Do You Work for the Cause?
You say you believe in female superiority and supremacy (matriarchy, gynarchy).
Have you done anything today to further the advancement to a Matriarchal Society?
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Relationships Shouldn’t Stagnate
Sometimes in a relationship, a submissive will rethink the rationality of why he or she got into such a context. I’ve experienced it, and I’ve seen it happen many a time. I’m not saying this is definitely what is going on in your situation as I do not have the particulars, and I’m not a psychologist by any stretch of the imagination, but there does come a time quite often when someone starts to wonder about whether or not this is the right path that he or she has taken. And I’ve seen that same questioning come from dommes as well.
In such situations, my experience has shown me that the “other” side needs to recognize it and talk to the submissive to see if things are going the right direction. Quite often, it is easier to ignore that things are going wrong and then go along with the belief that there are other fish in the sea and that you can get along no matter what because you are the dominant side of the relationship. Unfortunately, that seems to be the direction that most of the problematic ones take, and the relationships sour and quickly dissipate.
This is a very common crisis for a relationship to go through, and it actually is a good sign in many cases. Often even good relationships will get shaky periodically as the couple work their way into a deeper level of commitment. Think of it as a renegotiation phase. Now and then the terms and parameters of even very positive relationships have to be renegotiated. If you don’t survive the renegotiation process, it generally means the death of the partnership. Still, survival rates are high, especially when there is genuine love and mutual respect to motivate the partners to reach an agreement.
A relationship which isn’t honestly mutual is fatally flawed. Some people have enough integrity to struggle to keep the relationship real. They’re the lucky ones who are most likely to gain real satisfaction in their partnerships.
Old usenet discussion.
Originally posted 2014-12-09 01:24:37.
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Matriarchal Mistress Owners understand men’s needs perfectly.
Beg for ane be grateful for punishment and discipline.
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Matriarchal Mistress Owners know slave husbands need daily discipline. With cane, crop, whip, tawse and hairbrush she keeps marital life on course. Her at the head of the household. Hubby on his knees, head bowed.
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Marital Female Supremacy: Chastity, Spanking, Shaming
Charlotte left many comments about her life and experiences as a dominant woman. She wrote about life as Mistress Wife. She took complete control of her husband.
Those of you who have never read many of Charlotte’s comments will probably enjoy them.
It will take a bit of digging (and perhaps multiple browser tabs) but I think you will find her words compelling.
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Photograph of Mistress Judy.
Sometimes I have turned long and excellent comments into posts. I always welcome writings by others on female-led relationships, Femdom lifestyle, female superiority and supremacy. I’m open to any F/m topic.
If feel like sharing your words, please do.
(If you are a site owner, I’ll include a link.)
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She may want your submission but to win the right to offer it when you are dating you may also need to be a traditionally attractive dating partner:
Many submissive men are also more passive or would feel more comfortable if a woman took control of the dating process, perhaps. In their perfect world, the interested domina would do the calling, courting, tell him where she wants to go, and even reduce the agonizing “is it appropriate to buy gifts or flowers now?” dilema for men by saying flat out, “You know, I’d love it for you to bring me flowers tonight.”
In reality, femdoms quite often still need to be aggressively courted. She may be interested, but if you don’t make an effort (and as Laura says, sometimes pulling out all the stops is even better), you may be forgotten, especially if she is being courted by multiple men.
I consider myself pretty aggressive and quite likely to be the pursuer in relationships, but I still do require a certain level of male aggression/courting/romancing, and there have been men that I would have not pursued if they had not aggressively courted me, first.
What this all means is that men — submissive or not — should understand that most women do like to be courted. That means calling her (granted, with an understanding that she is interested), taking the initiative on dates, picking places to go, making arrangements, being assertive and proactive on next steps (ie, saying at the end of the night, “I’ll give you a call in a couple days” — and DOING it!), doing romantic things.
Thread: How To Attract A Dominant Woman?
Originally posted 2014-12-10 00:24:50.
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Men Work; Women Relax
Males should not live for pleasure. That is selfish. Men’s days must be focused on service to Mistress Owner.
He performs chores without expecting thanks.
He completes tasks without being told.
The ideal man is one his Mistress Owner can forget is alive. Of course, she will always think of him when maintenance discipline is due.
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Mistress Owner Worship
Wives and Girlfriends are Goddesses. Every man should drop to his knees and worship the Supreme Deity of his life. Demonstrate your faith in her wisdom and ways. Give gratitude and thanks that she tolerates you and allows you to live as her slave.
Read Femdom Prayers.
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The submissive man’s handling of chores cuts two ways. Performing tasks is an important part of his servitude. His every act should ease his Mistress Owner’s life.
Regular performance of chores keeps the submissive male mindful of his status as servant. He duty to please his Mistress. It reinforce awareness of his inferior status.
Allowing a submissive man to skip his chores, postpone his tasks is no favor to him. The quality of his compliance to woman’s will stems from regularity.
If he is seriously ill or stressed, the pattern might be relaxed for a time. He can proceed to read the news or talk to friends when all his household work has been completed.
Originally posted 2014-12-10 20:03:15.
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Jonathan Lee Cover Gallery
Jonathan Lee was a relatively early small press Femdom publisher. Gynosupremacist Journal suggests that his material may have foced on the twin themes of female superiority and female supremacy.
The booklets whose covers I reproduce here are available from Alta-Glamour.
If you read Gynosupremacist Journal or some of the other publications or had contact with Jonathan Lee I hope that you will share some of your feelings and experieces by leaving a comment.
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Over 10,000 Pages of Free Femdom
I have over a dozen female domination and female supremacy sites. I encourage you to take a look in case some have art, photos, stories or articles that you enjoy.
Visit Sensual Sadist
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Many of the female led relationship blogs have grown silent. The husband met frustration and failure in his effort to convince his wife to take the reins of the marriage in her hands and treat him as vassal and subject.
Some of these tales were very sad. The man would acquire, say, a CB2000 and sought to get his wife to become his chastity keyholder. Sometimes the wife might oblige but only in unimpassioned, barely interested fashion. Only to please him when he wanted control of his sexuality to please her.
Or he’d buy a collar only to discover that she remained dead to the symbolism.
The wife would be at best tolerant; at worst disgusted in the change she saw in the man she married.
He’d try waiting on her hand and foot, hoping to win her over to loving female authority by stealth submission. There are people out there who preach that as sure means of conversion. Indeed the rhetoric of FLR at times can be terrifyingly pious as if it were a religion like Scientology.
That a woman can be converted to FLR if you only find the right method is as foolish as the idea that a lesbian hasn’t met the right man.
I could never think of any way to comfort or advise these men.
Originally posted 2014-12-11 09:24:57.
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By Celtic Queen
I’m not going to try and devise a new way to rule the world but here’s a thought. A good start would be to change our popular culture of “easy, low value sex”. Young women are constantly bombarded with images that show sexual equality begins with females adopting a male attitude to sex (ie very casual) and I don’t agree with this at all.
We need to somehow get our next generation of girls to understand their sexual power and mete it out wisely rather than devalue themselves. I cringe when I see pop videos with squirming man pleasing girls and hate the casual cruelty of the “hos” lyrics of R N B music. Yeah, I sound like my Grandma but easy sex undermines the gender power structure more effectively than any amount of crap legislation, male dominated politics etc.
Women don’t need to rule the world – they need to rule the men. In the UK, you could argue that our most inventive, far sighted and productive period in modern history was in the rather chaste Victorian era when men’ s talent, drive and enthusiasm was not deflected by a sexualised culture. Keep it special, keep it powerful and keep it valuable and men will step up to the mark accordingly. You only have to look to the middle East to see the impact of a culture that does not value females in anyway.
This comment was left by Celtic Queen on Females Should Rule The World.
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Lust vs Prudence
Not particularly F/m but a good long discussion:
That is, until he told me that he planned on starting a D/s relationship right away and didn’t figure there was any real need or point to getting to know each other first, he feels that trust and knowledge etc will develop as the D/s relationship grows.
I think almost the exact opposite, that in order to have a successful D/s relationship, you have to get to know each other and have a friendly relationship where you know enough about your partner to trust them enough to submit to them BEFORE you start playing around with D/s.
Originally posted 2014-12-13 13:25:29.
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My Happiness in Being Submissive and Masochistic
I got a note saying that someone on Informed Consent swiped this without credit. (It orginally appeared on Down On My Knees.) Rereading it I find I still enjoy it and thought I’d repost the list here.
Individuality – we each express who we are without regard to the bogus conventions, sham rules and kindred nonsense that is often propounded as truths on the web.
Erotic Beauty – Ordinary people they say have fifteen minutes of sex a few times a week. Pneumatic action followed by sleep. In our power exchange “sex” can last for hours and the afterglow for days. (Yeah, this is two words.)
Pet – I’m in love and on my knees. Resting my head on her knee and waiting for her hand to brush the back of my neck is one of the happiest spaces I can go to.
Creature – (Not really explored. But I want ten.) Less than human object. Existing to be used: inarticulate, obedient without thought.
Slave – My will vanishes. There seems to be an invisible wire that leads from her brain to mine. My brain becomes quiet, if I think it is only to make sure I obey.
Helpless – How odd it is to be a man who must struggle to reach these states. Thankfully chains and cuffs can help me find my way there.
Pain – I almost laugh as I type that word. My mind harks back to being bound at the dining room entry as she hit me. Would that next blog of the quirt be too much or not enough? Before she comes back I will go to my rose garden and cut a thick stem.
Suffering – As she hurts me it feels as if she is eating my heart like it is a rare delicacy. There is more than mere physical suffering to be explored.
Surrender – I prefer this word to submission. (And despise “sub” and “subbie.”) Doing what I’m told or really merely asked meshes deeply with my needs.
Worship – this is where the surrender is purest, becomes beatific. When this overcomes me I wish I were telepathic. There are no words, is no action with which I can really let her feel what is flowing through my heart.
Your words?
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Matriarchal Boot Worship
Worshiping Mistress Owner’s boots is a privilege.
If a man shows unhesitating service. Genuine fealty, obsequious demeanor. Working without hope of praise. Openly confesses his inferiority to every member of the superior gender.
Then She may allow him to demonstrate his true submission by kissing and licking her boots.
He does not worship the boots. Boot worship is akin to church communion – ritual reverence of the divine. The Divine Feminine is the person of his Mistress Owner.
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Men Who Cannot Have Erections
Enforced male chastity is one of the tools the Superior Female uses to control her submissive males and slave men.
Many Mistresses who practice female supremacy find erect penises disgusting. Male chastity devices with spikes and electroshock circuits punish every erection.
Fear of pain stops men from having erections. A properly trained male no longer needs a physical orgasm prevention device. Mistress Owner’s training has stripped him of the ability to feel phallic pleasure.
Men should strive to achieve permanent limpness as a way to honor Mistress Owner. Let her know you are a thankful slave.
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The Femdomocracy has established male training centers in all part of the world.
Male slaves who are marked from birth for lives of hard labor in mines and mega-ranches are treated as beasts and kept in herds. Their lives are almost devoid of consciousness: work, eat, and sleep. Nothing else.
Slaves whose tasks bring them into regular contact with woman are groomed for a life of more comfortable service. They learn by rote and their errors are corrected with stern discipline. The lesser sex must never forget humility and obey all orders with alacrity.
When not sleeping the slaves almost constantly in the presence of Mistress Trainers. An unrequested word, gesture or movement meets with instant punishment. They are drilled in humble speech and posture.
The slaves who respond adequately to their training receive rare pets on the head. Allowed to kiss a woman’s boot. There are a few males who will not or cannot conform the life of an inferior slave. They are used to provide the most edifying terror. Each slave in the audience recognizes his easy disposability. .
When considered a polished and complete servant a slave is assigned to a temporary Mistress Owner who will test the slave before it is made the permanent property of a woman.
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Marital Female Supremacy: Chastity, Spanking, Shaming
Charlotte left many comments about her life and experiences as a dominant woman. She wrote about life as Mistress Wife. She took complete control of her husband.
Those of you who have never read many of Charlotte’s comments will probably enjoy them.
It will take a bit of digging (and perhaps multiple browser tabs) but I think you will find her words compelling.
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