Submissive Male Training and Conditioning
By Apollionaire
I use the term “Behavior Modification” to cover a wide range of practices all with the common purpose of making the male conform to your will by the use of rewards and punishments. It is important that you associate in your males mind, pleasure with the things you want and pain with the things you don’t want. The actual “behavior” is really irrelevant. What is important is that you eventually define completely for the male what IS a reward and what IS a punishment and that he agree with you. Frequently change the rules without notice. Demand unconditional and immediate obedience.
To completely control your male’s behavior you must control his mind, what he believes, his self image. Review every day with him how he feels and what he believes. Encourage him to be honest, reward him for it. Be sure you approve of all his thoughts and feelings.
Perhaps make a “Creed” for him to recite to you every day. Include in it a firm statement of all the things you want your male to believe and feel. (I am the slave of so and so, my sole purpose is to serve her pleasure. It is my joyous pleasure to clean her house, cook her meals and wash her clothes. I serve her well. I love to make her happy. I always do as I am told. etc. etc. etc.)
For example, as a punishment, a good old fashioned spanking (corporal punishment) or when you have fully trained your male in the area of semen retention, as a punishment force him to masturbate to ejaculation while you berate him for his inability to control himself.(Make sure it is as incomplete of an orgasm as possible, i.e. stopping all stimulation just before the point of no return, just enough to cause minimal ejaculation and loss of erection) Or, as a reward, have the male wash your panties, rub your feet, back, lick your pussy, suck a used tampon or some other choir.
If your manner demonstrates that you truly believe the activity is a reward or punishment, your male will likewise believe it. The transition must be gradual though. As I am not a hard core masochist, I have never been able to associate physical pain with being a reward, though it is certainly possible. There are nevertheless, certain activities that, by their nature are intrinsically either reward or punishment. It would be unrealistic to push these boundaries too far and expect much success.
I think that at a deeper level this is appealing because the male can give up responsibility and therefore guilt. I do as I am told therefore I am not responsible for my actions. I certainly can’t feel guilty over that which I have no control. The freedom from guilt permits the male to explore his submissiveness and fully surrender his will to the woman.
I omit here, for now, many aspects of Sadism/Masochism, primarily because I know people who are masochistic and not at all submissive. I also know individuals who are only interested in inflicting pain and could care less about dominating. In short my experience tends to lead me to generalize that S/M is more physically and less psychologically oriented. (So far as any powerplay is concerned, that is. Obviously what gives them the desire is rooted in the mind.)
These are some of the underlying factors I perceive as a male. They are the underlying factors I believe to reflect my own personal psychological reasons for finding the mentioned activities to be such a powerful stimulant to Jing. (why it gets me so hot)
I am sure it is so for other males as well. I would be most interested in hearing from women who also find this arousing and some of the deeper reasons why they think that might be so arousing to them. To hear the woman’s point of view.
Submissive Male Behavior Modification (F/m Psychology)
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