She may want your submission but to win the right to offer it when you are dating you may also need to be a traditionally attractive dating partner:
Many submissive men are also more passive or would feel more comfortable if a woman took control of the dating process, perhaps. In their perfect world, the interested domina would do the calling, courting, tell him where she wants to go, and even reduce the agonizing “is it appropriate to buy gifts or flowers now?” dilema for men by saying flat out, “You know, I’d love it for you to bring me flowers tonight.”
In reality, femdoms quite often still need to be aggressively courted. She may be interested, but if you don’t make an effort (and as Laura says, sometimes pulling out all the stops is even better), you may be forgotten, especially if she is being courted by multiple men.
I consider myself pretty aggressive and quite likely to be the pursuer in relationships, but I still do require a certain level of male aggression/courting/romancing, and there have been men that I would have not pursued if they had not aggressively courted me, first.
What this all means is that men — submissive or not — should understand that most women do like to be courted. That means calling her (granted, with an understanding that she is interested), taking the initiative on dates, picking places to go, making arrangements, being assertive and proactive on next steps (ie, saying at the end of the night, “I’ll give you a call in a couple days” — and DOING it!), doing romantic things.
Thread: How To Attract A Dominant Woman?
Originally posted 2014-12-10 00:24:50.
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