Rules for Volunatary Male Slaves

Humanity & Mindfulness

I was skimming through lists of rules for consensual slavery. I may write about some of them later. I thought I’d try dashing out my own list.

My list ignores distinctions like whether the role is submissive or slavish. Lifestyle, intermittent or for play partners. I tried to concentrate it into what might be called core values. Or my sense of what is common to the full spectrum of D/s relationships.

I’m not claiming that my list is definitive (indeed I tried to keep it open ended). As physicists say it is a thought experiment.

Written in a F/m framework only because all of the others weren’t. Limited to ten rules by design. Order is arbitrary.

Your quibbles, additions are as always invited.

1. A slave must be honest from the moment he begins communicating with a dominant woman. Never lie about relationships, experience level or anything else.
2. A slave will seek to understand want he wants and needs and to know the difference between the two.
3. A slave needs to realize some fantasies will never be more than just that. And that some of his fetishes may not strike a responsive chord within her.
4. A slave has a duty to act as an intelligent human being.
5. A slave repays a dominant woman’s attention with respect, humility and obedience. This is inherent in the nature of the relationship.
6. A slave always communicates his feelings as clearly as possible.
7. If the slave feels that his needs aren’t being met he will confess that respectfully without seeming to make demands.
8. A slave will watch to see if his dominant woman is tired or not feeling well and focus on her comfort, not on having a session.
9. A slave should never think of a dominant woman as a torture and humiliation machine. That is objectifying her.
10. A slave will remember that D/s is a relationship between people. He will strive to never forget that the dominant woman is a human being. That regardless of the power relationship thoughtless behavior on his part can inflict emotional hurt on the other person.

Civility, honesty and honor sum it up.

Originally posted 2012-10-11 07:39:54.

Rules for Volunatary Male Slaves
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