Male Orgasm Denial
By Apollionaire
The careful regulation of the male’s ejaculation is what I refer to as “Chastity”. As a long time practitioner of Taoist Yoga, I can attest to the health benefits of semen retention. I recall once, someone asking the question, “Is it harmful to permit my male to become frequently aroused and forbid him to ejaculate?” I can assure you there is absolutely no health hazard. I personally have practiced semen retention for 7 years.
The practice involves arousal up to the point of ejaculation but retaining the semen by strong contraction of the under trunk musculature. In other words, hold it in. Orgasm is very possible without ejaculation. (but you may not want your sub to know that!) All the same pleasurable sensations occur, only no seed issues forth. However, it is better not to go that far and instead collect the Jing in the head (concentrate on the cranial cavity), prior to the dry pumping.
This practice is unthinkable for most men, as it takes a great deal of discipline to refrain from ejaculating. Most males will have to be trained very gradually. Weaned from the addiction, so to speak. As it is written in the ancient Chinese medical manuscripts the male should emit only after every 100 coitions. Some authorities say not at all, some say more often is permissible. Winter is the worse time to permit an emission, Spring the best. Under age 30 more frequently, over 50 not at all.
Train the male at first by allowing emission only at specific times or when specific conditions are met. Perhaps once every other week or so to start and gradually tapering to complete chastity. Or perhaps making him kneel and masturbate for you only when you have a particular friend over to visit. (Always have the male consume the ejaculate after you inspect it. Or save it for yourself. It is a most potent elixir.)
There are many good devices, and belts available to assure compliance in beginners and untrustworthy males . The lust crazed male, deprived of ejaculation, can by your best toy if you can keep control.
Most males will do anything if they think you will let them come. Have fun, but don’t give in. You must absolutely convince your male that his emission is your decision. Always punish for unauthorized emission, nocturnal emission included. (this IS controllable) Periodically reward for showing self control and restraint. After about 3 months of continuous retention, a definite improvement in general health is noticeable.
Above all else I think this topic speaks more loudly than any other about the state of the world ruled by men. Men have no self control. They see ejaculation as the point of sex. Worse, they often lack the control to prolong the act to fully satisfy the woman.
This attitude is at the core of many of the problems plaguing the world today. We squander our essence personally, we squander our resources globally. We cut down our forests, pump out the essence from the earth (oil, coal, natural gas, etc.), and waste it as though it were inexhaustible.
There is a story that goes something like: “The Yellow Emperor had 500 concubines who were forbidden to have sex with anyone but the Emperor. Often they would have to wait long periods for their turns. They became weak and ill and complained to the Emperor that they needed to have the yang essence that he wasn’t able to provide regularly enough. So, the Emperor dispatched a battalion of his finest soldiers to satisfy his concubines. When he went to check on them he found a group of weak, lethargic men. Confronting one of his concubines he asked who these men were. She replied, these are the empty bottles from the medicine you sent us.”
Truly if men can not learn to personally conserve their essence, how can they ever learn to conserve our natural resources. Soon, if men don’t change, our planet may be an empty bottle.
Ejaculation Prevention (Male Chastity)
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