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20 Things About Femdom

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What is “Femdom” if not D/s and S&M with a certain arrangement of pronouns?

The list grew to twenty. Could’ve been seventeen but our fingers have left us with a prejudice favoring multiples of five.

Herewith a list of things for fetish folk to meditate on. Disagreement is as always invited.

  1. Female superiority and supremacy may make hot fantasies. Some like to play plantation slave and concentration camp victim. None are part of a sane reality.
  2. Gender is fluid – biologically, socially, personally. The only gender rules or roles anyone adopts should be those they enjoy.
  3. Genders don’t have inherent social behaviors. Women are not necessarily X nor men necessarily Y. Some are Q. Others are z1nMn3pR.
  4. Gender can be playful self-expression with components that can be manipulated blurred or blended.
  5. Clichés can be sexy and fun. One person’s stereotype is another’s archetype.
  6. The only rules are those agreed upon by two people who are at least trying to be sensible.
  7. Never be Dommelier (or slavier) than thou shall be the whole of the law.
  8. Pleasure is individual to each person’s nervous system: your greatest thrill may do nothing for someone else.
  9. Never try to convince a man that his wife can surely enjoy dominating him unless you are willing to pay his legal fees for a divorce.
  10. BDSM maybe entertaining, enriching, fulfilling: it isn’t a morality play.
  11. If anyone tells you that a real something or someone must be such-and-such warn them that you may be compelled to report them to the Society for the Suppression of Boredom.
  12. Other fetishists’ experiences are invaluable. Others ways of performing BDSM aren’t necessarily yours.
  13. Risk is always there. If you can’t accept this don’t cross the street. You probably shouldn’t even leave your house.
  14. Never be ashamed to admit you want or need a safeword or stop words.
  15. Don’t confuse letting yourself become miserable and unhappy with topping from the bottom.
  16. You may enjoy feeling like a slave but your slavery isn’t a legal, political or social actuality. Sorry.
  17. Porn – for better or worse – is not reality: understand what real life people are saying not what you want to hear. Then you can enjoy both porn and reality.
  18. Any BDSM relationship may embrace multiple levels of play from the most intense to the lightest.
  19. Never to be neglected in any century: honesty, communication, clarity, respect and empathy.
  20. TLAs – three letter acronyms – are much worse than four letter words.

It could’ve been twenty-one maxims. Or thirty-nine. Have one to add? Is there one you feel I should retract?

Hmmm. Maybe I should have cut this back to ten. 10 Best Things About BDSM seems a better list.

On my knees, hands and feet hogtied together behind me. It was the first time I submitted to Her. Sitting in Her chair looking at me, I felt I was being examined with an eye to being improved like a bit of hardware that required tuning.

I didn’t see her sudden slap against the side of my face coming.

“Do you know why I slapped you?”

“No “¦ ” not sure what to say I concluded ” “¦ Mistress.”

The second slap seemed faster and harder.

“The first slap was because I can and I like to. The second was for addressing me as Mistress. Did I give you permission to use that word?”

“No “¦ ?” confused I let the word peter out, half a question.

She grabbed an ear lobe between her fingers and bent down.

“Every slave has made common with his fantasies!”

“I “¦ ” Didn’t finish because one of her nails cut into my captive lobe.

“Shut up, never speak without permission. Never make an assumption. I may instruct you to call me My Lady, Goddess, M’am or even Mistress. I may change the words you address me every day. If you forget and use the wrong one you’ll be punished. Not that I need an excuse. But I’ll enjoy your knowing that you might’ve escaped a beating if only you’d been more careful.”

“For now I think you should say nothing.” And she reached for the ball gag on the table.

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