A guy wrote that he was doing his Christmas shopping:
i also spotted a cb-3000 chastity device in a toy store nearby work, and i want to buy it for Her and present it to Her. Trouble is She probably wouldn’t know what to do with it! So what i was thinking was trying to locate some stories or real life testimonials about the advantages of keeping your husband in chastity, i would present the device to Her at Christmas along with all Her other gifts and let Her read the stories to spark Her mind
You can just see the look on his wife’s face when she opens that mysterious looking thing. Though I do remember a few men who got a chastity device as a birthday or Christmas present.
A few people replied. As did I:
Much of what is put up on the web about “advantages” of chastity is just folklore. A man who is better behaved because he’s wearing a CB-3000 is really one who misbehaves as a way to get it put on him.
I think you should just honestly tell her that you would appreciate it if she’s help you explore this because you think it will make you happy. If she does then make sure her kindness to you is reciprocated by kindness to her.
Since she loves you your happiness will make her feel good. And as your life-partner she will appreciate any additional helpfulness and attentiveness you bring to your relationship. I think you’ll see it is really easier to cultivate and sustain a D/s dynamic that is rooted in mutual happiness than BDSM fiction.
It got me to thinking about instances in my own love affairs when either I or my lover should have expressed some desire clearly and directly. It is easy to go unheard if you are coy or mumble your wish under your breath.
And to strive to be more obliging. Often I fear I failed to be. Intimate times with our partners might prosper more if for fifteen seconds we paused to get past the “No” that instantly rises in our mind and weigh the mutual happiness that might be found in “Yes.” Often our objections are rooted in trivia.
Anyway the guy came back to say:
… i think its best leave it for now as rightly pointed out this is probably for me more than my Wife, its Her birthday the 31st Dec so there’s a few more presents to be bought
Then:
just sold my sony psp for 270 euro… so could spend some of that on the cb 3000
Maybe he’ll return and let us know how it went.
Chastity Belt Christmas Present
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