A malesub should focus all of his attention on pleasing his Mistress. His performance of assigned chores must be timely and perfectly performed. The submissive man should be striving to anticipate his Mistress’ future needs and requirement.
His goal is to be a woman’s perfect servant. The malesub must strive to eliminate idle thoughts. Mindfulness is an important part of a man’s submission.
For the submissive male to count strokes or lashes during corporal punishment sessions may seem hokey. Counting the strokes insures that his mind as well as his body is being disciplined.
For this to be effective his spanking or whipping must be severe. The pain must be strong enough to make concentration difficult. The punishment begins anew if he loses count. Reducing the period of punishment is the submale’s motivation.
As he learns to focus on the numerical sequence while suffering he is cultivating the mental discipline to be ever mindful of his service to his Mistress. Thus he will not allow trivialities and vain speculations interfere with thorough compliance with her wishes.
Counting the Strokes (F/m Punishment)
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