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That the “Mistress / Wife” isn’t sufficiently demanding and bossy or enough of a disciplinarian is a common complaint among men in the early stages of attempting to establish a female led marriage.
This is inadvertent honesty. If the woman doesn’t want to be more than so assertive, controlling or punishing and the relationship is all about her pleasure then what could be the complaint?
The reality is that the submissive husband wants his jollies.
There’s no shame in that. But it is hypocritical to say it is all about her when it is at least as much about you.
Be honest that dominance and submission has to be mutual to work. The truth will diminish confusion and minimize feelings of hurt and neglect.
Originally posted 2008-05-16 10:00:29.
My Wife Isn’t Dominant Enough!
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