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While there are certainly women who enjoy enforcing orgasm denial on men. But is the supposedly submissive male who seems addicted to being kept chaste. Who push it, won’t shut up about and often demand it.
Below a few speculations about the wellsprings and motivation that make men crave to be forbidden orgasms.
Male Chastity 1 : Erotic Play
Orgasm Denial for Hotter Sex
Boosting the intensity of sexual experiences is probably the most common motivation to male chastity as erotic play. Postponing sex results in a more passionate, intense experience when the period of denial ends.
For the woman to tease the male enhances the intensity.
Male Chastity 2 : Power Exchange
Orgasm Denial as Pure BDSM
Bill Ward was so tasteful.
Male orgasm denial is an intimate and direct mode of exerting authority for the dominant partner. Male chastity is a very pure and simple way to exercise the D/s dynamic. Submitting allows the submissive male the pleasure of his role.
Male Chastity 3 : Manliness
Male Chastity as Macho
The story of the world’s only fertile man.
Needing for your sexuality to be controlled is a confirmation of virility. Lustfulness can be seen as strong and macho. This is not unlike affectionately calling a female slutty.
Male Chastity 4 : Sexual Guilt
Chastity as Expiation
Some men feel guilty about their sexual desires and needs.Perhaps even guilty for being male. They may have been raised to regard sexuality as sinful. And women as pure. This perhaps is the mindset most likely to lead to belief in female supremacy.
Male Chastity 5 : Gender Dysphoria
Chaste Sissies
Gender identity dysphoria surely motivates some genetic males’ desire to be made chaste. Their penises feel unnatural, even ‘bad.’ Denial – along with sissyfication – enables them to come closer to being who they feel they really are.
Male Chastity 6 : Misbehavior
Passive Aggressive Intransigence
Part of the lore ( – assortment of urban legends? – ) of enforced orgasm denial is that the male becomes less attentive, helpful, perhaps becomes a downright shit once allowed an orgasm. How many times have I read this online? Countless. Examples from real life? None.
I’m not saying some men don’t experience some sort of psychic droop post-orgasm: that is biochemistry, not misbehavior.
But a man whose behavior substantially changes, becomes markedly unhelpful after having is either someone a woman shouldn’t be deeply involved with or who wants to be put back in his CB-6000.
A sort of invisible topping from the bottom. He – probably unconsciously – wants to return to a submissive, controlled status. So he insures that he deserves to have his cock locked back up.
And you never, ever know how much people say online applied to life as it is actually lived offline.
Male Chastity 7 : Bondage
Material D/s Symbolism
Submissive straight men, by their very nature, desire and need to feel under the thumb ( – heel – ) of a dominant woman. To be subdued by her. Often – on some level – helpless.
That is the root of the general appeal of bondage for all submissive persons. Physical limitation can be a satisfyingly unambiguous experience of a top’s control.
The CB-6000 aside from the obvious purpose of male orgasm regulation is a bondage device, albeit a very specialized one. It is bondage a man can experience when away from a dominant, even in public without embarrassment. Instances of thwarted erections are frustrating yet joyous highpoints of his submission.
A male chastity device is a tangible symbol of the power exchange.
You, of course, have your own speculations and beliefs. Tell me about them: leave a comment.
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