By Corey

First I’ll describe the type of scenario I’m suggesting. Although it’s technically unnecessary, I think you’d be hard pressed to find a man who would cooperate through 2+ hours of orgasm control, and besides that takes away half the fun =). Personally I think of very tight bondage involved with this scenario, down to restraint of the hips and fingers and head.

I’ve had past vanilla experiences where I was somewhat forced to enjoy the talents of a woman’s oral ministrations, being kept on the edge of orgasm for probably 25-30 minutes. She knew my sexual tells well and stopped me on the brink of orgasm about 4 or 5 times before I eventually snuck an orgasm in. She was displeased that her fun had ended prematurely, but as our relationship was vanilla nothing came of it, except for my many tokens of appreciation =).

We had further experiences, but this one I must clearly recall. My point is that she would have had much more control had I been restrained, and despite the vanilla relationship she had no intentions of relenting until she was satisfied with my excitement and frustration (there were occasions she had me screaming, begging, and literally crying for release.)

In essence I’m saying that being tightly bound and stimulated for an extended amount of time can be quite torturous as I recall some of the few brief moments of my life where I wished my cock could just be left alone and allowed to settle down.

I think the deliciously horrible part of it is the urgent feeling that builds up. I liked the control I lost and that was gained over me. At that urgent point I’ve always felt the desire to be forced to say or do “things”. I’ve speculated some on what these “things” would be, but I’ve preferred to leave them to the inventive imagination of my dominator. Rest assured they’d be things under other circumstances I’d forcefully resist.

Fortunately for me I’ve always eventually been allowed release, and better yet at my tormentors hand. Forced chastity has been an area of interest of mine as well, but as I’m young and have the sex drive to follow, 2 days is a long time without orgasm for me. I think it’s literally impossible for me to wait a week for orgasm willingly. I think I’d be crying in frustration by 5 days. So naturally I’ve always wanted to try it =).

I’ve also fantasized about involving another tormentor and/or an audience to this scenario. I’d like to experience being taken from the heights of pleasure to the depths of agony and both at the same time. I wouldn’t know whether I was coming (no pun intended) or going. And then the audience.

I’ve always wanted to be exposed so to speak under such circumstances, although otherwise I’m hardly an exhibitionist. Adding an audience feels like a narrow interest in which I’d be greatly interested in hearing from anyone from either sex who shares it with me. The more aware that the audience is there the better, although I’m curious as to whether I’d enjoy being blind folded more or not.

So back to my original question, can teasing be torture? My personal opinion is it can be. But I suspect many would feel, since it does involve pleasure, that it’s invalid in way. It seems many dominant women abhor and condemn anything that is sexually pleasurable to men.

I feel that although a D/s relationship may involve pain andor discomfort and control in general, that a relationship that involves a balance of pleasure and pain is entirely possible and satisfying for both partners. For me it comes down more to an issue of control. I prefer to relinquish the control of my pleasure and pain to suit the needs and amusements of my dominating partner.

I guess that comes down to the real motivation behind writing this post. I feel that an unfortunate majority of dominant women are merely interested in abusing submissive men without any interest in their sexual or mental well being. And thus they would have little interest in activities involving male sexual pleasure.

Does anyone else get this same feeling?

Also does anyone have any ideas on how I could setup being teased and tortured in front of an audience? It’s a fantasy that I strongly want fulfilled, but I can’t think of any realistic way of going about it. I’m 20 and still a year away from even socializing in the local BDSM groups here in SD. I’m not sure how to safely go about it.

Well thanks for reading through the post and if anyone has any of their own opinions on male (or female) orgasm control I’d be interested to hear your thoughts. Also when it comes to forced orgasm deprivation (I.E. via chastity vice and usually involving daily stimulation) I’d be interested in others thoughts there as well.

Originally posted 2013-03-30 08:12:44.

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Lifetime Male Orgasm Control: My Ideal

By Mistress Christiana

At puberty I believe males should be issued with their first chastity belt. This would prevent masturbation and allow ejaculation according to a schedule designed to maintain their sexual health. This would occur at most once a week and at least once per month at their guardians, mothers discretion. This would immediately impose a great amount of discipline. In cases of disobedience the boy would simply be denied his weekly ejaculation.

The ejaculation would be facilitated through a special procedure. The boy would be handcuffed. He should stand in front of a high table and on this there should be a book, preferably with a religious text he should read out loud. This is to prevent lewd thoughts. He should wear a condom and a masturbation machine should be used to stimulate him. he should wear the machine for at most 2 minutes. If he does not ejaculate by then he may try again next week. Think of the help this would be in bringing up an unruly teenage boy!

At his 18th birthday he will be allowed to date and see girls. The key to his belt will though remain in possession of his mother, legal guardian. The girls he dates are free to use him any way they choose, except that intercourse is of course impossible. This affords and excellent opportunity for women to evaluate a future husbands performance. She would make him massage her, perform cunnilingus, do housework and serve her in any way she sees fit.

This would be a great benefit to teenage girls and unmarried women. They could pick and choose men who would be happy to serve them and have no possibility of sex, unless of course they married. The prevention of date rape and pressure by men on unwilling females would be a revolutionary change. Young men and women could sleep and even live together for periods of time and the woman would never have to worry about arousing him too much or being nude around him. Men seem to think if they are alone with a naked female it gives them some kind of license for sex. This is far from the truth and a chastity belt would drive this point home. Should she decide he is husband material she will ask his mother for his hand in marriage. This is of course entirely up to them. The boy/man will be informed the day before his marriage.

After marriage, sex will be under the wife’s control. She will recieve the key to his belt at the altar. She might prefer her husband remains a virgin his entire life! She could have children by using artificial insemination. She would control the chastity belt key and allow ejaculations as she sees fit. Think of the implications! Males would be obedient creatures bent on pleasing the female in any way. A man deficient in any way would simply be denied ejaculation until he improved.

Men Should Wear Chastity Devices All Their Lives
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Peace Through Female Strength

Beginning with the first villages this planet’s society has always been female supremacist.

Women aren’t merely smarter and wiser. Not just more empathetic and humane. Women possess greater physical strength. Males are comparatively puny.

Women have always ruled and men have forever served. The highest status a male can possess is as a favored member of a rich and powerful woman’s seraglio.

Males are not consciously thought of as servants or slaves. Men have always served superior female authority. Alternative social arrangements are never imagined.

Even with the permanent example of womanly character men are often weak-minded, vacillating. There are lazy males. Even – they are very rare – men who have spoken impertinently to a woman.

Angry shock results in a scene like above. Furious the offended woman grabs the man. Then she bends his limbs, punches him, throws him to the ground and kicks him. No man has offended twice.

So the Amazonian civilization continues with little conflict and much harmony.

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On the Planet of Female Sadists women are constantly find some fresh and enjoyable way to torment their helpless slave men.

To this purpose two women have cultivate insects seeking special properties. When the insects walk across a man’s skin they leave a mild irritant in their weak. The bound male so desperately wants to scratch. Movement and noise can cause the creatures to sting. Their venom is very painful but never fatal to a human. And they can sting repeatedly.

Just the perfect thing for the male slave you’ve locked in uncomfortable and precarious bondage.

An entertainment that can be sustained for hours, and renewed daily to the ever increasing misery of the slave.

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Enforced Male Orgasm Denial Regulations

1. The Mistress Owner will have complete ownership and control of the penis.
2. The Mistress Owner will decide if and when the penis will be allowed to ejaculate. She may deny giving permission for any period at her sole discretion.
3. The Mistress Owner may hint at or even promise relief, but in most all cases change her mind later and refuse.
4. The Mistress Owner will decide the method used to cause the penis to ejaculate. She may, for example, have the Submale masturbate in her presence, or She may choose Her preferred method applied by Her or Her designee.
5. The Submale is not permitted to ask for any sexual favors, such as rubbing of the penis, insertion into any animate or inanimate objects (except as described below), licking or sucking unless directed or initiated by the Mistress Owner. 10
6. The Submale is not permitted to touch the penis without permission, except to shave his penis and balls under the Mistress Owner’s supervision. The Submale must keep his genitals free of hair at all times.
7. The Submale will wear a chastity belt when ordered by Mistress Owner. Wearing the chastity belt symbolizes the Mistress Owner’s absolute domination and control of the penis.
8. Submale is responsible for daily cleaning of device.
9. Submale will notify the Mistress Owner immediately of any concerns regarding function or cleanliness of device.
10. The Mistress Owner will supervise at least one removal of device in a seven-day period for cleaning and shaving.
11. Submale agrees to all terms of release as set forth by Mistress Owner, including restraints if deemed necessary.
12. Submale agrees that during release for cleaning he will shave accordingly to keep genital area free from hair.
13. Submale agrees that he will immediately re-secure device after all cleanings unless specifically ordered not to by Mistress Owner.
14. Submale will not attempt to defeat the device in any way or possess any keys.
15. Mistress Owner will make one emergency key available to Submale for use in medical emergency, doctor appointments, and any other situation in which excessive bodily harm may be present to Submale.
16. Submale agrees that in such emergency he will notify Mistress Owner immediately and that no sexual release is permitted. If self-release is attempted and/or carried out, punishment as outlined in the contract will be applied.
17. Submale agrees that once medical condition has been rectified Submale will re-secure device immediately and notify Mistress Owner of said action.
18. Submale acknowledges and agrees that Mistress Owner has certain sexual needs that may need fulfilled and such releases for Mistress Owner do not constitute a release for Submale.
19. Submale agrees to immediately and enthusiastically satisfy Mistress Owner by any and all means Mistress Owner requests for sexual and sensual gratification. 10
20. Submale agrees that sexual releases may be accompanied by being restrained as determined by Mistress Owner.
21. Submale agrees that Mistress Owner may release Submale for the means of sexual play but that no orgasm is permitted unless Mistress Owner specifically permits one.
22. Submale must always ask for permission to ejaculate. 20
23. Submale agrees to use any sexual aids such as (but not limited to) strap-ones, vibrators, dildos, and other artificial aids to satisfy Mistress Owner.
24. Your rules start here. Have any?

Mistress Owner / Submale Chastity Agreement
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“Femdom Thugs”

In the years preceding the Matriarchal Revolution the seeds of Gynarchic philosophy and politics were taking root in the minds of women.

With the angry ebullience of youth young women burned with the needs to shed the shackles of patriarchy and take control of the world taken to the brink of ruin by stupid, stupid males. Those most impatient for changes became “Femdom thugs,” member of what were labeled Gynarchic Gangs.

The Gynarchic Gangs were called terrorists. Blaming them for crimes never committed only bred real lawlessness. For sport and in revenge the angry young women abducted men from streets and even their homes.

Blinded folded or hooded the men were tormented by the “Femdom thugs.” Genital Electro-Shock was a popular entertainment. Eventually the men were released. The men suffered no permanent physical damage. Some never recovered from the shock.

Even though the Matriarchy came to be established by more pacific and traditional means the Gynarchic Gangs are remember by many as heroic revolutionaries.

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The Slave Rental Service Company is a very successful enterprise on the Planet of Female Sadists. They provide slaves who meet specialized needs. Slaves that the Mistress may not want to add to her permanent stock of slave men.

In the image a sissy abuse slave is being rented for a weekend. Abuse slaves allow a woman an outlet for pent-up aggression and frustration. There is no other word than abuse for the depth of suffering and degradation this sissy will be subjected to.

To permanent maiming or murdering of abuse slaves is permitted. Exceeding these rules results in a very stiff fine to compensate Slave Rental Service Company for the lost slave earnings.

Abuse slaves are expensive playthings only for the very rich woman. The fees include the expense of the slave’s medical and psychological recovery. No one would rent a broken slave.

Sissy Abuse Slave Rental
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This fighting Mistress is a much admired athlete. She is unrivalled in her skill of a very difficult Femdom martial art: testicle kickboxing.

More than merely kicking a man in the balls for a quick laugh. The goal is to punch and kick the man until his masochism stimulates an orgasm. Cultivating her intuition and timing she subjects him to subtly varying and paced punches. Eventually aroused by his own pain, dizzy from the repeated beating the male ejaculates.

Don’t think that the male’s ejaculation makes these kind sports. Bouts last a very long time. Manipulated by the Mistress his suffering is prolonged but modulated to keep him from collapsing until her post ejaculation knockout punch.

Bloody and bruised the slave faces a long recovery. Injuries to his testicles may require their removal.

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Wanting to avoid climate change this civilization chose to replace automobiles for short distance travel.

Slave men have become their Mistress Owners’ pony-boys: pulling them in carts when once the women would have driven cars. This has lessened this civilizations use of fossil fuels.

The exercises keep slave men fit and healthy prolonging their years of useful service.

Another example of how a society ruled by women is for the good of all.

Pony Boys: Environmentally Friendly Femdom
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Bondage & CBT

A minimum of three weeks. The is the minimum time this slave will be punished for disobedience and unpleasing behavior.

The disobedient male slave will remain locked in this punishment frame most of that time. It will periodically be removed for elimination. And for brief exercise periods. This is to preserve the slave’s usefulness. The brief release makes the return of bondage even more unpleasant.

For most of the long, long hours the slave is left alone: isolated, uncomfortable and agonizingly bored.

Periodically a trainee Punishment Mistress will use the slave for homework. This aspiring female disciplinarian will explore the effects of testicle whipping. Unlimited use of the slave is permitted. It testicles with be beaten with varying intensity for increasingly long periods of time.

The slave screams. It cannot control that. But it never dares address any of the women who handle it. To speak would automatically add a week to its time in the painful punishment stock.

Painful Punishment Stock
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Turn a Sissy Into a Source of Money

Some Mistress Owners’ like for their sissy slaves to at least pay for their own upkeep. Even better if the sissy adds surplus cash to Mistress’ bank account.

This sissy slave has been rented to a company that offers live streaming Femdom video sessions. Viewers are even able to request for the sissy to experience certain punishments and humiliations.

This sissy always seem surprised as if it has never been ordered to eat crushed food off the floor. And the pain on sissy’s face makes it seem that the audience is seeing the sissy’s first whipping.

Sissy has a cult following. Mistress Owner is thinking of giving the audience a special treat (for a special fee) of seeing her humiliate and torment her sissy. She may even start an internet reality show. Viewers can see sissy scrubbing the floors clean, eating food from bowls on the floor. To discover what it is like to be the servant of a strict and sever Mistress Owner.

Would you watch?

Sissy Slave Earns Money With Webcam
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A Femdom ponyboy’s first few weeks are the roughest. Mistress Trainers often have cause to discipline the new pony slave.

The equine trappings: artificial hooves, strapping, saddle, the bit on the mouth are strange. The human horse’s body will adapt. A year later it would feel incomplete if completely nude. Frequent employment of riding crops are needed to speed up this human to pony slave adaptation.

The human horse must learn to respond to how the reins are pulled. More training that is effectively expedited with corporal punishment. Spare the lash and ruin the pony the Mistress Trainers always say.

The most difficult phase of a human pony slave’s training is stamina and endurance. The most brutal whippings are required to teach the ponyboy that tiredness is not permitted, exhaustion is no excuse.

Because pony slaves require so many hard whippings the Mistress Trainers have mastered the art of leaving welts in patterns. When they heal the welts will form the human horse’s unique markings.

Completely docile at the end of training the pony boy is ready for the Mistress Riders who come to the ranch for relaxation. Being pulled in a cart by one or more ponyboys is a customer favorite.

When the pony slave’s vigor eventually diminishes the human animal is used to pull light carts and allowed to spend time relaxing in the pasture set aside for its kind. Very gentle people come to pet them and feed them treats.

Femdom Ponyboy Training
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The Femdomocracy has established male training centers in all part of the world.

Male slaves who are marked from birth for lives of hard labor in mines and mega-ranches are treated as beasts and kept in herds. Their lives are almost devoid of consciousness: work, eat, and sleep. Nothing else.

Slaves whose tasks bring them into regular contact with woman are groomed for a life of more comfortable service. They learn by rote and their errors are corrected with stern discipline. The lesser sex must never forget humility and obey all orders with alacrity.

When not sleeping the slaves almost constantly in the presence of Mistress Trainers. An unrequested word, gesture or movement meets with instant punishment. They are drilled in humble speech and posture.

The slaves who respond adequately to their training receive rare pets on the head. Allowed to kiss a woman’s boot. There are a few males who will not or cannot conform the life of an inferior slave. They are used to provide the most edifying terror. Each slave in the audience recognizes his easy disposability. .

When considered a polished and complete servant a slave is assigned to a temporary Mistress Owner who will test the slave before it is made the permanent property of a woman.

Male Slave Training Center
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The vernal equinox, spring solstice signals the beginning of gardening chores for slave men.

What Mistress Owner can fail to relish the sight of her slave at work in the garden and yard? There is the Domme’s pleasure in seeking a man laboring and sweating at her command. The slave will develop a handsome tan. It is even healthy for her servant.

With so much free labor available the Mistress Owner is free to plan large gardening projects.

Perhaps she will enjoy having her entire yard dug up and fresh grass planted. The slave can stand guard and insure no weeds or unwanted flora blemish the perfect purity of her lawn.

Flower gardens lend beauty to her property and delicious aromas to her home.

Fresh whole produce and lower food bills are the rewards of vegetable gardening.

The male slave will have no time for mischief or laziness.

Male Slave’s Spring Gardening Chores
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Pig slaves are the most degraded and lowly male slaves.

Pig slaves discard their humanity and dignity. The image below gives us an example.

The slave wears the mask of a pig. His human face, human identity disappears from memory. He is no longer allowed to stand. The pig slave lives on his knees and moves only by crawling.

Permanent chastity is this pig slave’s fate. Who would want to have sex with such a wretched creature? Why should something so worthless be permitted the pleasure of an orgasm.

Pig slave eat food discards and scraps. If those are scarce it eats mash from the feed store.

A pig slave lives only to be humiliated by its Mistress Owner. Disgusted by the pig slave she offers it no kindness. It worships and serves her. Often the pig slave is kept locked away and forgotten.

This is the life – for reasons only it understands – the pig slave has chosen.

Pig Slave
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On this Gynarchic planet many male slaves are kept on farms and ranches to aid in the production of food.

The slaves faces are often keep hidden behind hoods and masks. This limits bonding among the slave creatures. And diminishes any sense of individuality. Male farm slaves are most useful when they become just one of the herd.

After reaching full physical maturity the male slave is gelded. This aids in keeping the farm slaves docile and merged in the herd identity.

With these techniques and many cycles of breeding the male farm slaves are content with a simple life of servitude.

Male Slave Gelding
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What ever resides in the depths of a sissy male’s heart and soul the creature was born male. It has a penis. During the early stages of feminization should the sissy’s penis be permitted to become erect?

Sissy males in variably locked in chastity devices. They have chaste, sometimes permanently denied lives. Allowing the sissy’s cock to hangout exposed is part of the feminized males humiliation: the organ is a subject of mockery and sarcastic pity. Allowing the penis space to become large and solid gives sissy memories that will magnify his frustration once his ‘manhood’ is locked behind steel and Lucite.

The available and erect penis permits special training. If its penis swells punish the sissy. Whip the sissy’s penis. But clamps on it. Teach him that an unwanted erection brings punishment. How a Mistress Owner will smile as the sissy stops having erections: fear of punishment leaves the sissy impotent.

Their is no better lesson to teach the sissy his lowly status as the least slave of woman.

Sissymale Erections: Should They Be Permitted?
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This redheaded female sadist made her slave a promise. It was the day she brought him home from the slave market. One day her knife would slip between his legs and cut something off. Maybe his penis, maybe his testicles. Maybe even both.

He would never know when that day had arrived. His anticipation would surely fade. After he relaxed her knife would finally fulfill he words.

The slave has never forgotten. His dread has never abated. Mostly it is latent. Some nights she locks him to a bondage frame. Out comes the knife. With seeming carelessness the sharp edge caresses his skin. Occasionally his fleshed is nicked or lightly sliced.

He watches her eyes. There is no pity, no humor. Inside she’s laughing. Her slave’s trembling never fails to amuse her. She knows no blood lust. There is no real plain to maim him.

But she is a woman of whims. What may happen tomorrow or next year don’t interest her. Even if they haunt her slave. That is what he is there for.

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Public Punishment of Slave Men

In many gynocratic, female supremacist societies the objectification of men is total. They aren’t even regarded as being of the same sex as the female. Men are not seen as human. From this stems the usage and treatment of male slaves disturbing to those living in more humane civilizations.

Erring male slaves are punished with public bondage of varying sort. Often the disciplined slave is left for the abuse of strangers. The idle or casual sadist is welcome to degrade or physically hurt the slave. The only limitation if maiming the slave. This would prevent the slave from future use.

The slave anticipatory fears often have more effect than the actually humiliations imposed on the wretched creature. Slaves rarely require further public punishment.

Male Slave Caged for Public Punishment
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The Cult of the Dark Sisterhood is a mystery to all outsiders. They are the most isolated, uncommunicative religious order on this world.

They are known to buy many male slaves. Once inside the walls of the Sisterhood’s inviolable headquarters the slave men are never seen again.

Ignorance breeds infinite speculations. Some say that the sisters use the men for sex and are ashamed to admit such primitive, debased appetites. Others believe that the women prefer to practice their sadism in secrecy. They think that the slaves are subjecting to slow, horrifying torments. That the suffer years of extreme agony finally expiring. The most singular opinion is that the women are cannibals. That the sisters eat the slave men. The more extreme suggesting that the men are alive at the beginning of the meal.

But nobody knows. The slaves’ fates may be mild and innocent.

Cult of the Dark Sisterhood
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