Femdom Butt Plugs
Finding that people are looking for information on the female dominant use of butt plugs on submissive males I dug around on Usenet.
First of all, there’s no such thing as too much lubricant! Start with a gloved latex finger, well lubed, then two. Once they can be tolerated easily without discomfort, move up to a small dildo or vibrator. Always put a condom over it, for two reasons, first of all, it’s easier to clean, and secondly, even the person’s own bacteria can be a problem if left uncleaned or unsterilized.
I alway make sure my subs remember to breathe through his tummy and to make sure that he is doing so, I put my hand on it and keep encouraging him to breathe. It’s more difficult to clench muscles while breathing.
After he can tolerate a dildo or small vibrator, start with small butt plugs, again covered with a condom. Again, make sure these are very well lubed. The rectal cavity does not provide any natural lubricant.
One other thing, in any anal play, the sub should present his bottom in a clean condition. Not only is it polite, but there will be less danger to him.
Should there be any fecal matter in the rectal cavity, there is a chance it can scratch, abrade or even tear the membranes lining it, resulting in a very nasty infection if left unchecked. Why chance it?
I’ve got a question on butt plugs. While I now have several different shapes and sizes, I have the same problem with all of them – they tend to fall out easily. Actually, it feels more like they are pushed out. Short of superglue, which is probably a really bad idea (kidding), is there something different I should be doing?
My first wife solved that problem for me with a panty girdle. It had a seam up the back designed to enhance the “cleavage” that held everything just nicely. She also gave me her size too small panties .. a bit uncomfortable but effective.
I was wondering.. is there such a thing as a buttplug that can also act as a device to stroke the inner walls? like getting fucked while having it in you? Hope I am describing this well..
Although I’ve never experienced it myself (unfortunately), the electric butt plugs are said to do exactly that. I don’t mean the vibrating electric kind, I mean the ones that are used for electrotorture.
You see, the electrodes on the outside of the plug send a jolt into the sphincter muscles, causing the sphincter to contract tightly and immediately. This contraction has the effect of drawing the plug sharply into the sphincter. Essentially, the wearer fucks himself with his own anal muscles, and has no control over the matter at all. You can set the frequency, and the intensity, of the pulses by adjusting the settings on the control box.
I would imagine it would tend to occupy one’s mind, to say the least. I think you can get remote control switch boxes, but I’m not certain of that. And you can use it in the privacy of your bedroom, as well – you like your slave to fuck you, but still want to maintain control of the action? Fasten him in whatever position you like, positioning him so that he can easily enter you, and start tweaking that control box. Want him to pump harder? Dial up the intensity a notch or two, he’ll be quite unable to keep himself from plunging forward with each shock. Not going fast enough? Shorten up the intervals between pulses. He’s a human fuck machine, and it’s all in your capable little hands!
Basically, it would be something sub could use while walking in the mall (yes, I do like that image, sue me). One little push of the button and he’s having that buttplug make love to him while talking to a cashier. Stroking his insides, pumping slowly.. ahem.
There is two different kinds it seems like.. one that is an actual dildo (looks to be made of metal?) and a butt plug (nice and wide looking, metal too?) with electrical currents. Is there such a thing as a cross between a plug and dildo? something long that is gonna *reach* in and grab his attention
and one that is wide based enough to keep it in place? or am I asking for the impossible? Another thought is lube. He is gonna have to be dripping the stuff to keep it up as long as I require. How much would that interfere with the electrical current, etc?
Originally posted 2014-04-26 20:22:24.
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