Switching is Inauthentic
A switch is a person who enjoys being both dominant and submissive and/or sadist and masochist.
Many silly, foolish, idiotic people – mostly submissive males – say that a real dominant woman can’t switch. That if a woman can enjoy submitting as well as controlling she’s a fake, phony domme.
From a very, very long discussion of “real femdom:”
I’ve gotten so sick of being looked down upon as ‘not a *real* femdom’ because I also happen to have a masochistic streak. Part of the pleasure I take from switching, too, comes from the sense of *balance* it gives us. All the responsibility for making our sex life exciting doesn’t just rest on one of us. I don’t get feelings of guilt for being the dominant/sadistic one, because I know I can take exactly what I dish out. I just take it less often.
And, oh yeah, it’s fun.
Originally posted 2014-10-23 15:58:38.
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