I think the rules are ideal, and probably written by a sub who is like me. However, they presume a loving relationship, where the wife treats the husband almost exactly like a loved but very obedient child, who also is her slave, and expected to do everything for her, which she also expects.
This is total and irresistible loving slavery. If you are going to ask for it, then accept it. You are a child in the relationship, and she is the adult, so she can always tell you what to do, and knows what is best for you, and that includes total honesty and obedience.
She will want you to be happy, so won’t beat you, but she might very well want you to discard your interests for hers, so she can find you more interesting to talk to. It’s up to her what you should learn.
I would think that the submissive pleasure from that scenario would be impossible to resist. That would be a 24/7 dizzy spell of pleasure.
There are certainly tradeoffs in your life, but the benefit is actual and total slavery with a mistress who loves you and wants your happiness, just as she’d want the happiness of her little boy. That’s the only loss of freedom you have, that of an adult. You spent many years as a child, and were happy then.
As for all the domestic work, that’s not difficult, and no different than women had to deal with for hundreds of years. With all the modern appliances, it should be no problem. If you were living alone, you’d be doing all of it. Now you just need to do it for another person, and she might want everything ironed, and a great home-cooked meal every night, her shoes polished every time she wears them, and a few other changes.
That’s not much different than a woman’s life 100 years ago, or a working wife in the 1950’s. Women obeyed their husbands, and did everything around the house. Her joy was to cook food he loved, take pride in how he looked, and to make sure he was relaxed at night after his hard stressful day at work. These were actual values, which women major women’s magazines encouraged publicly.
The men often totally controlled the finances, and gave the wife an allowance.
It was the wife’s role to learn to adapt to her husband’s friends, and their wives, and to learn what he liked, to be interesting, for the benefit of the relationship. Women were always attuned to the relationship and the husband as their main focus.
What’s the difference, as a practical matter? These rules sound “dominant”, but frankly were the rules women lived by for decades in tens of millions of marriages, , including doing their “duty in the bedroom”, and were very happy.
You need to leave your adult male ego in the trash can, totally, and accept the role of a husband who is simply in a total role reversal of a type of marriage which was common 55 years ago. As women were “girls” then, you will be a “boy”. She’s not going to want you to interrupt some discussion she is having with other adults to express your opinion on something important, any more than a husband many decades ago would want a his little wife to inject her views into something which she doesn’t need to be concerned about. It wasn’t a woman’s place to do that. It’s not a submissive husband’s place to do that either, or a child’s.
She’ll want you to learn a great deal about cooking, perhaps sewing, and other interests which are consistent with her happiness. That’s your role. Many women love these things; not because they are women, but because they can be interesting and fun. You aren’t born with a love for sewing or cooking.
She may want you to read some romance novels, if she enjoys them, so you can discuss them with her, or perhaps because they have no violence, or because they focus on love, or for other reasons. If she doesn’t want you to read about or watch fiction which has violence or male sexism, then that’s her decision, and you can learn to enjoy the programs and books she chooses for you, just as huge numbers of people do.
She’ll want you to integrate with her friends, rather than her bothering with your friends, just as men did. She might let you do things with your friends, but it’s not an equal relationship, so you need to understand that anything she wants is more important than everything you want. That’s what you told her you wanted. Since you will know all about domestic things, perhaps home decor, fashion, sewing, cooking, and other interests your wife wanted you to learn, instead of sports and other things she has no interest in, you should be able to make friends easily with her female friends, and discuss these things with them, rather than politics or something which is better left to women to discuss, who are affected by it, and have a reason to understand it. You’ll never have any money of your own again, so that stuff shouldn’t concern you in the least, any more than any of us should have any concern about or interest in how to fly our own private jet. Your wife is taking care of you totally, and dealing with that. Unless she wants you to learn about that, you never will, and she’d probably rather you learn all about the domestic stuff. She has her own adult friends to discuss those things with.
Millions of women weren’t permitted to argue with their husbands, and had to learn to deal with being a perpetual child, as regards him. Millions of them were very happy. It’s not licking boots. It’s simply being like a totally obedient and loved child, which is what husband’s treated their wives like.
If many millions of wives lived this life and were happy, so can a submissive husband. Most of these wives weren’t getting nearly the submissive pleasure out of this that you are going to get, so your life is infinitely better than theirs was, and they were happy.
You are simply discarding the traditional male role, and totally embracing the very traditional female role. It’s not the female role for you, but the male role, since you think it should be the male role, at least for you. That’s all you are doing.
There is nothing wrong with that. It’s simply unusual. Get away from gender stereotypes, and the male ego, and explain to me why you can’t embrace that role as well as any wife in history, almost none of whom had vast submissive pleasure to help them enjoy that role.
It is a very normal role. It’s simply not normal for this era and your gender. There is nothing in the male or female brain which programs your interests in, based upon your gender. You can give up golf, sports, an instead learn to love to cook, and sew, and garden, just as any “person” can, of either gender.
Husbands “asked” their wives to get them a drink, or whatever, but it was actually a polite order. He expected it, and she always did it.
You can talk with your wife’s friends who enjoy these things, and any of their spouses who may also enjoy these things. Many of them will share some of these interests. Nearly all of them will be women, but so what? You have rejected the male role, so won’t have much in common with men. That’s just a reality of your new role. You don’t know anything about sports, and they don’t know anything about sewing, and neither of you has any interest in learning about the other person’s interests. To each his own.
For a service submissive, this is pure Heaven, and nothing bizarre as a lifestyle, since it was the lifestyle for tens of millions of couples for hundreds of yearas. The idea that it is unrealistic is unsupported by massive evidence. The only difference is that it’s the husband who has the totally subordinate role in your relationship.
Male subs can’t seem to get rid of their male ego. They want episodes of submission, but that male ego wont’ let them surrender to what is/was a very appealing lifestyle for tens of millions of people. She is happy, having the control she wants, the power, the money, and the wonderful home life, with a husband she loves, and who loves her. You are happy because you are submissive 24/7, and are making her as happy as possible, in the totally subordinate role you love.
You both live in a perfect home, with wonderful meals, clothes which are always washed and ironed. Serving meals to her and her friends, and drinks, is part of your role, as it was for wives. People will become accustomed to it, so long as you don’t kneel at her feet. It makes both of you happy. Be happy.
There is no law which says a female can’t be the total head of the household, and many women will enjoy she has that role, and you don’t. Become friends with them, and they will be good friends, totally accepting of your role. If you are not ashamed of yourself, people won’t tend to be ashamed of you.
Some will admire you, realizing how very strong you need to be to accept that role. It’s easy to be brave when you are doing something most people do. Going against the grain takes real courage.
Wives got their husbands slippers for centuries. You can get hers if she wants, and take off her shoes, and also do her nails if she wants, or wash and set her hair. This is not fatiguing work. Anyone can learn it and become interested in it.
Forget that male ego, and do it willingly and forever. Focus on her totally, just as women were required to do, and were often very happy. This is not a difficult scenario to live, nor an unrealistic or bizarre one, as a person of whatever gender, if it’s what both people want in principle and to make them happy. You simply need the courage to live it.
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