Following is a list of possible punishments, amusements, and slave rules for my mistress to consider.
The main reason for writing this list is to give my mistress amusement, ideas, and some insight into my own submissive fantasies.
Another imagined use for this list is to write down the various punishments (especially the medium and heavy ones) separately on little cards, and then keep them in jars to be drawn out when my mistress feels that punishment is called for, or simply for her amusement. She might enjoy making me close my eyes and picking out a card myself.
Basic punishments/amusements/rules:
1. I can be told to keep my eyes lowered, and not to look my mistress in the face, or even to look above the level of her face without permission.
2. I might be instructed to undress completely whenever coming in from
outside, quickly and without being asked. Once undressed, I might be expected to kneel or assume some other position in a particular place. I might also be required to dress myself in a collar, wrist cuffs, and ankle cuffs, which could be locked on. Locks could be provided open and without keys.
3. My mistress could tell me to invent a series of body positions for her, in an attempt to find submissive positions which she finds erotic.
4. I can be bound, or made to stand in a corner, and left that way, as a punishment, or to provide my mistress with a break from the pressures of sex and mistressing, while still maintaining her dominance over me. Being put in “storage” in this way might be especially useful if my mistress is feeling sexually satiated or disinterested, but wants to keep me in a state of submission/arousal/frustration. (During such times, I could also be put to different constructive uses by having chores assigned, and I could be instructed to carry them out without bothering my mistress, so that she may have some time that is more to herself even though I am there. Or, of course, I could be sent out on a walk, or on an errand of some kind.)
5. I can be given a specific list of chores and household responsibilities, and be expected to execute them with a bare minimum of oversight. Shortfalls in this area would be cause for further punishment.
6. My mistress can put me in a position that she likes, and paddle my ass 25 times.
7. I can be required to perform massage and body worship as much as
mistress desires. As a slave, it will be my hope that she will feel comfortable demanding these services as much as she likes, without feeling any sense of guilt or indebtedness.
8. My mistress could establish certain rituals of punishment or service that could be required at various times, for example each morning upon awakening, or at a certain time in the evening. Should I wake up before my mistress does, I imagine her allowing me to wake her up by gently licking and then sucking her nipples, or by going down on her. I am instructed to keep a vibrator handy in case she gets turned on and would like to give herself an orgasm that way. I imagine her coming, and then amusing herself by teasing me briefly before telling me to get up to start breakfast.
9. If my mistress decides to grant me the privelege of coming, I imagine her requiring me to come while standing or kneeling in front of her, on the floor or on a low table. She instructs me to keep my eyes lowered, and observes me as I masturbate. Perhaps she is dressed, while I am naked. I imagine this situation as being humiliating and erotic for me. My mistress might also choose to put a time limit on how long it can take for me to reach orgasm, and if I fail to come within that time, I could be made to wait until later before being allowed to try again.
Medium punishments:
1. I could be denied the privelege of orgasm, and/or of self-stimulation, for12 hours, a day, or more.
2. I am bound spread-eagle on my back for a period of time. Clamps may be put on my nipples, and my cock is whipped, and my balls pulled and lightly slapped.
3. I could be required to sleep in bondage.
4. I could be given 50 strokes with a paddle.
5. I imagine my mistress telling me that, in addition to placing her pleasure before my own, and working to give her more orgasms than I am allowed to enjoy, I will also be required to “pay” for each orgasm that she has. In general, these payments might be designed to help rekindle my mistress’s sexual arousal after coming, or simply to reinforce my subservient role. One method of payment might be that for each time she comes, I am expected to write a paragraph describing a suggested punishment for me to endure, or a service that I could provide for her. Or there could be standard punishments/services, or my mistress could devise them as she sees fit.
6. I could be required to kneel for a period of time, perhaps 10 or 15 minutes or more, on a hardwood floor. During this time, I would not be allowed to put any weight on my hands. To make the punishment more severe, I could be ordered not to sit back on my heels. I might also be required to perform some kind of body worship at the same time. [I don’t think I would like this one very much.]
7. I imagine being ordered to go through the ritual of masturbating (as described above), or of serving dinner (naked and subservient, of course, and perhaps waiting on my knees when I’m not needed), for my mistress and a female guest.
Heavy punishments:
1. I could be denied the privelege of orgasm, and/or of self-stimulation, fora number of days.
2. I could be denied any genital stimulation whatsoever for one or more days.
3. I am stripped and made to stand in the corner for a period of one hour, or more or less at my mistress’s discretion. Though I am not bound, I am told to observe the following rules: A. I must keep my feet flat on the floor, and not move them. B. I must keep my legs straight, and not bend my knees at any time. C. I must keep my hands pressed flat together behind my back. D. I must maintain good general posture. Any time I break one of these rules during the period of punishment, 15 minutes will be added to the punishment period. My mistress may choose to try to startle me, or to torture or tease me during the punishment period, or not, at her whim. I could be blindfolded during this time, and if my mistress wished to leave the room, she might choose to trace the outlines of my feet on a paper on the floor, so that if I moved my feet it would be easier for her to tell.
4. I could be bound spread-eagle on my back, and an electric whip could be used on me, focusing primarily on my cock.
5. I could be given 100 strokes with a paddle.
GAMES
1. “Surrender” I imagine that I have not been allowed to orgasm for two or more days, and my mistress decides to give me a chance at release. The chance takes the form of a torture session which takes on some element of competition between my mistress, in her sadistic role, and me, in my masochistic one.
I am tied spread-eagle on my mistress’s bed, and then tortured in various intense ways. Tight clamps might be put on my nipples, or my cock could be whipped, with an electric whip, or some other small, stinging instrument. Any part of my body could be whipped, shocked, paddled, hot-waxed, or otherwise tormented.
If at any time I find the torture to be too much, I will have the option of saying “I surrender,” and I will be released. However, in doing so I will give up any chance of being allowed an orgasm for another day or more. Other punishments might be added to this one as well, to add to the sting of defeat, and provide greater incentive to endure the torture until my mistress decides I have had enough (or she has). I imagine my mistress taking pleasure in torturing me, and making the effort to get me to surrender. If she is successful, I imagine her enjoying my continued frustration, and whatever other penalties she may have decreed.
If my mistress feels that I have endured long enough, and she has not been able to persuade me to surrender, then I will be rewarded by being allowed to come, perhaps while worshipping my mistress in some way.
A time limit might also be imposed on the period of torture, which only my mistress is aware of.
(By Karen on a newsgroup many, many years ago.)
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