, properly executed, it presents the rear in its most flattering light. The trick is in the execution.
The spankee must kneel in the seat of a padded chair (save those knees) facing the back with the thighs vertical and upper body forward over the back. Again, the spankee should be required to arch his back well.
Two things conspire to shape his bottom cutely. First, the back of the chair prevents him from bending so far as to preclude a good back arch. Second, just as high heels shape calves fully by angling the foot to shorten and bulge the calf muscle, kneeling with the calves at right angles to the thighs seems to allow the buttocks to bulge fully.
The following tactics can be used to enhance and focus on positioning
Adjustment & readjustment
I think it’s important to deliberately position and adjust the spankee prior to the first swat. This helps emphasize his submission and humiliation. Emphasis should be placed on positioning and presenting the bottom fully. Throughout the spanking, the spankee should be readjusted as his position begins to fail.
Verbal instruction
I think it’s best to require the spankee to willfully maintain his own position with out the physical
assistance of the spanker especially in the case of stand-up paddlings. Therefore, verbal communication is necessary throughout the spanking to encourage the spankee to continue to assume the correct position.
Pickiness
One of the disciplinary aspects of spanking is that no matter how perfect the spankee is positioned, he can always improve, stick his bottom out a little further, etc. The spanker should not feel guilty that his or her exacting demands regarding position are perhaps a little too picky and unrealistic.
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(Found on a very old abandoned blog.)
Originally posted 2013-03-02 05:53:50.
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