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Many BDSM couples F/m and otherwise seek a formal commitment and/or collaring ceremony that symbolizes the special bond of their power exchange.
Here’s one example that may suggest a public or private joining that fits your needs.
We come together in this place today to witness these two people make a commitment to each other that they are not at this time able to make under the laws of any land but which they know they must make.
This commitment is without end, depth, breadth or height. It is immeasurable, cannot be seen, touched or felt by anyone more than them. It is a locking of hearts, minds, spirits and souls. It strengthens them and makes them one.
GIVING OF THE COLLAR
Domme and submissive face each other with submissive kneeling at her feet.
Domme places the collar around submissive neck.
Domme
With the placing of this collar around your neck and your acceptance thereof, I vow to do everything I can to be worthy of you. I promise to hold you and keep you safe, to stretch you and give you flight, to respect the needs of our relationship above all others, to love you, honour you, support you in all things and be sensitive to your needs and desires all underpinned by the respect that I have for you and the deep and joyful knowledge that with you two halves are made whole.
I acknowledge the trust you have placed in me and the responsibility that goes with my acceptance of that trust.
I will never violate or even threaten to violate that trust.
I will endeavour to be open minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow. In times of trouble, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring people.
We will continue to love and enjoy all our children. Our home will always be haven for them and they will each know that they are not only accepted just as they are, but also adored and enjoyed.
I acknowledge and accept with all my heart the gift of submission you have made to me. The collar itself is a symbol of that which we already know… that you are mine and by it’s wearing you are safe to be everything that you are.
Do you accept this symbol in the spirit by which it is given you?
submissive
Yes, and this answer is given after deep reflection, unpretentious, in the spirit of my submission to you.
The collar you offer me is a powerful reminder of the control I have surrendered to you.
I accept this collar as an outward expression of your ownership of me.
I do so freely, fully and without restriction.
I agree to honour our relationship above all others, and seek to fulfil your needs and desires as you allow.
I promise to support you and to be there for you always when you need me.
I promise to always communicate openly and honestly with you keeping nothing from you.
I will strive to be the best soul mate that I can be for you and will not in anyway dishonour you.
I will love you also in silence within my soul.
I will wear this collar with pride, knowing that you love me, cherish me, respect me and hold me above all others.
And in my turn I promise to love, honour, respect and obey you for the rest of eternity
THE GIVING OF THE LOCK
submissive
With this lock I express the finality of my commitment to you and surrender my body and passion to you whenever it is closed.
Within the circle it closes, it allows me to do your will and allows me to follow in all directions possible.
It remains as a solid symbol of my trust in you without fear of outcome and allows me to give myself to you.
My trust in you is shown as I give my up my safe words.
By my desire to please and not because of fear of punishment.
It keeps me safely within your bond and excludes all others’ powers over me.
Domme
With each closing of this lock, I shall accept the depths of your passion, devotion, and trust and provide a haven where you are safe to express all desires to me knowing that I accept all that you have been, all that you are and all that you will be.
The collar is now locked.
THE GIVING OF RINGS
MISTRESS
(Placing the ring on her slave’s finger)
I ask you to wear this as an outward symbol of my ownership of you.
One that the whole world will see, but only a select few shall truly understand that you may feel the strength of my commitment to you at all times.
SLAVE
(Placing the ring on his Mistress’s finger)
I ask you to wear this as an outward symbol of your ownership of me.
One that the whole world will see, but only a select few shall truly understand that you may feel the strength of my commitment to you at all times.
CEREMONY OF THE ROSE THORN
With a thorn on the stem of her red rose, she pricks his middle finger and lets two drops of blood fall on the white petals of his rose. He then offers the thorns of his rose to her and she pricks her own finger.
She lets two drops fall to his rose, one alone and one on top of a drop of his.
The two then press their fingers together and make their vows to be joined by blood.
MISTRESS
I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever. I will trust you and honour you, care for you and protect you.
I will always be open and honest with you and will be eternally grateful for your wholly accepting love.
I will laugh with you and cry with you.
I will love you faithfully
Through the best and the worst, the difficult and the easy, what ever may come I will always be there.
As I have given you my hand to hold, I give you my life to keep.
SLAVE
I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever.
I will trust you and honour you, care for you and protect you.
I will always be open and honest with you.
I will laugh with you and cry with you.
I will love you faithfully
Through the best and the worst, the difficult and the easy, what may come I will always be there.
As I have given you my hand to hold, I give you my life to keep.
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