Female Led Relationships: Femdom Lifestyle
From the ancient times of usenet groups like soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm.femdom and soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm people have pretended their kinky sex fantasies are their real lives. Femdom discussion forums are sometimes thick with men pretending to be domes or at least retailing dreams as reality.
No surprise that this will to prettify a frustrated life should migrate to loving female authority blogs.
I remember following one man’s story as he told of becoming steadily more subjugated by his wife. Suddenly the familiarity of it registered. He was translating trite female domination erotica into bogus autobiography.
And I note some blogs have maybe five posts they repeat over and over again. Typically of being “bad” – sassy or thoughtless – and being punished. Often the punishment is described with the hungry detail of a true fetishist. But the “Mistress Wife” seems just an abstraction. Not a flesh and blood woman. More an automaton of power and punishment.
Sometimes I mark it as an inability to capture a relationship in prose. Other times I feel varying levels of skepticism.
Writing erotica as a diary isn’t a fault as such.
But.
Increasingly others – particularly men who want a female led marriage or relationship – turn to these blogs as sources of advice, inspiration, guidance. To them the blog author is proving an ideal to be matched and giving them a pattern they seek to emulate.
This is why LFA and FLR blogs should be read with caution. As should anything about sexual relationships by unknown people. (Including of course this blog.)
Sure there are plenty of honorable femdom bloggers but be careful in seeking to make your life match some lonely man’s fantasies.
Originally posted 2013-09-25 21:30:35.
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