Submissiveness is Contingent
Crazy bad stuff from the horny men who’ve never been in a F/m relationship abounds on the internet.
To them submission means subjecting a man to horrific punishment if he doesn’t abase himself completely as a worthless creature fit only to be used. Perhaps even if his ordinary human limitations leave him unable to accomplish an assigned task.
These guys masturbate to those scenes and project them onto the men who have found dominant female partners.
Apodicticly: A submissive man is one who desires to submit.
He may merely desire to be controlled. Perhaps even to be guided.
The emotional need to be dominated is independent of a desire to be punished or pure masochistic desire for pain and humiliation. Most who are submissive also want the whippings. To varying degrees.
That a man is masochistic is no shame. It doesn’t make his submission less worthy. It is only the lonely, never affiliated in flesh and blood with a real female top who suggest otherwise.
The levels and degrees of submission and dominance are to be resolved by the two people involved. According to their needs and desires and the unique chemistry of their specific interaction.
Don’t let the wise ass wankers on the web mislead or fuddle you.
Originally posted 2011-08-15 13:48:41.
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